FabSwingers.com forum: A question for the single ladies and couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

With so many single women and couples saying they won't meet unless verified, do you think its worth it for me to start asking a few couples or single ladies for a social meet up for a coffee and a chat with the hopes of getting a positive verification?

I'm not desperate or anything, and I don't have any sexual expectations from the social ( but obviously, if we did hit it off, that would be fun too)

Or would you suggest an organised social? Such as the Crowland social?

My 3rd option would be to go to a club, but that's potluck if there's someone there from fab.

What are your thoughts?

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By *andy57TV/TS
over a year ago

york

Hi all 3 are worth trying but at least you have the best chance at a social

All the best

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi all 3 are worth trying but at least you have the best chance at a social

All the best "

Hi and thanks. Yeah that's sort of what I was thinking. Still pot luck on the attractions front but at least I would be able to talk with other like minded people.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We've never been to a social but would day go, you've got absolutely nothing to lose. You could go to a club but you need to have a bit of balls and say hello to people, the mistake many Men make is walking around looking and not saying hello. Verifications are less important for Mens profiles, it's the Couple and Women's profiles that are flooded with fakes. Though any profile looks better to us with a few genuine verifications. We've played with people in clubs who aren't even on Fab never mind having verifications, they're not always essential. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We've never been to a social, but would day go, you've got absolutely nothing to lose. You could go to a club but you need to have a bit of balls and say hello to people, the mistake many men make is walking around looking and not saying hello. Verifications are less important for Mens profiles. It's the Couple and Women's profiles that are flooded with fakes. Though any profile looks better to us with a few genuine verifications. We've played with people in clubs who aren't even on Fab never mind having verifications, they're not always essential. Good luck

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thank you very much for that.

I know what you mean about the club scene, but I can assure you that if I was to see a couple such as yourselves, I would most definitely be saying hello. Even if I got told sorry mate, you're not our type.

Hope you both have a great weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont stress so much about verifications if it's someone new to the site, I'm sure I'm not alone. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dont stress so much about verifications if it's someone new to the site, I'm sure I'm not alone. Good luck

Thank you very much and I've gotta say your sense of humour shines through in the way you have written your profile. Enjoy your weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've doing socials a great way to meet people in the scene, to learn from others, to get advice, to connect with some lovely people and to also get some verifications.

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By *pun84Man
over a year ago

Doncaster

ive found out recently that even if you get veris if the person/s who veri you leave the site etc the remove the veri as well now just to make it harder lol

veris are down to the peoples personal pref mate some are into them and keen on others having them and vice versa so i wouldnt stress to much view as a bonus rather than a must

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"ive found out recently that even if you get veris if the person/s who veri you leave the site etc the remove the veri as well now just to make it harder lol

veris are down to the peoples personal pref mate some are into them and keen on others having them and vice versa so i wouldnt stress to much view as a bonus rather than a must "

True enough but as I've not got any I don't bother messaging those that say they want to see some so that I'm not wasting thier time.

I can't help it I'm a polite horny old man haha.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We've doing socials a great way to meet people in the scene, to learn from others, to get advice, to connect with some lovely people and to also get some verifications. "

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You'll get verified from a social unless you're a total bellend, I'm sure. Ditto any of the clubs listed here - it's likely people on Fab will be there, plus if the clubs are listed, the clubs are on Fab.

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By *pun84Man
over a year ago

Doncaster

"ive found out recently that even if you get veris if the person/s who veri you leave the site etc the remove the veri as well now just to make it harder lol

veris are down to the peoples personal pref mate some are into them and keen on others having them and vice versa so i wouldnt stress to much view as a bonus rather than a must

True enough but as I've not got any I don't bother messaging those that say they want to see some so that I'm not wasting thier time.

I can't help it I'm a polite horny old man haha."

totally get that mate im same i dont like wasting peoples time i was just mentioning that as a heads up. i think the 3 ways youve already said are best as gives more chances also you can get veris by chatting on here as its a cam chat so might be a faster way to get some?

because ive had long times off and not used site etc due to ex wasnt wanting to be in scene, even the veri ive got i was told other week wasnt relevant due to being a while back by one couple lol so im none the wiser on how people judge them lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"ive found out recently that even if you get veris if the person/s who veri you leave the site etc the remove the veri as well now just to make it harder lol

veris are down to the peoples personal pref mate some are into them and keen on others having them and vice versa so i wouldnt stress to much view as a bonus rather than a must

True enough but as I've not got any I don't bother messaging those that say they want to see some so that I'm not wasting thier time.

I can't help it I'm a polite horny old man haha.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You'll get verified from a social unless you're a total bellend, I'm sure. Ditto any of the clubs listed here - it's likely people on Fab will be there, plus if the clubs are listed, the clubs are on Fab."
hahaha...its been a fair few years since I had to deal with chatting to ,let alone trying to flirt with anyone so I'm sure I'll figure it out after I become that idiot with his size 9 in his mouth.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"You'll get verified from a social unless you're a total bellend, I'm sure. Ditto any of the clubs listed here - it's likely people on Fab will be there, plus if the clubs are listed, the clubs are on Fab. hahaha...its been a fair few years since I had to deal with chatting to ,let alone trying to flirt with anyone so I'm sure I'll figure it out after I become that idiot with his size 9 in his mouth.

Just behave decently. Don't drink too much. It'll be fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You'll get verified from a social unless you're a total bellend, I'm sure. Ditto any of the clubs listed here - it's likely people on Fab will be there, plus if the clubs are listed, the clubs are on Fab. hahaha...its been a fair few years since I had to deal with chatting to ,let alone trying to flirt with anyone so I'm sure I'll figure it out after I become that idiot with his size 9 in his mouth.

Just behave decently. Don't drink too much. It'll be fine

Thank you I will. And if I'm driving I'll be or Pepsi all night anyway.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"We've never been to a social but would day go, you've got absolutely nothing to lose. You could go to a club but you need to have a bit of balls and say hello to people, the mistake many Men make is walking around looking and not saying hello. Verifications are less important for Mens profiles, it's the Couple and Women's profiles that are flooded with fakes. Though any profile looks better to us with a few genuine verifications. We've played with people in clubs who aren't even on Fab never mind having verifications, they're not always essential. Good luck

We'd totally agree with this. Clubs are ideal for meeting people and breaking into the scene - plus getting verifications.

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