FabSwingers.com forum: Why’s it so hard?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why’s it so hard to get involved with a couple when you’ve had no verifications and I know I’m bi but it’s just blokes who want to come and say hi?

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By *ree2goodhomeMan
over a year ago

nottingham

"Why’s it so hard to get involved with a couple when you’ve had no verifications and I know I’m bi but it’s just blokes who want to come and say hi?

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I'm in the same sinking ship mate..no one wants to meet because you're not verified and no one will verify you because they won't meet..I don't do webcam because I don't see it as getting to know ppl and going to clubs for a single male is expensive just to get verified(that's if they want too( lol

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By *ightNWet69Woman
over a year ago

dark side of the moon

Why not venture out & try a bi night at a club? You will likely gain a verification from just attending & who knows what fun you may end up having

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really difficult trying to get invited to have some fun with a couple

I've been to a few clubs and to be honest it's just like being on here

To many single guys to couples ratio and its just not happened for me

I see these post quite a lot and honest answer is just keep trying

I completely understand how much of a confidence knock it is,I send quite a lot of messages but they either get read and no reply or just deleted

Maybe I must but just ugly or not anyone's cup of tea at all

I'm actually thinking of giving up on the idea of using fab and calling it a day

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If you take the steps to get verified, you can then leave your efforts to focus on meeting the people who you want to meet. It's no magic bullet but you could potentially be using it as an excuse

Making realistic expectations is essential here. Go to socials and clubs, to get to meet and know people.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We've had fun with guys in clubs who aren't even on Fab never mind no verifications, it can be done.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

for this scene its a % thing so when 95% of the scene is men thats alot of disappointed men ....

swinging for guys = there is not someone for everyone a huge portion of guys will never get a meet then theres those that just get lucky then theres the few who for whatever reason can get a meet everyday....

its like being a fish in a fish shop a tank full of male guppies 1000s in one tank and someone wants one male to breed with a female .... thats alot of fustrated guppies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's really difficult trying to get invited to have some fun with a couple

I've been to a few clubs and to be honest it's just like being on here

To many single guys to couples ratio and its just not happened for me

I see these post quite a lot and honest answer is just keep trying

I completely understand how much of a confidence knock it is,I send quite a lot of messages but they either get read and no reply or just deleted

Maybe I must but just ugly or not anyone's cup of tea at all

I'm actually thinking of giving up on the idea of using fab and calling it a day

I think couples and single girls are outnumbered by guys by 500 / 1

So the odds are against you from the beginning. Girls and couples also receive loads of messages (sometimes I get 50 a day or more) so replying to all is impossible and so many I just delete. It isn't me being mean - it's just time

Anyways , not much help to you I know but good luck x

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

depening on where you live its anything from 200 to 1 up to 1000 to one at a guess its horrendous for men there simple is no other way to word it its like 10,000 people turning up to play in one football team of 11 ..

many many men will never get a meet ever some may get lucky and get one or maybe 2 and some just for whatever reason will get loads .... i know i say it alot but its really in true there is not someone for everyone not by a zillion miles...

i get between 10 to 50 messages a day if im looking for a meet that can explode up to 3-4 - 500 on those days that just me one woman thats alot of rejected me add into that that all those message the wont be one person i find sexually attractive or there is but they will blow it within the first few messages normally with posn script talk...

now i/we are bot massive club fans but 10 to 20% of swing for us is done that way and for good reason 95 % of guys we meet for fun have all been met via clubs thats why everone say's to men who find it hard go to a club meet face to face its the easiest way to meet and get to know thats not to say it will work for all but its a deffo increase your chances for sure..

my last bit is men moan theres not enoght women or couples but its men that put lots of women and couples off its why so many dont last on the scene nowdays they just dont need the hassle in their lives ...

and i love guys they are why im here guys im sexually attracted to are hot

so im not men bashing just wish more would join for the right reasons ie to swing rather than just to wank suck fuck abuse and be nasty

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