FabSwingers.com forum: The travails of an optimist

By *ezmondo OP Man
28 weeks ago

Banbury

So, I'm one of life's optimists. It's true I've taken a test and science told me.

This site can be a bit tricky for me. I see a lady I like and I message her in the event it may get read. All that hope and anticipation goes into that message and it remains unread for days.

I know that ladies can get inundated, I respect that. I don't blame them for not answering or reading them all. Screening is a very sensible thing to do. I respect it and I know not to pester.

It's just a little disheartening for this opportunity it's all, which is in no way their fault. It's all mine as an optimist. But I'm also determined and so I shall endeavour and maybe, just maybe it shall pay off.

By *mileyculturebelfastMan
28 weeks ago

belfast

Delete your message in your sent items so you dont know if its been read or not.

By *ezmondo OP Man
27 weeks ago

Banbury

Well I guess that could work. However I still know I've sent those messages.

I guess the tagline of the Shawshank redemption was wrong. "Fear can hold you prisoner, hope can set you free". Hope is a much much crueler warden.

I will take your advice and maybe implement it with a slight twist delete it after 2 days.

My journey continues...