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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm a 26 year old newbie to the scene from Lincoln.

I've spoke to some really nice people, but i just cannot seem to get a meet...am i doing something wrong or am i just butt ugly?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile is ok lol

Might have a little more response if you convince your girl to join you as a couple

We personally dont mind attached men as long as they are honest about it

But you will find a lot of couples and single girls dont like people who play behind their partners back

Good luck

Craig

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your reply, i have tried to get the misses up for it but not interested.

Any ideas how to pursuade her? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slowly and dont push lol

I was lucky met les seven years ago,told her straight away what i did and she took to it like a duck to water lol

Suggest a social meet first there are plenty in the events bit on here

So she can see we anint all pervs or raving nynpos pmsl

Good luck

Craig

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheers for the advice mate! I would love all her holes filled!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for your reply, i have tried to get the misses up for it but not interested.

Any ideas how to pursuade her? lol"

Simple - you dont !!

If she's interested she'll join you, if she isn't, she won't. But if you feel the need to pusuade or coerce her into doing something that she isn't 100% happy about, as sure as God made little green apples, it'll backfire

Would that be worth it ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i understand what your saying but i want to explore 3somes etc but i still want to be with her.

Things have changed recently, we've moved in together, i'm not sure if she might change her mind now... or am i clutching at straws.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like i said slowly and dont push and remember NO means No

Did i mention dont push it lol

Craig

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

don't get me wrong although i would love her to do it i would never force her into anything she didn't want to do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i understand what your saying but i want to explore 3somes etc but i still want to be with her.

Things have changed recently, we've moved in together, i'm not sure if she might change her mind now... or am i clutching at straws."

Not wishing to dampen your hard on, but I personally think you could be clutching at straws. I note that you say, "I want to try ...." wheras really it should be, "We want to try .."

From our personal point of view, we both have to be happy to do anything and if one of us isn't happy, or even if one of decided that swinging was no longer for us - we'd both quit and that would be the end of it, nothing behind each others backs or anything like that, it would just stop ...

But each to their own, but be careful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok thanks for advice anyway...

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