FabSwingers.com forum: Opening up in a relationship

By *oodtimebiboy OP Man
18 weeks ago

Bristol

My wife and I are starting to open up to each other about our desires to hopefully rekindle our sex life. We’re using the paired app and it’s helping.

I haven’t told her of fab or my experiences, just that I’d like to try being pegged by her. She has also opened up about being stretched. In the past she admitted one of her fave experiences was when I was in her plus a dildo. She loved it but felt that she couldn’t say how much she enjoyed the feeling of being stetched & filled as it would say I was too small. Now I’d consider I’m average in size, almost 6” cut, not the thickest but I’m happy with it. Still am, and I’m glad she told me. We’re going to explore this more using dildos, maybe a cock sleeve, even fisting which she said she’d like to try, over time.

Anyway, I thought it would be good to share, as I’m sure there are others out there who are in good relationships that have lost the spark and have ended up here.

By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
18 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Sounds positive OP.

Personally if I was in that situation I'd hide or delete my profile and concentrate all efforts on my partner.

If things work out you could then look at returning as a couple.

I imagine any positives that come out of improved communication and openness would immediately vanish if you did tell her about your Fab life or she somehow stumbled across it.