FabSwingers.com forum: Initial Message Tips

By *ourDiscreetDILF OP Man
5 weeks ago

Village outside Norwich

Popping this here so we can all discuss what is and isn't the best initial message to someone male / female.

Basic: Hi OR Wanna meet are clearly bad!

What do you find works and doesn't work?

Disclaimer: this is to start conversation, ice breakers only!

By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
5 weeks ago

London

I think most couples will say, make it clear that you've read their profile!

Personally hate when guys ask for a meet now, or make some statement like id love to fuck her.

always assume you're talking to both unless it's stated

One of the most important ones I think is give us something we can reply to. Sometimes it's a really closed message and it's hard work to think of a reply so we won't. Ask a question or something.

We're not one of these people that expect a totally amazing version of war and peace but there should be enough to get some interest.

Oh and also make sure you actually have a photo up, and a populated profile. Lose count of all the people that send a message and there is literally nothing to make a decision on whether to reply or not

That's a few