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By *uteguyhere OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

I’m so ready now for my first meet but nobody replies. It’s really de motivating. Any advice?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

You haven't really written much to give anyone an idea of what you're into ,look for and offer meets .

Many of use look at a profile first and if it doesn't appeal we won't reply.

You need to sell yourself a bit on here , maybe some more pics and more of what you're about.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Says this on your profile.."becuase I dont ask for or put up verficaains doesn't mean ive not met peple. I do an have"

So how are you looking for your 1st meet then?

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

Your verification statement basically is a lie. You'd still show as meet verified even if you didn't display them. That alone would put 99% off as you're starting with a lie.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"Your verification statement basically is a lie. You'd still show as meet verified even if you didn't display them. That alone would put 99% off as you're starting with a lie. "

But he is not meet verified, only has the green flag for "photo verified". Ok, he may have met people who were either not verified themselves or did not want to veri him "because he didn't ask".

To the OP: your profile is very generic, nothing to entice me to even consider trying to get to know you in order to arrange a meet. That is, if I was looking for 1:1 meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your verification statement basically is a lie. You'd still show as meet verified even if you didn't display them. That alone would put 99% off as you're starting with a lie.

But he is not meet verified, only has the green flag for "photo verified". Ok, he may have met people who were either not verified themselves or did not want to veri him "because he didn't ask".

To the OP: your profile is very generic, nothing to entice me to even consider trying to get to know you in order to arrange a meet. That is, if I was looking for 1:1 meet. "

He says just cause i dont ask for or put up verification doesnt mean i havent met, refering to the put up verification would mean he has them just doesnt show, which he hasnt as hes not got the green tick

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By *yselfAndHerCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"I’m so ready now for my first meet but nobody replies. It’s really de motivating. Any advice?"

You say that you are ready for your first meet OP, yet your profile says you have.

Which one is it??

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields


"Your verification statement basically is a lie. You'd still show as meet verified even if you didn't display them. That alone would put 99% off as you're starting with a lie.

But he is not meet verified, only has the green flag for "photo verified". Ok, he may have met people who were either not verified themselves or did not want to veri him "because he didn't ask".

To the OP: your profile is very generic, nothing to entice me to even consider trying to get to know you in order to arrange a meet. That is, if I was looking for 1:1 meet.

He says just cause i dont ask for or put up verification doesnt mean i havent met, refering to the put up verification would mean he has them just doesnt show, which he hasnt as hes not got the green tick "

This. The "not put them up" implies he has verifications but he doesn't. His bio text feels misleading. There's literally no reason to not ask for verifications.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport


"Your verification statement basically is a lie. You'd still show as meet verified even if you didn't display them. That alone would put 99% off as you're starting with a lie.

But he is not meet verified, only has the green flag for "photo verified". Ok, he may have met people who were either not verified themselves or did not want to veri him "because he didn't ask".

To the OP: your profile is very generic, nothing to entice me to even consider trying to get to know you in order to arrange a meet. That is, if I was looking for 1:1 meet.

He says just cause i dont ask for or put up verification doesnt mean i havent met, refering to the put up verification would mean he has them just doesnt show, which he hasnt as hes not got the green tick

This. The "not put them up" implies he has verifications but he doesn't. His bio text feels misleading. There's literally no reason to not ask for verifications. "

To be fair, some fo not ask or do not want them.

If the person/people that you meet are not verified themselves then they cannot write you a verification either.

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By *yselfAndHerCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"Your verification statement basically is a lie. You'd still show as meet verified even if you didn't display them. That alone would put 99% off as you're starting with a lie.

But he is not meet verified, only has the green flag for "photo verified". Ok, he may have met people who were either not verified themselves or did not want to veri him "because he didn't ask".

To the OP: your profile is very generic, nothing to entice me to even consider trying to get to know you in order to arrange a meet. That is, if I was looking for 1:1 meet.

He says just cause i dont ask for or put up verification doesnt mean i havent met, refering to the put up verification would mean he has them just doesnt show, which he hasnt as hes not got the green tick

This. The "not put them up" implies he has verifications but he doesn't. His bio text feels misleading. There's literally no reason to not ask for verifications.

To be fair, some fo not ask or do not want them.

If the person/people that you meet are not verified themselves then they cannot write you a verification either."

The OP says that this will be his first meet.

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