FabSwingers.com forum: New to this - Is anything ever happening on here?

By *ounger4olderxxx OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

norwich

Hi all,

I'm new to this and would describe myself as a kind/genuine/polite/good looking professional guy on my 30s.

I recently got this fantasy about meeting a couple and have a bit of fun (anything we are all totally comfy with, I'm open to almost anything that is safe).

I'm more attracted by mature/curvy/large types but nothing is set in stone, ideally I would like to meet a couple with a bi man or at least curious or just not afraid of a male naked body

I'm in touch with a local couple which seems to tick all the boxes and that I hope to meet asap, but a part from that, all seems to be extremely quiet.

Is there anything wrong with my profile? Or are things just very quiet? Any other reasons?

Have a good weekend everyone

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

There's always lots happening on here but as a single guy who's only been here 6 weeks your expectations might be a bit too high!!

Also the fact you cannot accom will make some think your married and playing away which puts a lot of people off (not all)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in fab world you are still a newbie,loltake your time and things dont happen overnight

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

Slowly slowly catchy monkey. Your a single guy on here so get yourself to socials get known and try to stand out from every other bloke on here. There is plenty going on on here including chat rooms and forums so get on their and get chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slowly slowly catchy monkey. Your a single guy on here so get yourself to socials get known and try to stand out from every other bloke on here. There is plenty going on on here including chat rooms and forums so get on their and get chatting."

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By *ounger4olderxxx OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

norwich

Hi guys,

Thanks a lot for your quick reply, nice to read some feedbacks and will bear them in mind.

I'm not in a hurry or anything but I thought it was worth writing a couple of lines and try to see if there was anything obvious on my profile that I should have reviewed,etc.

In my mind I was thinking a quick meeting for a drink/chat, in person, would be much better/easier than thousands of messages/pictures/webcams, thinking that it doesn't necessarily need to lead to sex but I suppose the majority might prefer a different approach?

(very true what you say about being a single guy)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your profile. It's pretty specific in what you are looking for rather than trying to cover all bases.

But your user name isn't great, you aren't that young at 35 but I suspect that some people will see a message from you and possibly not even open it assuming that you are much younger than you are. And if you are looking for older why are your preferences set as low as 18, a small detail perhaps but people do pick up on these things.

As already said the fact that you can't accommodate may raise some questions.

And finally your pictures are truly awful, and the lack of a clear face pic does potentially add to fears as to why you can't accomodate.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

" you aren't that young at 35"

...I feel depressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" you aren't that young at 35

...I feel depressed.

He's younger than me too!

But from the user name alone I can't be alone in assuming an age at least 10 years younger?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

" you aren't that young at 35

...I feel depressed.

He's younger than me too!

But from the user name alone I can't be alone in assuming an age at least 10 years younger?"

No you're not alone.

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By *ounger4olderxxx OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

norwich

ehhehe

) those comments made me smile!

Hem, yes, good points! I might try and put some better pics...

Firstly, on the age thing...I think my preference would be for people on their 40s or older but nothing is set in stone and there are just types I would meet regardless of the age.

Also, I've got some proper pics, including face,but I'm not ready to put them on as primary pics, while I could send them on, via PM, if I get the feeling things could lead to a real meeting. I sent some already...There are a number or reasons why I wouldn't do that and it has something to do with the reason I wouldn't like to host and would rather prefer a hotel/neutral place/etc

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