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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just realised that it very difficult on here for a single guy. When there's a bunch of profile with couple and there's only a male involved have to say single guys have it tough here.......

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Perhaps if you made a bit of an effort with your profile you might stand a fighting chance.

Just saying like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've only bin here a bloody week give it a chance! we all werent gonna form an orderly queue to rip ur clothes off. as a single guy ur a small fish in a big pond n couples/fems can afford to be picky coz of this, most will read the profile before decided to read your message or not n your profile has the classy rookie mistake of bein just two lines long so therefore boring, really think bout who u are what u want and what you feel u can offer a prospective meet and detail this in your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another moaning single bloke giving rest bad name get over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another moaning single bloke giving rest bad name get over it."

How is he giving rest a bad name?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another moaning single bloke giving rest bad name get over it.

How is he giving rest a bad name?

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I may have worded incorrectly but so many posts on here are from single blokes who seem to be under illusion they should get instant meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just realised that it very difficult on here for a single guy. When there's a bunch of profile with couple and there's only a male involved have to say single guys have it tough here....... "

"Can say much but if you have a question am happy to answer...... "

That is your profile?. If you CAN say much, as stated, then why don't you? If it is a mistake made and you meant to say you CAN'T say much, then you need to try. If you haven't anything to say on a written profile, who do you think is going to want to meet with someone who has little to say?

The fact you put so little effort into your profile, will suggest to many that you will put a similar amount of effort into conversing with anyone who may decide to meet you.

With so many single guys on here, giving us couples and single women such a vast choice, you need to make your profile stand out, by being interesting and informative. Your profile says nothing about you, what you like and what you want out of meeting. You need to take the time to sell yourself to us, not us having to do all the groundwork asking you questions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When I post this forum I wasn't giving out or desperate I was just saying base on the amount of single guys here am new here. So tripod or whatever your name is check around before saying another single moaning bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

warm up the sofa first - then see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From one single bloke to another, I class my self as being successful on here, and that is down to effort, respect and patience...

One week does not qualify for an instant shag...

As for an one sentence profile, you aren't doing yourself any favours...

Good luck, I think you may need it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is to stand out from the crowd. Endless penis shots are not the way. Show people you are different, clean, reliable and hot!!

Humour and the ability to juggle hard and fast do it for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing is to stand out from the crowd. Endless penis shots are not the way. Show people you are different, clean, reliable and hot!!

Humour and the ability to juggle hard and fast do it for us. "

Funny enough, I've just booked some juggling lessons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Funny enough, I've just booked some juggling lessons "

Oh just brilliant... Now they are giving guys courses in how to play with their balls.

Make sure you get permisdion from the owners when you move to using 3 or more balls though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best thing to do if you find you havnt had any action after only being on here for a week is to complain about it. EVERYONE you are hoping to play with, single women, couples. they all love someone who moans about things that are fully within their own powers to change

Don't even think about putting yourself out there and taking the time to get yourself known on the forums by chatting to people - taking your time to message people and let them see why they should be with you over the other guys on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no newbie to this site, been on here a few times now... I consider myself to be successful and lucky... Respect, and manners go a long way in my books...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so weird, the guys who take time to chat, post on forums, go to socials, take on board profile feedback, they seem so darned LUCKY!

How can this be??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's so weird, the guys who take time to chat, post on forums, go to socials, take on board profile feedback, they seem so darned LUCKY!

How can this be??

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Lol I wonder why that is??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's so weird, the guys who take time to chat, post on forums, go to socials, take on board profile feedback, they seem so darned LUCKY!

How can this be??

Lol I wonder why that is??

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Ya think there might be a lesson for the whingers here then. I'm not sure what you're getting at exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of friendly advice, one picture of your bathroom tiles and a very short profile is not helping your cause, plus youve only been on here a week !

GOOD LUCK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm genuinely curious-what were your expectations of joining a swinging site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just realised that it very difficult on here for a single guy. When there's a bunch of profile with couple and there's only a male involved have to say single guys have it tough here....... "

It took you 3 days to realise this ?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Have you made any changes to your profile, your approach etc etc

You asked 3 days ago and people gave advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you made any changes to your profile, your approach etc etc

You asked 3 days ago and people gave advice.

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+ whats yolo is that what the kids are saying now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its FABswingers NOT instashag.. Geez !!

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Here we go again!

Another whining single guy who's just been on a few days and expects every female to drop at his feet!!

Listen, it's as simple as this!

This is NOT an Instant Fix site! Uou have to "sell yourself" - sorry if it seems blunt, but it is a fact of life on here.

You are competing against dozens, if not 100's of single guys in your regional area, so you have to stand out!

Your Profile, hmmm, seen a lot better! You have written it just as you would say it, in one long sentence, without any breaks between or use of Capital letters at the start of each point.

No, it isn't an English exam, but there are a few niceties which if used, go a long way to impress. Expand your Profile because at the moment it says very little.

You have a body pic, taken in some bathroom. But your body is partially in shadow, making the bathroom tiles stand out! Is it your tiles who are seeking a meet, or you? Get a face pic on and a clearer body shot if you want that there too.

Have you been on the Forums? Are there any clubs or social nights in your area that you could go too? If yes, get to them. You have to put yourself out to be noticed!

Lastly, one common factor is needed for all of us, that is, Patience, more Patience, and errmmm, a hell of a lot of Patience!!!!!

It does work, finally. But if you do nothing to show others you are there..........?

Good Luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its FABswingers NOT instashag.. Geez !! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another moaning single bloke giving rest bad name get over it.

How is he giving rest a bad name?

I may have worded incorrectly but so many posts on here are from single blokes who seem to be under illusion they should get instant meets. "

Yeah true, but get same posts from cpls and fems too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just noticed you where saying that it boils down to the OP profile. Any advice or changes you lovely people could suggest on mine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start your own look at me thread

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