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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im new to this site and im not having much luck arranging a meet, any tips on what i should or shouldnt say or do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience patience and more patience its not easy as a single male you are vastly out numbered, you have to send good messages out and hope for a reply then take it from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

O and your profile needs major work to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crap profile

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

and never ever expect to chat then jump into bed...the decent ones are worth waiting for...

but thats up to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello and welcome to Fab...

It may be worth spending more time on your profile, sell yourself using proper English, a bit of humour and a bit of what you would like.

Use the forums to get yourself known and upload some more photos.

As already mentioned, be patient, polite and respectful.

Never ever expect a reply( then it's nice when you get one) also never expect a shag in a week.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to try much harder on your profile... who is going to queue up and ask you questions? You have to supply some fun to get some interest. Your profile looks like you joined after a night out pissed up and thought ... i want pussy, lets put a profile on Fab and watch them come running.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crap profile "

Yup. Crap profile = Crap meet. Pointless exercise rambling on about what people should and shouldn't write on their profile; it should reflect them in a realistic light.

Unfortunately, this one does!

You end up otherwise creating a false impression. Sorry to be blunt, but had so many of these lately. There's enough advice already on here about getting started.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Crap profile

Yup. Crap profile = Crap meet. Pointless exercise rambling on about what people should and shouldn't write on their profile; it should reflect them in a realistic light.

Unfortunately, this one does!

You end up otherwise creating a false impression. Sorry to be blunt, but had so many of these lately. There's enough advice already on here about getting started.

"

^^^^^Spot...on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been here two weeks with a one line profile-like others said above-put some work into your profile and patience. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah u all bang on but too many blokes try n put on this fake chat n fake shit thinking that girls will be impressed when ive found they tell a knob a mile away lol but know someone genuine frm the rest x so guys be urself be funny n you half way there ( ah and u dont have to meet rite off sexy messaging just adds to the fun n build up x )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah u all bang on but too many blokes try n put on this fake chat n fake shit thinking that girls will be impressed when ive found they tell a knob a mile away lol but know someone genuine frm the rest x so guys be urself be funny n you half way there ( ah and u dont have to meet rite off sexy messaging just adds to the fun n build up x )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah u all bang on but too many blokes try n put on this fake chat n fake shit thinking that girls will be impressed when ive found they tell a knob a mile away lol but know someone genuine frm the rest x so guys be urself be funny n you half way there ( ah and u dont have to meet rite off sexy messaging just adds to the fun n build up x )"

Yup - just like sanatogen. Yourself - but on a good day. X

Sorry to give the OP short thrift on this, but saves a lot of people's energy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah u all bang on but too many blokes try n put on this fake chat n fake shit thinking that girls will be impressed when ive found they tell a knob a mile away lol but know someone genuine frm the rest x so guys be urself be funny n you half way there ( ah and u dont have to meet rite off sexy messaging just adds to the fun n build up x )

Yup - just like sanatogen. Yourself - but on a good day. X

Sorry to give the OP short thrift on this, but saves a lot of people's energy "

sort your profile out!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Advice was sought,.good advice given but sadly ignored as usual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Advice was sought,.good advice given but sadly ignored as usual."

As Clouseau would say: ze case is close-ed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder when folk join if admin can highlight 3 things 1 is patience 2 is patience 3 is patience.

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

You are in a line of 1000 people of the same sex all looking for the same thing, you need to stand out in that line of people to get noticed.

as said no one is going to come and ask questions about you you have to sell yourself and make people want to chat to you.

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton

Jesus 2 f****** weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly the girls aren't going to fall at your feet on here. And it isn't Instashag either.

If you make your pics and profile look good and message girls politely and have something to say... They might just be interested in you rather than the cock shot with the one line email and three line profile.

It's that or come join a social meet or a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus 2 f****** weeks "

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