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By *eil777 OP   Man
49 weeks ago

leicester

How many men and women here without there partners knowing ? Has it improved there own relationships

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By *JandJJCouple
49 weeks ago

Nuneaton


"How many men and women here without there partners knowing ? Has it improved there own relationships "

How can it improve their relationships by lying to their wives?

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By *eil777 OP   Man
49 weeks ago

leicester

May get fulfilment of needs which takes away frustrations

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By *issmorganWoman
49 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Lots of married men and women on here on the sly.

Does it improve relationships, I don't know. It definitely won't if they get caught cheating.

Are you in a relationship op?.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Sounds like a direct train to a mental breakdown. You might believe you're able to compartmentalise into infinity.

Trust me. You can't. You will hit breaking point at some point. Whether their partner finds out or not might vary. But your relationship won't last.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
49 weeks ago

East Sussex

There are quite a few people in here whose partners aren't aware. Some of them do genuinely believe that it improves their relationship and who am I to say it doesn't, I have no idea what goes on in their lives.

I do suspect that if they're found out any improvement might diminish rapidly...

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By *eroLondonMan
49 weeks ago

Mayfair

Psst — I took her ^ to the Churchill Suite at Claridges and her husband didn't know anything about it.

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By *JandJJCouple
49 weeks ago

Nuneaton


"May get fulfilment of needs which takes away frustrations"

And it improves it for the wife how??

A relationship based on dishonesty?

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By *ndiiiMan
49 weeks ago

Paisley Scotland

Each to their own, no one is in a position to judge one way or another!!!!!

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By *ilda934Woman
49 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

The funny thing about cheating is that women actually cheat more, men just tend to get caught more frequently.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Plenty of ladies looking for an extra without their partners knowing. I have no issue with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"The funny thing about cheating is that women actually cheat more, men just tend to get caught more frequently. "

Also, on here from what I’ve seen. A woman that’s cheating is seen as desirable by men, and cheating men are desired by less (but there still seems to be a fetish almost for married men too).

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By *issmorganWoman
49 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"The funny thing about cheating is that women actually cheat more, men just tend to get caught more frequently.

Also, on here from what I’ve seen. A woman that’s cheating is seen as desirable by men, and cheating men are desired by less (but there still seems to be a fetish almost for married men too)."

Many men don't care if a woman's married that's true, they see it as a turn on and some even get off thinking they're getting one over on her hubby.

Some, not all women will have empathy for the mans wife and for that reason won't want to meet someone cheating.

Plus married women seem to get on with it quietly and don't feel the need to start threads, inviting comments or looking to justify why they're on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"The funny thing about cheating is that women actually cheat more, men just tend to get caught more frequently.

Also, on here from what I’ve seen. A woman that’s cheating is seen as desirable by men, and cheating men are desired by less (but there still seems to be a fetish almost for married men too).

Many men don't care if a woman's married that's true, they see it as a turn on and some even get off thinking they're getting one over on her hubby.

Some, not all women will have empathy for the mans wife and for that reason won't want to meet someone cheating.

Plus married women seem to get on with it quietly and don't feel the need to start threads, inviting comments or looking to justify why they're on here. "

Pretty much spot on

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By *JandJJCouple
49 weeks ago

Nuneaton


"Each to their own, no one is in a position to judge one way or another!!!!!"

Are you attached?

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By *JandJJCouple
49 weeks ago

Nuneaton


"Plenty of ladies looking for an extra without their partners knowing. I have no issue with that."

Agree totally, but they don't start threads in the hope of being able to justify their cheating.

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By *eil777 OP   Man
49 weeks ago

leicester

Yes

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By *litlicker77Man
49 weeks ago

dirty old town

I love a lady looking for extra

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By *lik and PaulCouple
49 weeks ago

cahoots

Having been cheated on and knowing friends in the same position, from my experience it just destroys relationships and causes huge future trust issues.

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By *its The Spot AlotMan
49 weeks ago

Plymouth

I've found either the other half playing with permission she had guys not able to accept the scenario as easy as if they thought she was cheating.

Yes could be s turn on thing, but I find it's also true with me playing solo, if I say the Mrs knows and we swing it's just not acceptable or is less accepted with woman, especially on Fab which is a swinging site lol

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By *andC1000Couple
48 weeks ago

Ashford


"Having been cheated on and knowing friends in the same position, from my experience it just destroys relationships and causes huge future trust issues."

Hurts like hell especially when they still carry on regardless when caught without a care in the world about the damage and pain they caused. As long their ok and satisfied no one else matters

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

It is not worth it. To much pain and hurt it causes

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
48 weeks ago

Reading

My wife in the past cheated on me

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By *hesblokeMan
48 weeks ago

Derbyshire village

Couldn't possibly, it'd do me in.

And tbh I haven't met a woman who gets close, so not an issue

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By *ct238Man
48 weeks ago

Glasgow

My wife cheated. Was a blessing in disguise!

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