FabSwingers.com forum: Help with asking mrs

By *weeteat OP Man
over a year ago

sutton coldfield

Hey Everyone

Hope all is good and wishing everyone a happy new year ,

Me and partner beeen together 7 years and sex has gone bit boring . I have a fantasy of been a cuck or same room swapping or same room fun ,

The question is how do I ask the mrs ?

I’ve seen on her phone before about lesbian porn and bi porn

And also bbc I seen on her history before

So I’m thinking how do I ask as I don’t want to do it any it all explodes lol , any tips off couples would be great

Many thanks

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

A few Fab cliché answers for you.

1. You should know how to speak with your partner better than anyone on here.

2. Show her your profile on here so that she has the full picture about you cheating on her so that you can have an honest discussion.

3. End the relationship so that she can find someone she wants to have a decent relationship with.

I'm sure others will add to this list for you.

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By *weeteat OP Man
over a year ago

sutton coldfield

Was asking for advice

I’m not a cheat this is why I’ve asked on here for advice

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By *ayd100Man
over a year ago

clitheroe

"Hey Everyone

Hope all is good and wishing everyone a happy new year ,

Me and partner beeen together 7 years and sex has gone bit boring . I have a fantasy of been a cuck or same room swapping or same room fun ,

The question is how do I ask the mrs ?

I’ve seen on her phone before about lesbian porn and bi porn

And also bbc I seen on her history before

So I’m thinking how do I ask as I don’t want to do it any it all explodes lol , any tips off couples would be great

Many thanks "
show her your post

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Was asking for advice

I’m not a cheat this is why I’ve asked on here for advice

I gave you some of the standard advice above. If you're not cheating then she knows that you've met people on here so it should be a straightforward discussion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was asking for advice

I’m not a cheat this is why I’ve asked on here for advice

Does she know your on fab meeting others? If so it can’t be that hard to have the conversation. Or just show her your post

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Talk, talk and more talking.

Listen, listen and more listening.

Tell her you'd like to discuss making your sex life more fulfilling for *both of you*. Say the direction you'd like it to go in and ask her how she'd like it to go. The two might be wildly different it's possible she's going to want you to do things you either haven't considered or you don't like the thought of and vice versa. That's where compromise comes in.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If you're not cheating, show her fab and see if anyone or anything takes her fancy.

You know your partner much better than we do op, mention that you'd like to try out some fantasies and ask her if she has any she'd like to try too.

Best thing is open and honest communication.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Also don't imply you're bored, as it takes 2 people to make a sex life.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

"A few Fab cliché answers for you.

1. You should know how to speak with your partner better than anyone on here.

2. Show her your profile on here so that she has the full picture about you cheating on her so that you can have an honest discussion.

3. End the relationship so that she can find someone she wants to have a decent relationship with.

I'm sure others will add to this list for you."

This seems helpful...

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

I'm going to ignore the "cheating" elephant in the room and instead focus on the "sex is now boring", "it's my fantasy". Seems to be all about you you you. What about her?

Is her fantasy to fulfill your sexual fantasies? Have you thought that she may not be interested in shagging a stranger just to please you? That she would simply prefer to shag a stranger without you looking or be aware that she is doing it? Or just find a person with whom sex is not boring?

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By *uy4swingingMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"I'm going to ignore the "cheating" elephant in the room and instead focus on the "sex is now boring", "it's my fantasy". Seems to be all about you you you. What about her?

The above is best answer.

Just talk openingly with her about the subject and ask her what she is looking for. And then go from there.

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By *ara wilcoxTV/TS
over a year ago

Sunderland

Talk fantasies when licking her. She loves it.

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