FabSwingers.com forum: Curious

By *uiceboxjo OP Man
29 weeks ago

Hartlepool

Got a girlfriend but so curious.

Love to chat to other lads in same boat.

By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

If you have a GF have you spoken to here about your curiosity? Is she open-minded enough or, like an ex, likely to think you some perverted deviant? That then gives you a choice to make.

I had a dabble when I was younger then spent most of my adult life in vanilla relationships where it wasn't something I was that bothered exploring with my gfs. It was never a problem and I didn't feel I was missing anything any more than I was missing other pussy due to monogamy.

Since being single I've decided to explore it again. I'm reasonably confident in what I want, what I'd enjoy, and what I'm not into so I'll just take it a step at a time. But I'm single and nobody else to consider.

I'd say start with your gf. If you're in a monogamous relationship then however you try to justify it, doing anything behind her back is cheating even if it's with another bloke. If she's open-minded, talk with her first.

If it's not monogamous and you think she'd accept your exploration of bisex, still talk with her.