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What's The Etiquette regarding STI certs (need a few opinions)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
22 weeks ago

So i am very new here.

Being a guy i don't exactly have women falling over to get jiggy with me!

But i have been invited to about 3 gangbangs. After making initial contacts!

When i brought up safety, you could hear crickets lol

Is there like an unspoken rule where you just trust whatever you are told?

Or is the proper way to say heres mine show me yours? (sti certificates)

can a few people chime in? especially couples, regular gangbangers and everyone else!

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
22 weeks ago

Bump

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By *ete.RachaelTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Basically always a risk . Rx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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22 weeks ago

Central

Reports from clinics don't potentially inform the subject which tests have been taken, as some areas just provide a summary 'all clear' type confirmation. There is also a potential delay. before a test can indicate there's an infection, which may be several weeks, after having sex. In other words, unless someone is celibate for a couple of months, then the results are meaningful only for date it was taken, minus any period that the test couldn't have produced a positive result for, as well as which tests were taken, which don't always get indicated on the test results.

It is always worth assuming that any partners could potentially be a vector for an infection to reach you and for you to take full responsibility for your own sexual health. You can hope that others do the same and discuss your health between you. It's probably easier in 2 on 1 settings than in large groups. Certainly. don't be swayed by others and only engage in the ways that are right for you, with any partners.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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22 weeks ago

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"Reports from clinics don't potentially inform the subject which tests have been taken, as some areas just provide a summary 'all clear' type confirmation. There is also a potential delay. before a test can indicate there's an infection, which may be several weeks, after having sex. In other words, unless someone is celibate for a couple of months, then the results are meaningful only for date it was taken, minus any period that the test couldn't have produced a positive result for, as well as which tests were taken, which don't always get indicated on the test results.

It is always worth assuming that any partners could potentially be a vector for an infection to reach you and for you to take full responsibility for your own sexual health. You can hope that others do the same and discuss your health between you. It's probably easier in 2 on 1 settings than in large groups. Certainly. don't be swayed by others and only engage in the ways that are right for you, with any partners. "

On the plus side, swingers do tend to test more frequently than the general population

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
22 weeks ago

Thanks i think thats the hard truth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
22 weeks ago

thanks for this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
22 weeks ago

Just a follow up question!

How common is bareback and for those who do it often, do they do that with couples or singles who are regulars only?

Just want to get an idea before dipping my toe!

Are STD'S AND STI's just the norm for swingers?

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By *uliette500Woman
22 weeks ago

Hull

Some people will test and others won't. Just like some will meet bareback and others won't. It is something to discuss before you meet. You are responsible for your own safety and the risks you choose to take.

Just because someone has results saying they tested clean last week doesnt mean they are clean today.

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By *iss DevilWoman
22 weeks ago

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"Just a follow up question!

How common is bareback and for those who do it often, do they do that with couples or singles who are regulars only?

Just want to get an idea before dipping my toe!

Are STD'S AND STI's just the norm for swingers?

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What do you mean, if STDs are a norm for swingers? Do you assume we are all riddled with them? If yes, you are highly mistaken as swingers are much more likely, compared to the general population, to test regularly and use protection. Some swingers do engage in more risky bareback sex, but it's your choice whether you want to engage in that, too. I'd say be mindful of your own health, go only as far as you're comfortable with, test regularly but don't expect others to give you a clean bill of health before every meet.

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By *iss DevilWoman
22 weeks ago

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Just because someone has results saying they tested clean last week doesnt mean they are clean today. "

Exactly this. They may have engaged in risky sexual behaviours right after they've taken the test, but also they may not have given any potential issues time to develop before testing. Different STDs have different incubation periods.

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