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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi there people hope your all well, just wonder if any of u can help me as I'm finding it hard to get replies could there be any reason ?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Could be that the people you're mailing who aren't replying just aren't interested.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

You're on a swinging site where the population is about 75% male.

No real public pictures (women seem to like a torso pic or face pic, I know you have one as the avatar but those are often to small to see).

Be pro active, read profiles and send messages respond to meet requests get some pictures up go along to clubs on "single guy" nights, get to socials in your area etc etc but be patient respectful and chilled out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice black cherry, I do have pix for friends only and always read profiles before I MSG x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suppose but surely someone must be interested lol

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

You are looking for a ff couple?wow.and you are surprised you can't find them.lol

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I suppose but surely someone must be interested lol"

There is probably someone interested yes, but as a single guy its going to take time and effort to find people.

If its just a quick one on one shag you would be better off on one of the many sites that cater for that :p

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you know of any other sites that would be a better choice for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are looking for a ff couple?wow.and you are surprised you can't find them.lol"

I'm not only looking for a ff couple

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

There are lots of them around if you look up single naughty fun in google, mileage will vary undoubtedly but they might cater better for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are lots of them around if you look up single naughty fun in google, mileage will vary undoubtedly but they might cater better for you.

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Ill have a look at the search results. I do like it here its easy to use and there are some sound people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying that you're not single will put some people off too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be that the people you're mailing who aren't replying just aren't interested."

exactley

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I suppose but surely someone must be interested lol

There is probably someone interested yes, but as a single guy its going to take time and effort to find people.

If its just a quick one on one shag you would be better off on one of the many sites that cater for that :p"

But he's not single though. Who needs the arse ache of attached men when we're wall to wall in genuine single men?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NEVER EXPECT!

and

BE PATIENT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suprised this look at me thread still going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a single man, its that simple im afraid. Sending out messages is a complete waste of time wait till you are contacted but don't hold you're breathe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're a single man, its that simple im afraid. Sending out messages is a complete waste of time wait till you are contacted but don't hold you're breathe"

I disagree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why not just concentrate on the eight ladies you have as friends, and when you've fucked those, look for another eight and so on. Fookin' simples mate, simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're lookin' for something to do with you're 9" cock, have you thought of growing some beans up it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're a single man, its that simple im afraid. Sending out messages is a complete waste of time wait till you are contacted but don't hold you're breathe"

How wrong you are chap.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

It is quite simple, you have only been on this site for 2 months, so you are still a comparative "newbie".

This site is predominantly Male, thus you are competing with dozens, if not, hundreds of other guys!

The fact you have admitted you aren't single, will be off-putting to some people.

You state your geographical location as 'Guess, North West'. Come on, that could be anywhere from Liverpool to Carlisle, so maybe you need to be a bit more specific!

Get involved in the Forums, go to socials and clubs in your area, as it all a case of being noticed - you have to "sell" yourself more!

If you thought this would be an "Instant Fix" site, think again. It isn't!

But remember the one commodity you need by the bucket load is Patience, Patience, and even more Patience!

Good Luck!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"You're a single man, its that simple im afraid. Sending out messages is a complete waste of time wait till you are contacted but don't hold you're breathe"

Oh good grief are you at it again!!

My meets were from messages that the male instigated.

Seriously dude. Take a happy pill or something!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're a single man, its that simple im afraid. Sending out messages is a complete waste of time wait till you are contacted but don't hold you're breathe

Oh good grief are you at it again!!

My meets were from messages that the male instigated.

Seriously dude. Take a happy pill or something! "

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"You're a single man, its that simple im afraid. Sending out messages is a complete waste of time wait till you are contacted but don't hold you're breathe"

And someone is still saying the same thing as the other night! Negative negative negative, so no change there then, who says these look at me threads never work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would think by now idiotic posts like this would have had its day by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're a single man, its that simple im afraid. Sending out messages is a complete waste of time wait till you are contacted but don't hold you're breathe"

Actually now I've had chance to think a little I do have sound advice for you. A titbit I dispense to all you whiny can't get meet guys. Now pay attention as this is earth shatteringly brilliant............

CLICK THE DELETE ACCOUNT BUTTON and rid us of the negative vibes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said the above poster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well said the above poster "

(Takes bow) I thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

night all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When thinking of the o p now why does the song from the sweet called little willy willy spring to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

CLICK THE DELETE ACCOUNT BUTTON and rid us of the negative vibes "

P.s I ain't doing that. I couldn't care less , I enjoy this site really

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Hmmm...notice the only change you've made op is removal of any reference to you being attached!

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