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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago

Hey everyone, I've been on here for a while with this profile but on and off before. I just don't know any more about what the deal is like, I have an informative profile, I don't think I look bad, I have some good chat. It just seems impossible to get people interested, chat, and even if they do, meets NEVER happen. Is something missing? Am I really just awful to look at? I'm super wary of this coming off as attention seeking I just genuinely cannot understand why I'm not worth it. It's getting to the stage if someone did want to meet up I'd be the one backing out cos I feel like it's a wind up, or that I'm convinced now that I'm not worth it myself.

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By *ovinglife!40Man
36 weeks ago

Hinckley


"Hey everyone, I've been on here for a while with this profile but on and off before. I just don't know any more about what the deal is like, I have an informative profile, I don't think I look bad, I have some good chat. It just seems impossible to get people interested, chat, and even if they do, meets NEVER happen. Is something missing? Am I really just awful to look at? I'm super wary of this coming off as attention seeking I just genuinely cannot understand why I'm not worth it. It's getting to the stage if someone did want to meet up I'd be the one backing out cos I feel like it's a wind up, or that I'm convinced now that I'm not worth it myself."

You need to get your head around the fact that single guys like us are two a penny on here.

The ladies get to choose the best of the best, and if that isn't us then we just need to man up and accept it. They don't need to settle for 'I don't think I look that bad'. If you are failing, then simply it is down to the ladies not choosing you.

And if you are relying on this site to prove your self worth, then being brutal that is very very sad.

Maybe this site isn't for you....

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By *ovinglife!40Man
36 weeks ago

Hinckley


"Hey everyone, I've been on here for a while with this profile but on and off before. I just don't know any more about what the deal is like, I have an informative profile, I don't think I look bad, I have some good chat. It just seems impossible to get people interested, chat, and even if they do, meets NEVER happen. Is something missing? Am I really just awful to look at? I'm super wary of this coming off as attention seeking I just genuinely cannot understand why I'm not worth it. It's getting to the stage if someone did want to meet up I'd be the one backing out cos I feel like it's a wind up, or that I'm convinced now that I'm not worth it myself."

And maybe revisit your sexuality.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago

Excuse me? What's that supposed to mean about revisiting my sexuality?

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By *legantEnigmaWoman
36 weeks ago

South of the Watford Gap


"Excuse me? What's that supposed to mean about revisiting my sexuality? "

I suspect what the other poster means is that you've ticked the 'Straight' box, yet you talk about wanting to meet TS... Seems a little confusing to anyone reading your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago

oh god... a swingers site in 2025 confused about a straight into trans. And being told you don't belong here. Incredible.

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