FabSwingers.com forum: Why some husbands like their wife with another man?

By (user no longer on site) OP
21 weeks ago

I wonder why some husbands like their wife with another man and why it’s a pleasure for both please? I think it’s a big thing, the husband who does it, must have a very kind heart.

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By *avid 50Man
21 weeks ago

kendal

In my experience, it’s often the husband feels he’s not satisfying his wife for one reason or another but doesn’t want her to miss out, but also it is a pleasure of watching his wife enjoy herself Knowing that the relationship is just sex and not love and not a threat to their marriage

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By (user no longer on site) OP
21 weeks ago

I do agree David, thanks for clarifying. I always get a bit hesitant when being asked to meet a couple and the husband would just watch. I’ve a feeling that he would be envious and not truly happy that me and his wife is having sex

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By *ikingpairCouple
21 weeks ago

Cambridge

Mr H says that it is horny watching me being fucked by another man. It enhances his pleasure but he also likes seeing me being pleasured. He can pay full attention to what is going on if there is just one other male, whereas if it's a couple his attention is elsewhere

He likes it when I look him right in the eye whilst being fucked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
21 weeks ago

Thank you for raising that. When a wife takes another cock hubby should feel extremely proud of it that the other man is doing justice to a sexy hungry married pussy. I believe married woman’s are more hornier and wet all the times and she deserves more love and cum

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By *icecouple561Couple
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21 weeks ago

East Sussex

Sometimes it's just because they like seeing their partner having fun .

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By *ee And MikeCouple
21 weeks ago

Cannock

Depends on the couple to be honest.

A lot of cuckold couples is because the hot wife enjoys lots of cocks or more cock than her hubby can give her.

Not always the case, but a lot of the reason why couples become cuckold couples !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
21 weeks ago

Absolutely that’s true it can increase the sexual tension between the couple and have stronger bond sexually

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By *teveanddebsCouple
21 weeks ago

Norwich

"In my experience, it’s often the husband feels he’s not satisfying his wife for one reason or another "

People that think like this are just the type we avoid like the plague.

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By *alsaman15Man
21 weeks ago

Market Drayton

It's always fun being the other men in this setup

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By *arvey67Man
21 weeks ago

Grimsby

Nothing to do with kindness, my GF just likes other cock, bigger the better

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By *arryandJinnieWeasleyCouple
21 weeks ago

Woking

In my opinion I enjoyed watching my wife being fucked by another guy and her being pleasured. Then me joining in too, making her the centre of it all.

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By *ack1971Man
21 weeks ago

Cork

"I do agree David, thanks for clarifying. I always get a bit hesitant when being asked to meet a couple and the husband would just watch. I’ve a feeling that he would be envious and not truly happy that me and his wife is having sex"

I can understand your sentiment there, but like me, voyeurism has a lot to do with it. I'm a stag, so I enjoy all elements of it.

Don't go to the negative, a lot of guys do just like to watch, listen, peek etc

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By *icecouple561Couple
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21 weeks ago

East Sussex

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By *ornyhighlanderMan
21 weeks ago

town

"I wonder why some husbands like their wife with another man and why it’s a pleasure for both please? I think it’s a big thing, the husband who does it, must have a very kind heart."

Love to see mine take yours

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By *eff1961Man
21 weeks ago

Portsmouth

For me have always loved porn so watching her getting pleasure was like watching live porn where I get to fuck the star after

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By *nlyessexCouple
21 weeks ago

Hornchurch

It’s why we are on here love to see her enjoying herself

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By *ovinglife!40Man
21 weeks ago

Hinckley

"In my experience, it’s often the husband feels he’s not satisfying his wife for one reason or another but doesn’t want her to miss out, but also it is a pleasure of watching his wife enjoy herself Knowing that the relationship is just sex and not love and not a threat to their marriage"

In my experience, you are totally wrong.

It isn't about the husband who can't satisfy his wife.

It is about the husband who allows you to play with his wife, then he has the power to take him back off you.

You sing to his tune.

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By *andN987Couple
21 weeks ago

north east

I don’t agree with this at all. Certainly not the position with us. It is not deficiency which means that it’s hot for her to be with anybody else it’s actually the complete opposite. We have a fabulous sex life and she is utterly satisfied with me, but, I have no concern that she wants to be with anybody else at all, in which case sex with other people is just enhancing our sex life without paying anything at risk.

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By *ffc290677Couple
21 weeks ago

sandy

"For me have always loved porn so watching her getting pleasure was like watching live porn where I get to fuck the star after"
that’s exactly me too

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By *andN987Couple
21 weeks ago

north east

"In my experience, it’s often the husband feels he’s not satisfying his wife for one reason or another

People that think like this are just the type we avoid like the plague. "

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By *andN987Couple
21 weeks ago

north east

I can understand your sentiment there, but like me, voyeurism has a lot to do with it. I'm a stag, so I enjoy all elements of it.

Don't go to the negative, a lot of guys do just like to watch, listen, peek etc

I agree with Jack. I am in no way jealous of another man being with N, in fact the turn on for me the other men want to be with her and in fact you’re jealous of me for being with her all the time.

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By *andN987Couple
21 weeks ago

north east

"For me have always loved porn so watching her getting pleasure was like watching live porn where I get to fuck the star afterthat’s exactly me too"

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By *andN987Couple
21 weeks ago

north east

In my experience, you are totally wrong.

It isn't about the husband who can't satisfy his wife.

It is about the husband who allows you to play with his wife, then he has the power to take him back off you.

You sing to his tune."

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By *ffc290677Couple
21 weeks ago

sandy

I can understand your sentiment there, but like me, voyeurism has a lot to do with it. I'm a stag, so I enjoy all elements of it.

Don't go to the negative, a lot of guys do just like to watch, listen, peek etc

I agree with Jack. I am in no way jealous of another man being with N, in fact the turn on for me the other men want to be with her and in fact you’re jealous of me for being with her all the time."
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By *esmdMan
21 weeks ago

Woodhall Spa

I think it’s so horny to see your wife being fucked in front of you

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By *ungfunfellaMan
21 weeks ago

Lincoln

It’s great to see my other half with other men and also I’ve been the man with the wife and the husbands all love it and I was told I saved one marriage as her going with me stopped her having an affair

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By *mateur100Man
21 weeks ago

nr faversham

Involuntary reaction...you can't deny that you find it a turn on if your cock says otherwise

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By *bhs72Man
21 weeks ago

witham

For me it is because I can see my wife enjoying herself to orgasm whilst I can see her whole body.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
17 weeks ago

I find it a bit overwhelming when husbands watches. It’s comfortable if wife can play separately.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I can't speak for everyone but from the commets I've read there's a lot of misconceptions about it but it depends on the individuals in the couple.

For me, there was no feeling of inadequacy or lack of confidence on my part. Love doesnt need a big dick. Quite the contrary. I knew what we had could not be rocked by another dick. But I didn't own her, I wasn't tge alpha-male that controlled my woman. We enjoyed a great sex life with incredible love and intimacy but like any mortal, fucking other women was a turn on for me. And I knew tge thrill of having other guys would be a turn on for her.

It was just sex, and if sex is put on a pedestal so as to be so important then it has the potential to bring it all crashing down by a simple weak moment or d*unken fumble.

What was important was the deep connection, genuine love and affection, friendship and a heartfelt desire to your best version for them and no man can shake that through nothing more than a shag, no matter how knee-tembling.

If you connect at that level then wanting them to enjoy life fully shouldn't feel like a threat, unless you're weak and afraid, and unsure of your own value to her.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

It's purely about her pleasure,and enjoying the pleasure of her feeling a bit thick cock stretching her married pussy

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By *dlim23Man
17 weeks ago

Limerick

And it's really hot to watch too

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
17 weeks ago

Coventry

I guess it's different for everyone.

Personally I'm very happy to see Mrs Misfit enjoying herself. It's not a massive kink of mine to see her with others guys. It's not something I fantasise about or get horny at the thought of per se. I know for some guys it is just not me. However I love her to be free, I want her to experience all the joys life has to offer and I feel secure in our relationship. So it makes me very happy to know Mrs Misfit is enjoying herself and the variety this freedom brings.

However although it's not a kink or a fantasy of mine I have to admit Mrs Misfit is hot to watch. Sometimes it is just nice to watch her with another guy. You get to see things from a perspective as a watcher that you don't always get to experience as a participant. So I get to see how hot she is and how she makes guys melt from an different veiw. It's really awesome to see how she makes guys lose their shit. I think to myself yes, that My Girl. She makes me very proud and of course it feels good to get such glowing admiration from the guys who shared her. So I guess sometimes I do love to see her with other guys to appreciate how awesome she is from different angle. She's hot.

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By *urvegoblinMan
17 weeks ago

Coventry

The visuals

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By *ack1971Man
17 weeks ago

Cork

"I find it a bit overwhelming when husbands watches. It’s comfortable if wife can play separately."

And that's a real thing. It's difficult for a guy to just slot in with a couple. A lot of wives do play separately and a lot of couples do explore the possibilities. More so now than before, I think a lot of couples take another guys perspective into consideration. The trick is seeking them out, so suitability and the couple dynamic is very important.

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By *enelope2UWoman
17 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

"For me have always loved porn so watching her getting pleasure was like watching live porn where I get to fuck the star after"

This.... And I definitely felt like the star because I knew it was temporary I was going home to permanent afterwards

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By *etmebeinurefantasiesMan
17 weeks ago

witney

I would absolutely love to fulfil your fantasies and roleplay scenarios with your wife or girlfriend. I'd love to be watched. Message me and let's have some fun together

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By *shley-HWWoman
17 weeks ago

Here & There

"Mr H says that it is horny watching me being fucked by another man. It enhances his pleasure but he also likes seeing me being pleasured. He can pay full attention to what is going on if there is just one other male, whereas if it's a couple his attention is elsewhere

He likes it when I look him right in the eye whilst being fucked."

Exactly This !!!

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By *ee1967Man
17 weeks ago

watford

Me and ex wife swung a bit . Started with cples. Then we chatted and agreed I loved seeing men kiss her ,play with her massive tits,abd her wank and suck him

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By *ustforfun8824Man
17 weeks ago

Limerick

Pm for wife (31) chat

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By *erwentsidersCouple
17 weeks ago

Derwentside

"For me have always loved porn so watching her getting pleasure was like watching live porn where I get to fuck the star after"
This xx

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By *omRachCouple
17 weeks ago

Wirral

I could have written this verbatim to summarise our situation.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
17 weeks ago

Norwich

I could have written this verbatim to summarise our situation."

How I feel too.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

That is 100% correct

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Loved it when mrs was playing and entertained guys or went to his place for fun

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By *oleraine-coupleCouple
17 weeks ago

coleraine

So many different reasons couples do this and enjoy it.

For us it is more Hotwife. We have a very strong, loving and close relationship and it forms (occasionally) part of our sex life. She enjoys Ning desired by two men, the feel of a different cock, being able to suck hubby while she is being taken and loves two guys finishing over her body.

He enjoys the seeing her feel good and watching her cum and knowing how much our visitor desires her.

We both enjoy the experiences only an extra person can bring.

It is very much about intimacy and pleasure with trust, desire and love. It is not filling gaps for us.

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By *yeSureMan
16 weeks ago

Glasgow

"I wonder why some husbands like their wife with another man and why it’s a pleasure for both please? I think it’s a big thing, the husband who does it, must have a very kind heart."

When you’ve watched guys wandering eyes for years, it has an impact (in my opinion and situation). The mind starts to wander, just like theirs are. Then it just gets to a stage you know it’s got to be done

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By *lectrojazzMan
16 weeks ago

Glasgow

Love to see the gf taking some dick

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By *lla_eastWoman
16 weeks ago

Manchester

I have to disagree. My ex and I would be very comfortable with another man in the situation. He also liked the idea of me being with other men alone as it turned him on. It was never anything to do with me not being satisfied by him, he was always amazing in bed. I just liked the excitement of new meets (still do). Some men enjoy hearing about their other half being promiscuous

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

For some it is that they love what they have, and are proud to show her off, and willing to share.

They like to see that other men admire what they have.

Then they get to take her home.

(Guess that mindset is for the ones secure in themselves and their relationship )

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By *elboy1978Man
16 weeks ago

Jarrow

I could fuck someone’s wife

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By *ee And MikeCouple
16 weeks ago

Cannock

As a cuck I can agree with that statement, hearing about Dee’s unfaithfulness afterwards if I’ve not been present can be a massive excitement rush !

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By *iglad6833Man
16 weeks ago

durham

I love this I’m open for chats

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By *randmrs 1st timeCouple
16 weeks ago

bolton

Wife used to play and I watched but we found that wife couldn’t let herself go so we prefer her playing alone leaving me downstairs at the hotel bar they both go upstairs leaving me caged I go back and she tells me everything it works for us both and we both love it

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Love to have a older man take my Indian wife away

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Love to see mine with older guy

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

I can't satisfyy my Mrs. She needs a real man lol

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By *wingAway79Couple
16 weeks ago

Surrey

We enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Not sure why it’s such a turn on but the thought of seeing my wife with another guy drives me wild.

Especially thinking of her with a younger, fit, toned body guy with a big cock, such a hot thought!

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By *eakgent53Man
16 weeks ago

Glossop

My wife loves cock and I get off watching her enjoying it then fucking her afterwards

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By *evoncouple4funCouple
16 weeks ago

Near Exeter

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By *dlim23Man
16 weeks ago

Limerick

"My wife loves cock and I get off watching her enjoying it then fucking her afterwards "

Exactly this. Love it

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By *om_for_mistressMan
16 weeks ago

North Wales

Love the thought of this

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By *elshcouple4000Couple
16 weeks ago

Cardiff

Love her enjoying the experience

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By *rankie bricksMan
16 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I'd like the experience of watching my wife, having those feelings and emotions.

Anyone similar, care to discuss

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Love to see my wife taken away for the weekend

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By *otfunx1Man
16 weeks ago

Edinburgh

We often fantasize about it. Thought excites us both x

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By *rooMan
16 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

"We often fantasize about it. Thought excites us both x"

Have done similar with gf

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By *ony 529Man
16 weeks ago

coventry

So many lucky husband on this post. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I’m very envious.

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By *harlottes ChurchTV/TS
16 weeks ago

Toy me town

I have enjoyed playing with some WAGS while there partners were watching and also while they were listening in via a phone call.

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By *ustforfun8824Man
16 weeks ago

Limerick

Pm for wife (31) chat on telegram

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By *eksxxxMan
15 weeks ago

London

Love to see my get fucked

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By *uksungCouple
15 weeks ago

wednesbury

I'm proud of my wife. I know I'm way out of my league with her so I see her as my ultimate porn star. I wank over her pics and vids all the time and then get to shag her whenever we want. Watch her with a guy then I get her to myself.

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By *nlyfunsMan
15 weeks ago

Tele or snap for wife chat?

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By *l1965Man
15 weeks ago

Chiswick & Hammersmith

That is exactly the reason I asked my wife, more then once to do it, unfortunately she never accepted and since my piles surgery added with 20 years of marriage with a woman from a conservative education plus one teenager daughter with health problems always present brought us to no sex relationship, we have a very good day by day relationship but I felt that I'm failing her and she deserves some pleasure that she thinks no need.

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By *yeSureMan
15 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *illDoXXXMan
15 weeks ago

Preston

Love to please your wife

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By *andlerMan
15 weeks ago

shipley

"I wonder why some husbands like their wife with another man and why it’s a pleasure for both please? I think it’s a big thing, the husband who does it, must have a very kind heart."

It's taboo letting another guy take your wife

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By *malad29Man
15 weeks ago

Tyrone

Love my gf to be shared

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

When we both played it fun watching her with other guys and seeing her pussy filled with another guys cock and then cum was always horny

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
15 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Nothing sexier than a hung bull fucking the wife

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By *unandcuriousCouple
15 weeks ago

Antrim

Hot as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"Nothing sexier than a hung bull fucking the wife "

Agreed

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By *heswanMan
15 weeks ago

Mansfield

I always enjoyed my ex wife with other guys, bulls fucking her was a massive turn on for both of us,

We did it on a regular basis x

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By *ustforfun8824Man
15 weeks ago

Limerick

Pm for wife (31) chat

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Love watching my wife just relive her youth and let go, the sex is just sex, dirty mostly both after one thing, nothing to do with not pleasing her my end just a huge turn on watching her let herself go and get lost in the moment x

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By *illDoXXXMan
15 weeks ago

Preston

I think it’s great that they do !

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By *iglad6833Man
15 weeks ago

durham

Love wife chat

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By *ersusxxxMan
15 weeks ago

Uxbridge

all relationships are saved..no divorces .no separations 😃

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By *dz69247Man
15 weeks ago

Manchester

Lots of relationships are different, I’ve been involved with couples where they enjoy the cuckold relationship. I asked once why they get off on it, and all I could work out is it’s a control thing, that the wife enjoyed being in control and manipulating her husband, I had one that would constantly tell her husband how inadequate he was, literally throughout the whole evening, as me and my mate where fucking her, got really off putting, but that’s there kink.

I was also part of a gangbang group, and the couple that we visited the most, the lady was literally Insatiable. They had, what seems an amazing relationship, but the wife just could not get enough, she just wanted cock after cock after cock. Amazing for us like, even the slightly hint of life in a cock, she would be sure to make sure it goes in her, but I bet she would have met us all every night if she could.

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By *knewbie85Man
15 weeks ago

Billericay

It’s such a sexy thought

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By *pthemanorMan
15 weeks ago

Abingdon on Thames

As with most kinks, fantasies, and be_room antics, it's surely different strokes for different folks (ahem)...

I've experienced this on 3 occasions, and all have been different. Cuckold (didn't enjoy), mmmf straight pleasure (amazing) and a bi mfm (good fun for all).

It's a very special dynamic when it works, and pretty dismal when it doesn't IMO.

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By *issyforyouTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Durham

Couldn't be more wrong

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By *urvegoblinMan
15 weeks ago

Coventry

Nothing more exiting than a strange bit its the same for them

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"In my experience, it’s often the husband feels he’s not satisfying his wife for one reason or another

People that think like this are just the type we avoid like the plague. "

Only vanilla friend that new about me and ex totally thought this. He could never understand it added to a great sex life .

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