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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all

I am newly single and new to this type of site. Am looking to expand my horizons a little while here. But just want to find some women to please.

Am seemingly completely failing to connect to anyone, they either don't reply to messages or chat a bit then ignore me or in some cases don't even read my messages.

Am I doing something wrong? Or am I being too hopeful?

Lawrence

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

As a good forumite will tell you, your post on here is 3 times longer than your profile.

Your profile says nothing apart from that you wnat to pleasure a woman.

Why would a woman choose you over any other man??

You need to put a lot more into it than just 3 lines of not a lot.

Oh and 'cannot accommodate'..... are you married?

Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will look at profile again, thanks.

Not married, but had to move back to mum's for the short term, hence can't accomodate.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"Will look at profile again, thanks.

Not married, but had to move back to mum's for the short term, hence can't accomodate."

Then put that in there, at least people wont make assumptions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had a rewrite, hopefully an improvement.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Could probably do with some photo help if anybody nearby is handy with a camera.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now there's a tempting offer...

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Hi all

I am newly single and new to this type of site. Am looking to expand my horizons a little while here. But just want to find some women to please.

Am seemingly completely failing to connect to anyone, they either don't reply to messages or chat a bit then ignore me or in some cases don't even read my messages.

Am I doing something wrong? Or am I being too hopeful?

Lawrence"
your not really doing anything wrong, listen to the advise that the others have given u, and remember u are a tiddly fish now in a massive pond.

so be patient wiggle your maggot about for a while and eventually u will get a bite

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By *witch mix vanillaCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

You have been a member for 2 weeks, as has been said in previous threads lots of times, it is not instant shag.

Some guys have been on here a year and no meets.

There are so many single guys compared to couples and single women, you have to stand out from the crowd to get attention.

I think it could be as much as 200 men to 1 woman / couple.

Go to clubs, social events, as swinging is not just about sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as someone said in another post, its a buyers market for cpls and women. get chatting to people. dont me pushy. if someone dosnt message you back they are saying thanks but no thanks. women and cpls can get alot of message a day, so they look for the ones who stand out the most to them. i know how you feel.

keep carm things do happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - you have got to get yourself into the right mindset if you are going to get anywhere. Being on a site like this is a marathon, NOT a sprint. Some guys have been on here over a year, have had no meets but keep plugging away.

You're in the younger end of the age range on here, so i will say the same as I would to anyone in that bracket: If you want to get going in the Swinging world, get along to some clubs, find one you like and go there REGULARLY. You need to stimulate some interest in you IN PERSON.

Looks like you have already taken on board some of the earlier comments on your thread so you do appear to be a guy who takes on-board constructive criticism - that is a BIG bonus point, and if you continue to accept advice/help you will find things dropping into place, but... you still need to get yourself out there. Don't just rely on a site like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giggles all girlie like - Whats the rush - Chillax

Ok I would suggest finding your Regional Room and try to chat with the people in there find out when their next Social Meet is - Usually its at a Swingers Club ,and lots of like minded swingers will arrive - its a no pressure thing - your not expected to do anything but chat

You think you can handle that ?

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