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By *otTimeSeeker OP   Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

Hi guys, been on this site for a while but haven't long been using it properly. Would love if you could look at my profile and give me some feedback on how to improve it. Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 of your 3 verifications are from men and to me that suggest that you are more than bi-curious.

No pictures, can't accommodate and looking to meet when you are working away. Not a great combination...

"Looks aren't important" each to their own but that makes you sound pretty desperate.

And you could maybe fill your profile text out a little? It doesn't really say anything.

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By *otTimeSeeker OP   Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

Thanks for the input. Some valid points there for sure

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By *exykirstyWoman
over a year ago

North of Manchester

Have to totally agree with Crystal Wheels, it seems as if your married.

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By *otTimeSeeker OP   Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

Hmmm well, to be honest I am. I know that's a divisive issue on here but I have my reasons which I won't go in to now however I do realise this puts me at a disadvantage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im having a lot of trouble meeting ppl. Any advice?? Ben

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"2 of your 3 verifications are from men

"

...not any more!

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"im having a lot of trouble meeting ppl. Any advice?? Ben"

You would be best starting your own post rahter than trying on this one. It will be easier for people to spot

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By *otTimeSeeker OP   Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

Just following the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im having a lot of trouble meeting ppl. Any advice?? Ben"

Putting your pics the right way up to save us getting cricked necks and expanding your profile text might help. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just following the advice "

In fairness you have ignored every other point I made and I never actually said hide the verifications. Personally I'd suggest being open about being bisexual rather than hide it.

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By *amieandjulieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *amieandjulieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Just following the advice

In fairness you have ignored every other point I made and I never actually said hide the verifications. Personally I'd suggest being open about being bisexual rather than hide it."

more negativity from the most negative people on here !!! Guys lighten up will you life isn't that bad surely ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just following the advice

In fairness you have ignored every other point I made and I never actually said hide the verifications. Personally I'd suggest being open about being bisexual rather than hide it.

more negativity from the most negative people on here !!! Guys lighten up will you life isn't that bad surely ??? "

From the forum rules "If you've got a problem with what someone writes on the forum just skip over their messages" - how about you adhere to that instead of contstantly attempting to derail threads.

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By *amieandjulieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm making a simple comment that every single post you put up is negative and it bores people to death, probably damages one or two peoples confidence also, but if you are ok with that then carry on regardless !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm making a simple comment that every single post you put up is negative and it bores people to death, probably damages one or two peoples confidence also, but if you are ok with that then carry on regardless !!!!!!"

I think there is also a rule about using the forums to contact people you've blocked. So as you blocked me after pming me why are you continuing to use the forums to attempt to engage with us?

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By *amieandjulieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'm making a simple comment that every single post you put up is negative and it bores people to death, probably damages one or two peoples confidence also, but if you are ok with that then carry on regardless !!!!!!

I think there is also a rule about using the forums to contact people you've blocked. So as you blocked me after

pming me why are you continuing to

use the forums to attempt to engage

with us?

Engage with you haha I'm pointing out how negative every comment you make is, engage with you ? No thanks.

"

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By *an1111Man
over a year ago

manchester & blackpool

I agree with Jamie and Julie you should try and be positive with your comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gets the popcorn and waits

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By *amieandjulieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I agree with Jamie and Julie you should try and be positive with your comments. "

Thank you, that's the point I'm trying to make, I'm not trying to be clever or score points I just think people should be sympathetic to other peoples feelings.

Appreciate your comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gets the popcorn and waits "

It'll be a long wait I'm afraid. I'm finding it a little weird that this couple are clearly following us around the forum trying to goad us in to an argument. But public spats are so undignified and I've no intention of getting embroiled in one.

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By *amieandjulieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Gets the popcorn and waits "

I'd get somemore popcorn, despite not being embroiled, they manage a response to everyone of our posts, glad they arnt embroiled though hahaha !!!!

As for following round, we browse the posts like anyone else can.

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By *amieandjulieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I agree with Jamie and Julie you should try and be positive with your comments. "

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I don't think they were negative, just suggested being honest on their profile rather than hiding things.

Also agree that if your married then just say so as from what your profile says its obvious anyway so you might as well just say so.

Get some pics on should help things.

I'd display your veri's tho. Especially if you are looking to meet men alone, don't be afraid to change your bi curious to bi it will probably open up more options for you x

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I'm making a simple comment that every single post you put up is negative and it bores people to death, probably damages one or two peoples confidence also, but if you are ok with that then carry on regardless !!!!!!"

I am guessing you havn't asked every member wether this poster bores them to death, so please don't speak for the rest of us.

If someone is annoying you so much then ignore their posts.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To the original question....when anyone asks for profile advice on here lately it seems like it is a platform to pick another persons profile apart rather than to give constructive advice.

To the OP....I would elaborate a bit more on your profile, saying what you are looking for and hoping to find....maybe add a couple of pics.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm making a simple comment that every single post you put up is negative and it bores people to death, probably damages one or two peoples confidence also, but if you are ok with that then carry on regardless !!!!!!"

Speak for yourelf!

I've never seen them being rude or offensive just giving their point of view.

The thing is most posters adopt a "there, there, diddums, never mind" saccharin approach - they don't and I for one find it refreshing that not everyone feels the need to play to the gallery!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm making a simple comment that every single post you put up is negative and it bores people to death, probably damages one or two peoples confidence also, but if you are ok with that then carry on regardless !!!!!!

Speak for yourelf!

I've never seen them being rude or offensive just giving their point of view.

The thing is most posters adopt a "there, there, diddums, never mind" saccharin approach - they don't and I for one find it refreshing that not everyone feels the need to play to the gallery!

"

Agree completely.

Back to OP, the married thing is your own business, but just be ready to get the rejections. Not from a moral point of view, just practicalities. I would guess the majority of people can only meet when you're tucked up with wifey.

Pics. Make em interesting, there are plenty of cock pics on here. And about three paragraphs of original pitch on your part should at least put you in the running.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm making a simple comment that every single post you put up is negative and it bores people to death, probably damages one or two peoples confidence also, but if you are ok with that then carry on regardless !!!!!!

Speak for yourelf!

I've never seen them being rude or offensive just giving their point of view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just following the advice

In fairness you have ignored every other point I made and I never actually said hide the verifications. Personally I'd suggest being open about being bisexual rather than hide it.

more negativity from the most negative people on here !!! Guys lighten up will

you life isn't that bad surely ??? "

I thought the idea of these threads was that people were looking for honest critique, but it seems like its ok to be honest and give critique as long as its neither honest or critical !!

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By *otTimeSeeker OP   Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

Thanks for the advice everyone, I have made some changes, and will take more pics when I have someone to take some for me. Some really good advice there. I removed the verifications from guys as although I do play with them occasionally I much prefer women or a couple. The profile is still a work in progress basically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't see the original profile, but the one you have now doesn't look too bad.

However, I'd photoshop the cock pic a bit to get rid of the yellow cast, it's a bit offputting...

And as a larger lady myself, although I have no problem with you saying you like BBW, the "it's all about the tits and arse" comment makes me feel like you consider women as just slabs of meat. I can't speak for every woman, but some of us prefer to be considered as a whole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profile is much better. I don't personally agree with the lack of transparency about your sexuality or marital status but that is your choice.

Apologies that your thread was hijacked by people taking exception to my post, yes it was blunt but as you have taken on board the points I hope you took it in the way it was intended.

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By *otTimeSeeker OP   Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven


"I didn't see the original profile, but the one you have now doesn't look too bad.

However, I'd photoshop the cock pic a bit to get rid of the yellow cast, it's a bit offputting...

And as a larger lady myself, although I have no problem with you saying you like BBW, the "it's all about the tits and arse" comment makes me feel like you consider women as just slabs of meat. I can't speak for every woman, but some of us prefer to be considered as a whole."

Yeah, I shall edit that. The last thing I want is for potential meets to think is that I don't value them. Thanks for the headsup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's honest I guess but it makes me think you are cheating on your wife and, I think, you'd be surprised at how many people don't want to be a part of that.

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By *otTimeSeeker OP   Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven


"It's honest I guess but it makes me think you are cheating on your wife and, I think, you'd be surprised at how many people don't want to be a part of that."

I've added that I'm married on my profile now. That way people can make an informed decision. Thanks for the advice

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