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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi all, been on here a few months now and all i seem to get are messages from guys, which as stated on my profile im not into any advise on how to get meets or even how to get messages going would be greatly appreciated

thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is very vague, not knowing what you are looking for is not an overly strong selling point

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By *hinaManMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

I understand since you are new then perhaps you are still not sure what you want to get out of this but perhaps you could list some of the things you enjoy? Also anything that makes you unique or stands you out (because there are loads of single guys here so competition is fierce).

Quite a lot of females on here like the soldier/squaddie type so maybe you can emphasise that a bit more on your profile?

Anyway best of luck and remember patience is a virtue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi all, been on here a few months now and all i seem to get are messages from guys, which as stated on my profile im not into any advise on how to get meets or even how to get messages going would be greatly appreciated

thanks in advance"

Lose the picture of you holding a wine glass .

A nice facial shot close up would work , as would a picture of you that has been taken fully dressed in nice clothes in a casual background .

A bit more about yourself, state that your confident and tell a joke or be sarcastic . Perhaps the fact you don't mind travelling a certain distance for a meet and roughly how your availability is.

Well that's what we look for in a single guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the, "I don't know what I'm looking for" isn't going to help. There are thousands of guys here who know what they want and what they have to offer so you'll need to compete with them. Your profile says non smoker but in one pic you're holding a cigarette? Just an observation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice is: make an effort. You'll only get out of it, what you put into it

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

If you don't want mail from guys.....filter them. Then they can't mail you.

Your profile location is London, but your profile text says Glasgow??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look at other guys profiles and get some tips from what they have written.

With regards to messages, read the profile, relate your message to it.

Be respectful

Polite

Patient

And

Never expect a reply.

Use the forum to get known and don't moan about no meets.

Good luck and welcome to Fab

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By *ucyhenry69Couple
over a year ago

Hampton

You say you are a non smoker, but in one of your photos you have a cigarette in your hand.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"You say you are a non smoker, but in one of your photos you have a cigarette in your hand. "
well spotted sherlock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are a good looking young man. Reword your profile and you will have no problems. There are lots of milfs out there would love to spend some time with you. Good hunting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for all the help guys much appreciatted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IF its true about you being one of those soldier guard people outside the palace-couldnt you get the sack or at least a serious telling off for being on here and being so open about it?

Im only going on the advice ive seen others give to guys in uniform-"bringing the service into disrepute" i think is the phrase they use.

Considering youre pretty specific about what you do-i doubt it would be too difficult to find out other personal info-scary thought!!!

Be careful and have fun

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