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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it me or are just some people sooo rude??

I mean I am not taking things personally i guess what ever you want is not my concern but I do wonder if it’s just common courtesy to say “ thank you but I am not interested “

Rather just just delete delete delete at least you know where you stand, I have had some nice people say thank you for your message but it’s not what I want,and I accept and understand

I have been completely honest and always reply to say thank you but no thank you.

I just think people in general have lost their manners!

Maybe I’m too old school lol!!

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I’m led to believe that some people have hundreds of messages to deal with. I think it’s forgiveable. The site guidelines say that no reply is a reply (i.e. you should take it as meaning not interested). I think most people don’t intend to be rude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah okay cool thank you for the advice!

Yeah I can guess people ( women especially) get hundreds of messages,

Cheers

Enjoy your evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site literally says that if someone doesn't reply then take that as a not interested.

OP, do you respond to every scam/spam call/mail that you get to tell them you're not interested? When you see an advertisement board in the street do you phone them to tell them you're not interested? No, then I guess you're the one lacking in manners!

People can get 100s of messages a day, why would they send hundreds of rejection mails? It just seems like a waste of time.

My final message is that this is the internet...people aren't kind here...be thankful that this place isnt like VRC/COD. If you lack the mental materials to handle a lack of replies then this site is going to be a struggle for you.

Ironic that the cheater goes on about manners and respect tho...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try making a female profile on here and then you’ll probably see why so many of us prefer to delete.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m not here to judge anybody and you shouldn’t be either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not here to judge anybody and you shouldn’t be either "

Judging is fun, especially against your kind, so I'll continue to do it.

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By *JandJJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"I’m not here to judge anybody and you shouldn’t be either "

It isn't judging is it, it is si2mply a statement of right or wrong.

Or is cheating and dishonesty ok in your world?

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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36

Op you’re totally in the wrong on this subject imho and by site rules and just a heads up on politeness use the quote +reply button on the forums so people know who you are replying to.

Best of luck.

T

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