FabSwingers.com forum: Chastity cage power

By *opmantopman OP Man
40 weeks ago

hampstead

The chastity cage, a device originally designed to enforce celibacy and control, has evolved into a powerful tool for psychological transformation and relationship dynamics. Typically worn by men, the cage restricts direct access to the genitals, symbolizing surrender, discipline, and devotion.

At first, most men reject the idea of wearing a chastity cage. The thought of confinement often triggers discomfort, resistance, and even outright defiance. However, what begins as hesitation frequently turns into a profound shift in behavior and mindset—especially when the device is introduced with authority and consistency.

In many cases, once men are placed into chastity often through firm encouragement or even insistence—they undergo a noticeable change. Their focus sharpens, their emotional dependency deepens, and their priorities subtly shift. The cage becomes not just a physical barrier, but a psychological anchor that fosters obedience, attentiveness, and a heightened desire to please.

Over time, and to the surprise of many, the very men who once resisted the cage begin to embrace it. They grow attached to the feeling of submission and security it provides. For some, the device becomes so integral to their identity that they resist even temporary removal for cleaning, describing it as if it were part of their own body.

This transformation underscores the chastity cage’s unique power: it is not merely a physical restraint, but a symbol of surrender and connection—capable of reshaping behavior, deepening intimacy, and redefining control in a consensual and structured relationship

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By *opmantopman OP Man
40 weeks ago

hampstead

Mmm

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By *nlyessexCouple
40 weeks ago

Hornchurch

I have been a caged cuck for a few years now and fully enjoying being told what to do

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By *HostDiscreetMan
40 weeks ago

SeLdn Surrey Quays

Debating hosting an orgy at mine again se London. 1 in 1 out even maybe hehe because last time I did I got so many messages. It would be next month, ftm trans guy I fuck wants to be hooded and used. I can lick him while you fuck him if you like. And I’ll lick him after you load him up. Thick dicks especially welcomed. Just friends me if interested as last time I lost out on messages from

Guys who wanted to come too hehe

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By *HostDiscreetMan
40 weeks ago

SeLdn Surrey Quays

Orgy at mine? With ftm trans

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By *HostDiscreetMan
40 weeks ago

SeLdn Surrey Quays

Ah I posted in wrong place so sorry x

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
40 weeks ago

Rotherham

I've been in chastity since I was 19 , during that time I had 2 cuckold relationships.

I always enjoyed short term chastity although it did pinch and I was initially paranoid going out in public wearing it. It was pretty tough being trained up for longer confinement but it was worth it and really focussed the mind on giving pleasure.

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By *opmantopman OP Man
40 weeks ago

hampstead

Amazing

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
39 weeks ago

Nowhere

Adore mine . Just wish I could where my key

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By *opmantopman OP Man
39 weeks ago

hampstead

Who is the key holder?

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By *ee And MikeCouple
39 weeks ago

Cannock

I’ve been a cuck that’s been in chastity for a number of years now off and on.

I agree, when you are in chastity your focus does sharpen around your hotwife and her needs. She totally becomes the centre of your universe and whatever she wants sexually with other guys you try and help her in that quest.

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By *opmantopman OP Man
39 weeks ago

hampstead

Very true

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By *rsandMr9Couple
39 weeks ago

sl3

Your not wrong

"I’ve been a cuck that’s been in chastity for a number of years now off and on.

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By *itter78Couple
39 weeks ago

Spennymoor

We've been talking about this for a little while... any top tips for couples who want to get started with the chastity cage?

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By *edseethruMan
39 weeks ago

douglas

Wasn’t on our radar at all until wifey saw them in a sex shop in Amsterdam .

Once we found the right cage we use it quite a bit now , mostly when she’s on a girls night out

Have to say it’s an enjoyable experience

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By *9 Love-To-TryCouple
38 weeks ago

East Anglia

he has cried when I refused to cage him again after a cleaning session

He is even now enjoying his spoilt cum experiences desperate to be caged again

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By *winkleToesAndCoCouple
37 weeks ago

London

Any Cucks, Cuckoldress's, Cuckold couples, Couples that meet Bulls, Couples that meet Cuckold couples and Bulls, feel free to pm

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By *amesy8519Man
37 weeks ago

Hampshire

One of the hottest things, being caged by my ex wife.

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By *opmantopman OP Man
37 weeks ago

hampstead

Most of them cries to have it back

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By *opmantopman OP Man
37 weeks ago

hampstead

Amazing

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By *ee And MikeCouple
37 weeks ago

Cannock

"Your not wrong

I’ve been a cuck that’s been in chastity for a number of years now off and on.

Glad you agree !

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Nowhere

Just got a new tiny one and adore it x

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By *opmantopman OP Man
37 weeks ago

hampstead

Do you like it?

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Nowhere

My timer key lock has arrived . 24 hours without key access all next week xxx

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By *nlyessexCouple
37 weeks ago

Hornchurch

Mistress loves me caged while she fucks other guys in front of me

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By *pringbok95Couple
37 weeks ago

Limavady

I enjoy the power & control the cage gives me over my cuck

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Bolton

I'd love to find a keyhole who will push my limits and tease me whilst holding my key

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By *opmantopman OP Man
37 weeks ago

hampstead

She is doing great job

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By *idssissyTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Nr cricket ground birm

Love to find a device that worked

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I would love to wear one

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By *opmantopman OP Man
37 weeks ago

hampstead

I can train you

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I have to buy one first lol

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By *endywenchTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Gorseinon

I'm always in chastity my wife often has 4 or 5 men over at a time to fuck her senseless, all while I'm tied to a chair and made to watch.

I'm always naked gagged and caged, she likes to humiliate me making me feel small and inadequate.

Some of the guys often slap my face with their bug cocks and then fuck her, listening to her moan our loud really makes me feel very small.

She keeps me caged at all times, the only time it comes off is on a Sunday when I have a bath, then when I'm dry she insists it goes back on

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By *illxxMan
36 weeks ago

motherwell

Having been on the cuckold scene for a few years I have met some cuckold couples and almost everyone I have met the cuck is always caged. It’s something that I love doing and love to see the cucks reaction as he watches his wife with a bull

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By *opmantopman OP Man
36 weeks ago

hampstead

She is doing great job

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

It’s not something I’d ever thought I’d want to do but after chatting to people about it, it could be something that could be pretty hot.

One of my fantasies is to be tied to a chair while my fucks another guy so a cage is just the next step up from that it seems.

The thought of not being able to play with myself while watching my wife would drive me mad but in a good way I think.

Although my wife is not into the lifestyle the thought of just having a cage on and a guy telling me when I can take it off and wank also appeals to me.

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By *penminded7Man
36 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Luv hubby's caged

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By *opmantopman OP Man
36 weeks ago

hampstead

Nice

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By *opmantopman OP Man
36 weeks ago

hampstead

Are you 24/7 caged?

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By *omRachCouple
36 weeks ago

Wirral

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By *omRachCouple
36 weeks ago

Wirral

We have experimented with a cage with one particular guy we met. He and I discussed it one night and he then mentioned the idea to her and she was intrigued by it - so much so we had a few meets were i wore one.

It was only worn for the meet on a few occasions but I occasionally did wear it around the house for her and even have a few pics of me wearing it for her.

That particular guy is sadly no longer with us and the guys we have met since have been indifferent to it so the cage is kinda gathering dust in a dark place just now.

Who knows, maybe some time in the future . . .

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By *nlyessexCouple
36 weeks ago

Hornchurch

Mrs has me caged most of the time she even takes pictures of me in woods or car wearing it plus the guys we meet make me wear it

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By *ee And MikeCouple
36 weeks ago

Cannock

"We have experimented with a cage with one particular guy we met. He and I discussed it one night and he then mentioned the idea to her and she was intrigued by it - so much so we had a few meets were i wore one.

It was only worn for the meet on a few occasions but I occasionally did wear it around the house for her and even have a few pics of me wearing it for her.

That particular guy is sadly no longer with us and the guys we have met since have been indifferent to it so the cage is kinda gathering dust in a dark place just now.

Who knows, maybe some time in the future . . ."

If you enjoy wearing the cock cage and it works for your dynamic just do it.

All the guys Dee has played with in the past have understood me being caged is part of our dynamic so don’t let anyone else’s thoughts get in the way of what works for you.

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By *anus7Man
36 weeks ago

Chester

Know exactly what you mean.

My FB helped me to fit one and although it pinched a bit at first, I soon got used to it.

The second time I wore it,he kept the key and sent me clues,through the post,to track it down.

2 weeks later and with a painful hard on,I found the bloody key,released myself and had the best wank ever..

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By *ete.RachaelTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Feel so girly when caged xx

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By *opmantopman OP Man
36 weeks ago

hampstead

This is the power

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By *ara wilcoxTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Sunderland

Wish I was still wearing one.

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By *mmakinkycdTV/TS
36 weeks ago

South Birmingham

I love being caged. Builds up so much sexual tension.

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By *opmantopman OP Man
36 weeks ago

hampstead

Amazing

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By *oblincs70Man
36 weeks ago

Peterborough

Thought about wearing a cage as I watch my wife having fun with another guy or couple. We find it a huge turn on and maybe one day to make it happen?

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By *randmrs 1st timeCouple
36 weeks ago

bolton

Always caged for a meet or when wife goes out alone such a turn on wearing it so humiliating

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By *avid 50Man
36 weeks ago

kendal

I realise it's a source of humiliation but meeting a lady recently the husband was by the bed naked hands behind his back and humiliation was him watching his wife being fucked by me and not being able to do anything about it, the final humiliation for him was when he came just by watching, his humiliation continued because he was made to stand there while we carried on,

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By *iamo69Man
36 weeks ago

kilkenny, Waterford , Tipperary,southeast

Out of blue last night she locked me up..said go get your cage..I've been months free..this morning I was informed it's not coming off even for gym so get use to it

Previous she would carry key with her now she claims both keys have been hidden and she doesn't know when she will release me and I'm not to dare ask.

Was told to forget about it now and get on with life..

Taken me completely back as did not expect this what so ever

Now I'm tad over 15 hours looked and it's already frustrating as can feel it

Smalletal cage for those who care

The fact she said forget about it now and get on with it was the bit got to my mind

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36 weeks ago

"Out of blue last night she locked me up..said go get your cage..I've been months free..this morning I was informed it's not coming off even for gym so get use to it

Previous she would carry key with her now she claims both keys have been hidden and she doesn't know when she will release me and I'm not to dare ask.

Was told to forget about it now and get on with life..

Taken me completely back as did not expect this what so ever

Now I'm tad over 15 hours looked and it's already frustrating as can feel it

Smalletal cage for those who care

The fact she said forget about it now and get on with it was the bit got to my mind"

Awww that's fantastic, i'm well jealous

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By *iamo69Man
36 weeks ago

kilkenny, Waterford , Tipperary,southeast

I'm not so sure as this was completely off the cuff

I'm not sure what the plan is or is there even one

I'm at a loss

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By *opmantopman OP Man
35 weeks ago

hampstead

She is doing great job

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By *iamo69Man
35 weeks ago

kilkenny, Waterford , Tipperary,southeast

Still caged this morning

Sleeping in it was new but not so bad

No mention of it this morning just as normal

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By *immy Jones from fab guysMan
35 weeks ago

Peterborough, Huntingdon, Cambridgeshire.

"Still caged this morning

Sleeping in it was new but not so bad

No mention of it this morning just as normal"

Happy days, no need to remove. Other than deep clean.

Once the sleeping is taken care of and controlling nocturnal errections, it's just...rude to remove.

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By *ete.RachaelTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Im caged too

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By *penminded7Man
35 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Luv someone caged

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By *opmantopman OP Man
35 weeks ago

hampstead

Perfect

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Nowhere

I e been locked 24 hours and looking a bit battle scared

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By *opmantopman OP Man
35 weeks ago

hampstead

You will get used to it

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By *D666KellyTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Dublin

Love caging myself.

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By *otopaxiMan
35 weeks ago

nostalgia

This is why I love switching! Wearing or playing with someone wearing I want it all!! 😈

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
35 weeks ago

southam

my wife says that the disciline of being trusted to be chaste is more severe in some ways but i have heard that wearing a cage can make a cuckolds cock eb=ven smaller and softer and find thsi very tempting

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By *opmantopman OP Man
35 weeks ago

hampstead

Lovely

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By *penminded7Man
35 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Luv a hubby in a cage

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By *immy Jones from fab guysMan
35 weeks ago

Peterborough, Huntingdon, Cambridgeshire.

"my wife says that the disciline of being trusted to be chaste is more severe in some ways but i have heard that wearing a cage can make a cuckolds cock eb=ven smaller and softer and find thsi very tempting"

True, long term locking will keep you smaller. If unlocked initial errections are not strong or long lasting. Does take the body some time or weeks to get back to normal...if you want it that way,

I keep myself locked 24/7. Just love it that way. Only long periods out of cage is if I'm going abroad and need to keep kink left at home.

As soon as possible I'm back locked up, not allowing to get back to any normal size or strength.

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By *otfunx1Man
35 weeks ago

Edinburgh

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By *penmindedmanhereMan
35 weeks ago

Northampton

Just got one and really enjoy wearing it !

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By *otopaxiMan
35 weeks ago

nostalgia

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Obviously found the key…. 😆

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By *iamo69Man
35 weeks ago

kilkenny, Waterford , Tipperary,southeast

Was realized this morning and told do t get too comfortable been out

Actually haven't clue where this is leading if anywhere

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
35 weeks ago

southam

True, long term locking will keep you smaller. If unlocked initial errections are not strong or long lasting. Does take the body some time or weeks to get back to normal...if you want it that way,

I keep myself locked 24/7. Just love it that way. Only long periods out of cage is if I'm going abroad and need to keep kink left at home.

As soon as possible I'm back locked up, not allowing to get back to any normal size or strength.

Iwoud like that, we both enjoy passionate kissing and cuddling and if she was certain that my cock wouldn't get stiff and uncomfortable during these intimate moments I could be allowed to remove my thong .

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By *immy Jones from fab guysMan
35 weeks ago

Peterborough, Huntingdon, Cambridgeshire.

True, long term locking will keep you smaller. If unlocked initial errections are not strong or long lasting. Does take the body some time or weeks to get back to normal...if you want it that way,

I keep myself locked 24/7. Just love it that way. Only long periods out of cage

Keep at it, you will achieve that.

What's also worth using is an additional "strap" to keep base ring and cage pulled back snug?

These are very handy and worth using. If there us arousal, you'll not notice as the strap keeps everything restricted back nice and snug.

Handy to use for sleeping with, just in case nocturnal arousal is a bit of an issue.

xxx

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By *otopaxiMan
35 weeks ago

nostalgia

I’ve only ever been able to play once whilst wearing my cage, but that once was amazing, the tease that comes from it is amazing, but to be with a couple, caged, whilst they play and I am (obviously) limited as far as how I can be involved….suck a turn onzzzz

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By *opmantopman OP Man
35 weeks ago

hampstead

That what I am talking about

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By *randmrs 1st timeCouple
35 weeks ago

bolton

Will be caged tonight we got a meet in a hotel in Manchester

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
35 weeks ago

southam

"Will be caged tonight we got a meet in a hotel in Manchester "

will she be displaying you to her new gentleman

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By *K-Cuck-CoupleCouple
35 weeks ago

Malaga , Spain

Please see our profile , caged long term now and have done Locktober a couple of times

Ask anything

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By *opmantopman OP Man
34 weeks ago

hampstead

Amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

I'd love my wife to go out away for a week on a training course or something and buy a cage and put it on.

I'd leave the key at work so I couldn't unlock it while I'm home and then get guys to tell me what they want to do to my wife.

I'd leave it on for the whole week. The frustration would be unbearable I'm sure!

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By *opmantopman OP Man
34 weeks ago

hampstead

Nice

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