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By *anny122b OP   Man
31 weeks ago

nearby

Wife is naughty at times but I want her to do so much more. The thought of sharing her is a massive turn on as is swapping g her for another guys wife. We live close to 2 awesome clubs so lifestyle would be awesome if I could get het to take first step. Any tips?

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By *stwo60Couple
31 weeks ago

Hampshire

Have you considered asking her how she feels about it, perhaps tell her you are on a swingers site and she if she fancies joining?

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By *inkyones200Couple
31 weeks ago

leeds

Firstly talk a lot chat about fantasy's find whot would turn hur on make shure you are comfortable tho because hur fantasy might not be same as yours . Dont rush things if she says yes to a club say and make shure you not gona go with the intention of playing with others straight away maybe just go on a good social night let hur see the place

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By *rankie bricksMan
31 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

D like to encourage my wife, we have talked about ideas, no experience low confidence

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
31 weeks ago

Scotland

Have you asked her if she wants to “be shared” or to see you with another woman? This is not something you can go into if either of you have any insecurities and does require a lot of honest communication. What would you say if she said she would be happy to have another man but not for you to have another woman? Or vice versa? These are all things you have to agree on before you even think about taking the first steps. Good luck

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By *amie e AureliaCouple
31 weeks ago

Brazil/London

One New Year I said to my wife we should come up with a fantasy wish list each. We both had to come up with 5 things we would like to do in the following year.

Most of it was things between us like outdoor sex, sex in the car etc but I put down a visit to a swingers club.

Over a bottle of wine we agreed we would go to a London club just to watch and if she didn't like it we would leave.

The rest is history so to speak.

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By *oupleforVWE69Couple
31 weeks ago

horny town

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By *wing2023Couple
31 weeks ago

london

A suggestion for a voyeuristic evening at a swing club is always a winner

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By *ovinglife!40Man
31 weeks ago

Hinckley


"Wife is naughty at times but I want her to do so much more. The thought of sharing her is a massive turn on as is swapping g her for another guys wife. We live close to 2 awesome clubs so lifestyle would be awesome if I could get het to take first step. Any tips? "

You have been open and honest with her about your profile on here?

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By *naswingdressWoman
31 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Talk to her.

If she says no, have a wank, and then forget it.

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By *rankie bricksMan
31 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"Have you asked her if she wants to “be shared” or to see you with another woman? This is not something you can go into if either of you have any insecurities and does require a lot of honest communication. What would you say if she said she would be happy to have another man but not for you to have another woman? Or vice versa?

These are all things you have to agree on before you even think about taking the first steps. Good luck "

We have talked about ideas, it would be her having another guy, my knowledge.

I think it's just taking that step beyond chat, especially as her self confidence is low, general quiet, so finding the right situation would be key

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

We are watching the open house and my Mrs is sounding negative I'm gutted...booked cruise next year too...I was hopeful lol

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By *onnyKashMan
31 weeks ago

Swanick


"We are watching the open house and my Mrs is sounding negative I'm gutted...booked cruise next year too...I was hopeful lol"

Sometimes women have a strange way of voicing these kind of things, she may genuinely have distaste for it, or she may feel embarrassed about being turned on by it.

You should say that it kind of turns you on. And see where that takes the conversation. With your reassurance she may end up feeling the same way

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