FabSwingers.com forum: Chastity, submission and pegging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi everyone, first time posting in here and first time really articulating kinks and interests so bare with me. I'll preface this all with saying I'm a completely unassuming average looking guy, I take care of myself, I stay in shape and I have plenty of experience in vanilla relationships. It's a foolish mistake to withhold sexual interests but they are always things I be been ashamed of, and for most of us we've all been there.

Well now for the first time I'm more attuned to my interests, more comfortable in myself and more open to discussing and navigating the world of kink in a healthier way.

For as long as I can remember if been drawn to sex toys, anal play and then later down the line crossdressing, while it's not something I do often it's still and interest and something I would dive back into if a significant other enjoyed the dynamic. Being much further on the submissive side of spectrum I'm am all in on providing pleasure, support and not expecting anything except for knowing the S/O is satisfied, even if not by me (cuckolding isn't something I've thought about but not out of the question). Part of that submission and something I crave is the control that comes with male chastity, and for those not versed, it's a lockable device that encases my member and prevents erections, great for teasing, and great for training a man to be a partner in your image.

I'm always interested in seeing/hearing about established dynamics practicing this, and the pipeline from introduction all the way to pegging and even feminisation. And ultimately that kind of female led relationship is something I do crave but is very rare/unlikely. If you do read this and have any thoughts, or any of this resonates with you or interests you I'm always happy to discuss. It's interesting to pick apart my likes and see what else is there, I've found I'm much more open and fluid the more I discuss and experience and it brings me great joy breaking out of my shell.