FabSwingers.com forum: Manners cost nothing...

By *ohnnyMcWeez OP Man
over a year ago

Sherborne

So, I've been on FS for 10 months and so far I've mostly had bi-guys message me (which is very flattering). The issue I have is that I get very few couples or single female replies, I truly understand that guys outweigh the ladies and people lead very busy lives but just a no would be great, is it too much to ask??

By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Yes it is too much to ask.

Not aiming at you specifically but...

A) Once someone messages you back, filters no longer apply.

B) some people get bitter and abusive when told no (spoils it for everyone) or try to get an explanation. No is a complete sentence.

C) some women and couples get so many emails, that even a ' No thanks' to every email would be a full time job, leaving no time for meets.

By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Yes it is too much to ask.

Not aiming at you specifically but...

A) Once someone messages you back, filters no longer apply.

B) some people get bitter and abusive when told no (spoils it for everyone) or try to get an explanation. No is a complete sentence.

C) some women and couples get so many emails, that even a ' No thanks' to every email would be a full time job, leaving no time for meets.

Point A is my biggest reason for not replying if I'm not interested. I want my filters to work if I turn them on.

By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Some single ladies get inundated with messages and replying would be a full time job.

Its not rude to not reply & often if you say no thanks it's starts them being abusive or asking why not etc.

Just delete your messages in your sent box and any reply is a bonus.

Miss