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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you do. I've been patient we've talked and she says it's not to do with me . But it's been like 3 times in 2 years. She knows about me being on this site (but isn't a fan of it), but to be honest single blokes with limited availability who are married aren't top of anyone's wish list anyway so she's pretty safe

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"What do you do. I've been patient we've talked and she says it's not to do with me . But it's been like 3 times in 2 years. She knows about me being on this site (but isn't a fan of it), but to be honest single blokes with limited availability who are married aren't top of anyone's wish list anyway so she's pretty safe"

Hi op

Relationship aren't based on sex and nor are each other up for it at the same time so talk to her ask her if everything is ok with her and don't bring up about sex talk with her it might be something that she is struggling to tell you or even struggling to get her own head around....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Try talking about the relationship more generally, see if there's anything that can be improved. The only people who can solve it are you and her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It is still an important part of a relationship though. We've discussed the problem but don't really know how to get out of it.

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By *ippy68Man
over a year ago

Weymouth

It’s the same for us only it’s been over 10 years now, even if we were to do it it would feel really awkward instigating it now. I think we have had our time together and only remain now for some kind of security in the form of us both keeping a roof over our heads.


"It is still an important part of a relationship though. We've discussed the problem but don't really know how to get out of it. "

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By *ihullfunMan
over a year ago

hull

Sex? What’s sex, I try and stay positive and we chat about it but she’s just gone off it. What do you do?

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By *ave0070Man
over a year ago

Sleaford

We haven't had sex in over four years now we still love each other but it's really hard especially because I want it all the time lol xx

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"It is still an important part of a relationship though. We've discussed the problem but don't really know how to get out of it. "

Sex within a relationship is basically the last part everything else plays an important role

Maybe if it is a agree and disagree situation maybe you both need professional care and need to explore this maybe speak with the doctor obviously together and hopefully things can be put in place

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I go on here, or a porn site per and wank. That's basically it.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I go on here, or a porn site per and wank. That's basically it. "

Maybe put your partners needs before your own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe I do?

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By *CBoyTV/TS
over a year ago

Tonypandy


"What do you do. I've been patient we've talked and she says it's not to do with me . But it's been like 3 times in 2 years. She knows about me being on this site (but isn't a fan of it), but to be honest single blokes with limited availability who are married aren't top of anyone's wish list anyway so she's pretty safe"

I guess you enjoy getting sucked off.? You should definitely try getting sucked off by men and tgirls. Put inhibitions aside. It will give you some of the sexual pleasure you seek. Most bi guys on here don't fancy guys romantically they just want cock fun. No guy is going to grab you and try to kiss you so don't be worried. Try Gloryhole fun first. Take courage and go to a gay sauna and find the gloryhole cubicles. Go in there and put your cock through the hole and you will probably get the best cock sucking you've ever experienced. There are hundreds if not 1000s of married guys on here who have sexless marriages who have now turned bi and finding the sexual release they need with other like minded guys .It's much easier than trying to meet women or mf couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you "turn" bi??

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By *mizhereMan
over a year ago

Thame area


"How do you "turn" bi?? "

I never turned started as a lad stopped when older and married and returned to it with mrs swinging

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By *appi BearMan
over a year ago

Lodge Rd, Hartshill ST4 6RD

If there’s anyone in the same situation in Stoke area let me know, I’m happy to listen if anyone wants, or social meet etc. happy to support how I can

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By *rdimpsMan
over a year ago

Hull

The last conversation we had about sex went like this, "thats not going in there", this was about 3 years ago, i got one hand job ofc her last year, this year zip, nad nothing. Thats menopause for you.

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By *oe n JayCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Hope it works out for you both

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By *ndy man 200Man
over a year ago

hereford

Thought I was the only one in sexless marriage ,but there are lots of us

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By *atthew 776Man
over a year ago

your town

I’m going to reply privately

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By *ayd100Man
over a year ago

clitheroe

Go down the cock sucking route,lots to enjoy

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Thought I was the only one in sexless marriage ,but there are lots of us"

Not being a prune but is your unable to satisfy her and you feel it think don't blame her

I have never had it on tap throughout my relationships so if you have one talk and be thoughtful if anything as you have something many want so do your best to understand

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By *ensible lady 1960Woman
over a year ago

Near Bishop Auckland.

I would be long gone,and have done it before.sounds harsh but thats me.no sex and am off to get it elsewhere.

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By *ensible lady 1960Woman
over a year ago

Near Bishop Auckland.

oh and i have told the guys too.just to be honest,that i will go elsewhere.

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW


"The last conversation we had about sex went like this, "thats not going in there", this was about 3 years ago, i got one hand job ofc her last year, this year zip, nad nothing. Thats menopause for you."

Menopause isn’t like that for all women. Some still constantly crave sex. Do you make her feel sexy and desired. Do you make her feel wanted. Do you take her out and ‘court’ her? Like you did when you first met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say its always the mans fault if his wife doesn't want fucking. Got to work at it. First thing is to make her laugh first thing in the morning, every morning. A smile, a chuckle leads on to that all important eye contact. Got to have that every day.

Every day is courting day. Says she doesn't want sex. Rise to the challenge and seduce her all over again.

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By *atthew 776Man
52 weeks ago

your town

Hello mate, I was in a similar situation, we had children and she just felt exhausted and like solely a mum. The problem is you will feel like why should I do xyz if you aren’t being this way with me.

A man typically seen love through affection and intimacy, and intimacy strengthens bonds and maintains a relationship

You need to understand outside of sex what she needs to feel loved.

Does she want more help around the house, your time with conversation, time to relax from you and kids if you have them?

Being on here and sleeping with people isn’t going to help. You won’t die without sex so you have two choices.

Talk and change things

Or leave

Everyone deserves to be happy, I tell you now from experience, this situation will destroy your self esteem, what happens in the future when she’s with someone else shagging like a rabbit.

Know your worth, either fix the issue and if it can’t be walk away

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By *arksjamesMan
52 weeks ago

Warwick


"We haven't had sex in over four years now we still love each other but it's really hard especially because I want it all the time lol xx "

Yes, know that feeling

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By *ed386Man
52 weeks ago

close by

Same all over the world- people change and times change.

It is not easy to be the one in the relationship who needs sexual fulfillment though!

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By * little bit naughtyCouple
52 weeks ago

Bedford

I’d say that really solid advice xx

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By *atthew 776Man
51 weeks ago

your town


"I’d say that really solid advice xx "

I should be a counselling legend lol

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By *oth0fusCouple
51 weeks ago

London

A slightly different opinion here are you are in a sexless marriage where everything else is ok but your wife doesn’t want it?

I would see this as your wife does not see sex as an important part of a relationship, so why would she be bothered about you fulfilling your urges with someone else where it is just sex?

Withholding sex and still not letting you see others is unreasonable behaviour but we are programmed to accept we can’t question it.

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