FabSwingers.com forum: Getting wife to play

By *orny salesman OP Man
1 week ago

Preston

Talked about it a few times she's never totally said no but won't come on fab if it happend it will happen naturally on holiday or a night out

Very nearly did a few years ago but he was pushy and put her off

Big birthday holiday soon and going to try again then

Any tips ?

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By *es-erection JoeMan
1 week ago

West Mids

Maybe agree to a club, maybe initially to watch with no pressure to play?

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By *orny salesman OP Man
1 week ago

Preston

"Maybe agree to a club, maybe initially to watch with no pressure to play? "

Thanks anything worth a try

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By *outhboyMan
1 week ago

derry

Ask her if she would like a guy to just watch u both

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By *omeagain00Man
1 week ago

Selby

I'd love mine to play and get her out of her comfort zone a bit lol

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By *aciallovrMan
1 week ago

London

"Talked about it a few times she's never totally said no but won't come on fab if it happend it will happen naturally on holiday or a night out

Very nearly did a few years ago but he was pushy and put her off

Big birthday holiday soon and going to try again then

Any tips ?

I told my wife that I wanked on cam in the chat rooms and on skype with guys talking about her and told her to just watch me wank on cam in the chat rooms.

The next time, she wanked me and enjoyed the encouragement.

The time after that I suggested she flash her breasts and she felt comfortable to do so and really enjoyed the positive comments.

She then wanked me off onto her breasts.

The time after that, she flashed her pussy and played with a toy as I read the positive comments and this got her so hot and horny, she squirted.

She endedd up setting up her own profile lol so basically its a timely process with lots of encouragement. Show her how much fun she can have with your blessing and let her decided when she is ready.

I also wrote her some hotwife stories with us both in the story with various scenarios of her fucking other guys with me watching and also showed her a lot of hotwife porn.

It all helped buut every person is different so let her make the choice.

Good Luck.

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By *orthernLightsCouple
1 week ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Similar to some of your other comments but with us, it started by writing sexy stories to each other. Gradually they got ruder and I included first one, then more people in them.

We began talking about this during sex and L always had a huge orgasm. We then spoke about trying it for real and decided to visit a swingers club. Agreeing that a first visit would not involve anyone else, just to look around and see what it was all about.

We had sex in a room surrounded by other couples doing the same, we loved it and wanted to visit a club again. We did, the second time open to involving someone else if we met anyone we were comfortable with. It wasn’t until our third visit we had a MFM threesome.

Communication is key, have agreed boundaries before any meeting, and it has to move at a pace you’re both comfortable with.

Good luck

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