FabSwingers.com forum: Messaging is harder for men

By *ggman555 OP Man
7 days ago

Leicester

Women generally attract more messages and matches, giving them greater choice and control over whom they interact with.

Many dating platforms show that women receive a disproportionately higher number of likes and responses, while men often have to put in more effort just to get noticed.

This dynamic creates a situation where women can be more selective, whereas men frequently face rejection or invisibility despite consistent outreach.

By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
6 days ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Women generally attract more messages and matches, giving them greater choice and control over whom they interact with.

Many dating platforms show that women receive a disproportionately higher number of likes and responses, while men often have to put in more effort just to get noticed.

This dynamic creates a situation where women can be more selective, whereas men frequently face rejection or invisibility despite consistent outreach.

Men can be selective too.

I know I am. 🤷‍♂️

If there were 1000 women and 10 men those 10 men still wouldn't necessarily get anywhere if they weren't what the women were looking for.

The ratios do offer a convenient rationale for some as to why their experiences arent what they expected though.