FabSwingers.com forum: Why hide your Bi side

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do so many men hide their Bi side ??? It doesn’t make you gay

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford

Are you talking about being fab straight or in general say to say?

Mr H

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford

"Are you talking about being fab straight or in general say to say?

Mr H "

*Day to day

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By *orthhorseMan
over a year ago

leeds

"Why do so many men hide their Bi side ??? It doesn’t make you gay "

Because homophobia is real. And unfortunately common amongst some women, even those on fab.

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By *leasure domMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

On here, they hide their bi side because many females and couples - like gay guys, indeed - are prejudiced against bi guys, so they don't want to be excluded from opportunities for meets

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Because when they want to meet say a couple or single woman and they wouldn't meet anyone bi I'm guessing but would be different if it was a woman

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Why do so many men hide their Bi side ??? It doesn’t make you gay "

Maybe because their wife s on here too and sees him while she s looking for a BBC !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *unter212gazMan
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Bi and proud

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By *ike2206Man
over a year ago

hertfordshire

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford

"Fab "

As people have already said, they don't want to alienate anyone who won't meet bi guys, we personally think it's dishonest and aren't interested in meeting people who are "fab straight". We've literally just had a private message from this thread off a "fab straight" guy (define irony)

Mr H

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By *eterandJaneadventuresCouple
over a year ago

Sutton

We are totally more than comfortable in saying that Peter is bi oral giving only and that Jane can be bi friendly in some settings

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By *orthwestsamMan
over a year ago

travel with work

Not all guys are bi, personally I’m very happy with my sexuality but there’s quite a few couples who state no bi guys, which is fine, perhaps it says more about the husband than it does me?

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Why do so many men hide their Bi side ??? It doesn’t make you gay "

What a fucking horrible thing to say, you’re either implying that being gay is something people should hide but being bi isn’t…or that people hide their bi side because they’re scared of being labelled as gay because that would be such an awful thing.

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By *ob357Man
over a year ago

Oswestry

I’m always open from the off. I think some couples, definitely the male half are concerned that if they meet a bi guy it makes them bi

I’m not going to instantly grab a cock unless invited…….but if invited I’ll have lots of fun

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We love bi guys and quite often if the profile says straight we won’t bother messaging. It’s a shame so many feel the need to hide part of who they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says straight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not hiding, just exploring it but I get when guys talk about their being a stigma about it.

My profile honestly reflects where I'm at with it though

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By *mizhereMan
over a year ago

Thame area

Never hidden my bi pleasure

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By *afmanMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

I've had a couple of bi experiences and enjoyed it, to meet a bi couple would be great,when I put I'm straight on my profile no one messages but when I change it to bi I get messages and have a good chat with people

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By *tyoursecretserviceMan
over a year ago

J11 M5 Cheltenham

"Why do so many men hide their Bi side ??? It doesn’t make you gay "
oh wow at last xxx

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By *tyoursecretserviceMan
over a year ago

J11 M5 Cheltenham

Unless your on the gay sight of fab BI on here means you have two heads.

But I'm not gay and yes I have two heads an ugly bald one and a nice purple one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe because that's their choice.

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By *ineapple_DragonMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Being listed as a Bi male may come across as being too desperate to women. I see so many profiles saying they don’t want Bi men but this might just be my area

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By *tyoursecretserviceMan
over a year ago

J11 M5 Cheltenham

No it's a thing...then it's tattoos beards hairy age. Just think they are being pc on a sex site lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do so many men hide their Bi side ??? It doesn’t make you gay

Nailed it.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I've said this before ,it's not just men who do it ,some women claim to be straight too whilst playing with other women regularly.

For some I think they believe they're only bisexual if they have same sex relationships .Others just lie ,bi men are less accepted even on here than bi women .

So some do it so they don't reduce their chances with women/couples.

My other half can be orally bi and we are totally upfront about it on our profile,we don't see the point in lying .

Miss

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By *laisir erotiqueCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

We to are fed up with straight guys saying they are bi when there profile states they are straight, its just an excuse to fuck the female side of the couple without any interaction with the guy or they just can't be true to there sexuality and they wonder why we don't reply and block them.

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By *onicZMan
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I don't see why people would hide it, personally.

As for people lying about it, that's a totally different ball game.

Funny really, I started out as a straight profile which quickly changed to bi curious and recently to bisexual. It's so much fun when all are involved.

Obviously if people are wanting to play straight then that's fine too, boundaries have to be respected, otherwise it's just not going to be pleasant.

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By *tyoursecretserviceMan
over a year ago

J11 M5 Cheltenham

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By *tyoursecretserviceMan
over a year ago

J11 M5 Cheltenham

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By *tyoursecretserviceMan
over a year ago

J11 M5 Cheltenham

"We to are fed up with straight guys saying they are bi when there profile states they are straight, its just an excuse to fuck the female side of the couple without any interaction with the guy or they just can't be true to there sexuality and they wonder why we don't reply and block them."
Not all lie...but I do believe alot put BI as they are or looking for because they think it's something they should do ..because when you contact it's a load of bollox answer instead off a simple not for us sorry.

This site is getting shite

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Says bi on mine

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