FabSwingers.com forum: Initial Message Tips

By (user no longer on site) OP
37 weeks ago

Popping this here so we can all discuss what is and isn't the best initial message to someone male / female.

Basic: Hi OR Wanna meet are clearly bad!

What do you find works and doesn't work?

Disclaimer: this is to start conversation, ice breakers only!

By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
37 weeks ago

London

I think most couples will say, make it clear that you've read their profile!

Personally hate when guys ask for a meet now, or make some statement like id love to fuck her.

always assume you're talking to both unless it's stated

One of the most important ones I think is give us something we can reply to. Sometimes it's a really closed message and it's hard work to think of a reply so we won't. Ask a question or something.

We're not one of these people that expect a totally amazing version of war and peace but there should be enough to get some interest.

Oh and also make sure you actually have a photo up, and a populated profile. Lose count of all the people that send a message and there is literally nothing to make a decision on whether to reply or not

That's a few