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By *inkybiguyx OP   Man
5 days ago

Carmarthen

I’ve been thinking about the best way of meeting people and making new connections. At the moment I’m thinking about going to more socials or should I be going to a swinging club?

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By *sWyldWoman
5 days ago

Edinburgh

My cousin goes to a lot of meet up groups . Everything from walking to the cinema. He found them a great way to meet people. Not swinging related though.

As for here I'd say organised socials are probably your best bet.

Guess it depends what you're looking for.

Good luck.

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By *inkybiguyx OP   Man
5 days ago

Carmarthen

Guess I should just keep trying

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By *eliWoman
5 days ago

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What are you interested in OP? What would you like to do?

Those are the main things. If you want to go to a club, go. Make the most of it. A social? Sign up and go.

Both are different (obviously) and only you really know what you'd like to get from it.

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By *inkybiguyx OP   Man
5 days ago

Carmarthen

I want to meet people and make connections. Currently having trouble finding a social that’s accepting me. As most socials now are full! Will keep trying tho

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By *rbane PlayerMan
5 days ago

London

The answer relating to what you want is valid: if you are looking for the chance to have sex as soon as possible you may wish to consider a gangbang group or clubs. Organised social, the chat rooms and forums on Fabs seem be more relaxed ways to get to get to know others. And there is always observing and taking from the profiles of men who may be more successful. Best of luck.

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By *inkybiguyx OP   Man
5 days ago

Carmarthen

I’m not sure that I would have any success at swinging club as I’m not very attractive to people

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By *hogun300Man
5 days ago

Dundee

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By *inchestersBitchWoman
5 days ago

land of overweight munters

Hey Alex

It seems your asking similar questions in different places in the forums, it's great to start threads but too many in too many places can look desperate and won't do you any favours

Try sticking to one thread? It may help.

By the way BRAVO👏👏👏 on the profile changes, the pics and bio are great.

Keep it up lol I'm rooting for ya

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By *inchestersBitchWoman
5 days ago

land of overweight munters


"I’m not sure that I would have any success at swinging club as I’m not very attractive to people "

That's not what your veris say

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By *inkybiguyx OP   Man
5 days ago

Carmarthen


"I’m not sure that I would have any success at swinging club as I’m not very attractive to people

That's not what your veris say "
none of them are actual fun meets. They are more social meets

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By *inkybiguyx OP   Man
5 days ago

Carmarthen


"Hey Alex

It seems your asking similar questions in different places in the forums, it's great to start threads but too many in too many places can look desperate and won't do you any favours

Try sticking to one thread? It may help.

By the way BRAVO👏👏👏 on the profile changes, the pics and bio are great.

Keep it up lol I'm rooting for ya "
I’m really sorry I’m just trying to improve of my chances of connecting to people

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
5 days ago

Coventry

I would say swingers clubs are also good for meeting people too. They are a bit like a social too but with the added ability to play too. There has been times we've met people in the social areas of clubs not played that night but sometime down the road as we've got to know them better. Swingers clubs aren't just about the sex, they are another space where we get to find our people. So a great opportunity to get ourselves out there and for some visibility on the scene. Swing or don't swing (we don't always swing) they are a fun night and a great place to meet people.

And don't be down on your appearance, you're cock blocking yourself by doing so. Being successful on the scene has very little to do with being a god or having and massive cock. But it does having everything to with character. We are all different in a club and chemistry trumps everything. So don't be self sabotaging, it will only be you doing yourself over. Always go to club recognising you are just as valid as everyone else and just do you.

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By *inkybiguyx OP   Man
5 days ago

Carmarthen

Really appreciate the advice everyone, this place is a real maze and takes time to understand it

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
5 days ago

Gloucester

It depends. If you’re looking for just friendly connections try a club that interests you ie a walking group or model building group.

If it’s sexual connections then swingers clubs and socials are a great opportunity to meet people. Just remember go to a club with no expectations,

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