FabSwingers.com forum: Messaging is harder for men

By *ggman555 OP Man
41 weeks ago

Leicester

Women generally attract more messages and matches, giving them greater choice and control over whom they interact with.

Many dating platforms show that women receive a disproportionately higher number of likes and responses, while men often have to put in more effort just to get noticed.

This dynamic creates a situation where women can be more selective, whereas men frequently face rejection or invisibility despite consistent outreach.

By *bi HaiveMan
40 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Women generally attract more messages and matches, giving them greater choice and control over whom they interact with.

Many dating platforms show that women receive a disproportionately higher number of likes and responses, while men often have to put in more effort just to get noticed.

This dynamic creates a situation where women can be more selective, whereas men frequently face rejection or invisibility despite consistent outreach.

Men can be selective too.

I know I am. 🤷‍♂️

If there were 1000 women and 10 men those 10 men still wouldn't necessarily get anywhere if they weren't what the women were looking for.

The ratios do offer a convenient rationale for some as to why their experiences arent what they expected though.