FabSwingers.com forum: How to tell your wife or gf you are Bi

By *ornyBerks OP Man
9 weeks ago

didcot

I love both and have a lot of fun

Just not sure how or if to tell misses … it would be easier for it to be told but just don’t have the confidence

How or what have other done

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By *oung40Man
9 weeks ago

thirsk

my mrs actually convinced me to try it

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By *ornyBerks OP Man
9 weeks ago

didcot

Did she wow that’s amazing how did the conversation arise

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By *ichael_OxlongMan
9 weeks ago

London

Mine wouldn't approve!

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By *idcot58Man
9 weeks ago

Chepstow

Mine saw me being fucked at a club she was ok with it

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By *ussexguy67Man
9 weeks ago

Bognor Regis

Ex got me into it.

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By *knewbie85Man
9 weeks ago

Billericay

She started fingering my arse during sex and I made it quite clear how much I loved it

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By *ernowKinkMan
9 weeks ago

Redruth

Try “that sex quiz” online. There some questions on their which opened up conversations after we both filled it in.

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
9 weeks ago

Ipswich

We had that conversation within a few days of hooking up. We had a long chat over wine about fantasies and sexual exploits etc. So we were honest with each other from the start and it's worked out REALLY well

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By *rallover1000Man
8 weeks ago

st helens

My ex used to peg me but made it clear she wasn't ok with me taking cock

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By *lcherasDreamTimeCouple
8 weeks ago

Manchester

Honestly, she probably knows! I'm convinced each of the guys I've been in relationships with were bi and 3 of the 4 have admitted it, usually during sex, I love rimming and playing with the rusty sheriffs badge and every guy I've encountered that way have enjoyed it immensely

Can't remember how I started the conversation with my husband but was definitely during sex and had him telling me about his previous encounters while we were having the most incredible foreplay and sex.

Still love to hear about it and on the verge of possibly setting something up so I can watch.

The idea of him him flirting with a guy, being desired, lusted after kissing and ultimately being slowly and intimately fucked by a guy or t girl turns me on to the max!

I'd just try and get a bit freaky with her and have her rim you, maybe a bit of pegging and let the "in sex dirty talk" leave some open suggestions for her to figure it out herself.

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By *idcot58Man
8 weeks ago

Chepstow

I was lucky we went to chameleons at Wolverhampton on a bi nite to meet a guy so was lucky

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By *ohn 66Man
8 weeks ago

South Birmingham

Does a woman playing with a guy's arse really mean that he's bi? How does that work

For what it's worth, I like men or women playing with my arse, just as long as they have short fingernails

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By *lcherasDreamTimeCouple
8 weeks ago

Manchester

"Does a woman playing with a guy's arse really mean that he's bi? How does that work

For what it's worth, I like men or women playing with my arse, just as long as they have short fingernails

I don't think so but it opens up the way to enquiring if that particular guy has ever entertained the idea.

I've found most have at least thought about it and felt aroused and I believe some feel too ashamed to admit it too unfortunately.

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By *orksfunM4FMan
8 weeks ago

ilkley

Love the idea of a couple sharing my cock

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By *ornyBerks OP Man
7 weeks ago

didcot

Did she really

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
7 weeks ago

Rotherham

As soon as my gf had trained me to be in long term chastity she strongly encouraged me to start pleasuring her bulls

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By *azmar62Couple
7 weeks ago

Hinckley

I told my now wife at the very start of our relationship that I was bisexual. It intrigued her so much that she decided she wanted to see me with a guy. 16 years now and we’ve never looked back. It’s her bigger turn on.

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By *anctoMan
7 weeks ago

Holywood/Weston super Mare

I had a couple here some years ago. He was bi but was terrified that his wife would find out!. After sex she asked me if I would fuck her in the bottom, to which I was delighted to do. She asked her hubby to hold a condom that she insisted that I wear. I loved the experience as I expect he did.

He phoned me later and I told him that his wife was aware of his bi sexuality. He never phoned me again! Oh well...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Central

Quite often our awareness and understanding of our sexuality doesn't appear until we'll beyond adolescence. If we're partnered, it's probably better to discuss potential and actual interests and fantasies, maintaining a judgement free attitude, that you can agree to.

We don't have to reveal everything in one go - we can do it progressively, as trust is built and established.

Obviously, some interests would involve other people, especially of a different gender - so having acceptance of a more open relationship would be needed.

Communication is key, alongside building trust

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

I told my ex I was bi. She wasn’t bothered said it always turned her on thinking about two men playing together. We played a few times with other males and she was so turned on watching me sucking cock. A very horny time.

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By *anctoMan
7 weeks ago

Holywood/Weston super Mare

That last text reminds me of a couple that I used to visit. She wanted to see her hubby and I sucking each other. He was keen but I declined!! Stupid me... Seánoxo Holywood.

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By *ornyBerks OP Man
7 weeks ago

didcot

Ooo nice I bet it’s great

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By *ornyBerks OP Man
7 weeks ago

didcot

Yep that would be great I defo want my misses to green light it

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