FabSwingers.com forum: New geordie lad struggling to get past flirty messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi been on here a while but only recently started using it regular what with a busy work load, had messages and pics and chat but no offers of meets, now I aint stupid I dont expect people to just click a button and say tomorrow afternoon at this address, but I dont class myself as a minger and send face pics to the people I am messaging with, any advice will be greatly appreciated......

Also just to add I do love the site and its brilliant crack to be fair, I have a good laugh with people and whats best is you cant shock people on here haha....

Cheers

D xx

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Welcome to Fab. Your profile says you're looking for females, even as part of a couple... but this could sound as if a guy in a couple wouldn't be too welcome, almost like a spare part. I don't think you intended this, but it could arise as a consequence that some couples would be less inclined to pursue interest.

I'd vary your photos too, and perhaps add the reason you can't accom - also whether you'd meet at clubs etc.

Overall, you seem a nice guy, and you probably just need to steer your profile a bit, to help you stand out from the crowd of the many, many single guys.

Good luck darling!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Welcome to Fab. Your profile says you're looking for females, even as part of a couple... but this could sound as if a guy in a couple wouldn't be too welcome, almost like a spare part. I don't think you intended this, but it could arise as a consequence that some couples would be less inclined to pursue interest.

I'd vary your photos too, and perhaps add the reason you can't accom - also whether you'd meet at clubs etc.

Overall, you seem a nice guy, and you probably just need to steer your profile a bit, to help you stand out from the crowd of the many, many single guys.

Good luck darling!"

Thats how it made us think as we read the profile , I, d suggest not to dismiss the male from a couple ,

Hope you find what you are looking for .

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the question and thanks for the answers

it stands to reason.

will be taking the advice on board and altering my own profile accordingly.