FabSwingers.com forum: Difficulty of the site!

By *illiamo421 OP Man
13 weeks ago

london

Noticed being on here, being a single white male is pretty tough! That’s no me complaining about race or anything, just the fact that unfortunately women are inundated with 100’s of weird messages, those of us who’re genuine can’t break through due to the opinion we’re all weird creeps! Anyone else experience this?

By *oonbath89Man
13 weeks ago

radstock

"Noticed being on here, being a single white male is pretty tough! That’s no me complaining about race or anything, just the fact that unfortunately women are inundated with 100’s of weird messages, those of us who’re genuine can’t break through due to the opinion we’re all weird creeps! Anyone else experience this?"

I see your point it can’t be a needle in a haystack at times but unfortunately that’s the price of the ticket so to speak, I think it’s that balancing act between standing out and a little bit of luck , although I’ve spoken to and met a few couples/woman on here so it’s not impossible just requires a lot more hard work

By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
13 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Nope.

Being a single white male never prevented me from enjoying the site, getting meets and engaging with others.

Nor do anyone else's 'weird messages' affect my experience. If anything, it's the profiles that send them and that lack any effort that make a decent profile and message stand out clearer.

People have always claimed the m/f ratios and the behaviour of others stops them from having any chance on here. It's a convenient excuse. It's often something else that causes a lack of reply to messages and no interest from others. 🤷‍♂️