FabSwingers.com forum: Convince wife

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have a hot wife who loves sex so much but I feel it’s time to share her how can I convince her in the right way without issues between us

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By *atch1982Man
over a year ago

Abingdon

"I have a hot wife who loves sex so much but I feel it’s time to share her how can I convince her in the right way without issues between us "

Get her involved on here first, let her instigate any fun if she wants to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What if she goes mad I’m on here lol

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By *atch1982Man
over a year ago

Abingdon

"What if she goes mad I’m on here lol "

Then she doesn’t know you as you think, and you are not particularly compatible

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"What if she goes mad I’m on here lol "

Then pack a bag or even a suitcase ready and book a hotel

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By *ightNWet69Woman
over a year ago

dark side of the moon

"What if she goes mad I’m on here lol "

Does she know you're looking for a regular partner?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I have a hot wife who loves sex so much but I feel it’s time to share her how can I convince her in the right way without issues between us "

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"What if she goes mad I’m on here lol "

I'd say that was a definite not a possibility

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By *andy IanMan
over a year ago

cheshire/Preston

When your having sex suggest to her that you’d like to see another man fuck her and see what she says

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

You shouldn't try to convince her op , you can ask her.

Sit and have an open conversation with her and see if she'd like to swing.

If she says no you have 2 choices accept it & delete your profile. Or carry on behind her back and hope she never gets wise to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think she would

Love the idea but being Indian she doesn’t want to be seen like that if u get me

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By *oey.joe1Man
over a year ago

swindon

Chat??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok to pm me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I think she would

Love the idea but being Indian she doesn’t want to be seen like that if u get me "

You think or you know? Why can't you ask her?

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I have a hot wife who loves sex so much but I feel it’s time to share her how can I convince her in the right way without issues between us

If you think she'll need convincing and you don't know if it will cause issues I'd say you need to work on your relationship and communication first. Then have a conversation about mutual desires and fantasies and take it from there. "
Try some type of role play between yourselves and see how she reacts? Introduce ideas during these scenarios

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By *orthernLightsCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Agree that it’s a good idea to mention some scenarios during sex. Perhaps find some erotic stories with some of the things you’d like to try and read them together. Communication is key especially if you both decide to give it a try.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She gets wet when watchinf porn just wish she would go out and fuck

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"I have a hot wife who loves sex so much but I feel it’s time to share her how can I convince her in the right way without issues between us "

You can't 'convince' her.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"What if she goes mad I’m on here lol "

Lol? I'm guessing she wouldn't love your verification, but show her and see how it goes. Im guessing you won't be laughing then.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

If she left left you because youre on fab think of all free time youd have to wank about her dating other men, maybe settling down with one and having kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a hot wife who loves sex so much but I feel it’s time to share her how can I convince her in the right way without issues between us "

Sample just ask what her fantasies may be .

If says she's living them that's it

Be happy .

And get off this site mate

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By *woofakind2022Couple (MM)
over a year ago

London/East Anglia

Firstly, if you’re on here without your wife that’s a big red flag - nothing admirable or appealing in that for the majority on here, I’d say.

Swinging is for people to feel comfortable about exploring with their partners, seems like you’ve known that your partner isn’t keen, so decided to explore yourself - not cool, my friend.

You shouldn’t need to convince anyone to do anything, what does that say about your relationship if that’s the case?

In general, you can normally gauge who’d be interested in doing what with whom, via chat during sex about certain fantasies, albeit, it’s very easy to chat with your partner in a comfortable setting about fucking someone else, than it is to go through with it when that fantasy becomes a reality.

If your partner’s not interested, concentrate on improving your sexual relationship between the two of you without the need of swinging or involving another person.

Delete your profile, reassess, and go from there.

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