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"I think its fine (ish), but then im not as experienced as others. I like the pic, I can see that you know what you want etc, it tells me a lot about what you want. But i have to say it lacks personality, I cant tell what type of guy you are from it (unless you are genuinely a guy who works to lists lol) On the whole its fine, but just needs an injection of 'you'. " I'd echo that. The thing I missed in my first comment was there is absolutely no personality coming across. But the fact that you've actually written something, that it is well written and clearly took some time writing it is a massive improvement on many of the profiles on here | |||
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"I think its fine (ish), but then im not as experienced as others. I like the pic, I can see that you know what you want etc, it tells me a lot about what you want. But i have to say it lacks personality, I cant tell what type of guy you are from it (unless you are genuinely a guy who works to lists lol) On the whole its fine, but just needs an injection of 'you'. I'd echo that. The thing I missed in my first comment was there is absolutely no personality coming across. But the fact that you've actually written something, that it is well written and clearly took some time writing it is a massive improvement on many of the profiles on here" ^^^^^^ plus what they say | |||
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" But I have to say ( and I know you wont agree), there is still no personality at all in the profile. But maybe that is you???? I dont know. All i know is that I can see all the paragraphs begin with 'i dont, or, i wont, or, i havent, or i cant' etc. ..... it reads like a recipe list, not a profile " I just thought I'd use it to answer the questions I've had up until now, can totally see what you mean about 'lists' & I actually like it that way | |||
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"Ok, so tell us the part of the profile that shows your personality? " Lol maybe it's best if we just agree to disagree. I only asked for feedback I don't feel I have to prove anything to anyone...particularly a couple I have no intention of getting to know.  | |||
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" But I have to say ( and I know you wont agree), there is still no personality at all in the profile. But maybe that is you???? I dont know. All i know is that I can see all the paragraphs begin with 'i dont, or, i wont, or, i havent, or i cant' etc. ..... it reads like a recipe list, not a profile I just thought I'd use it to answer the questions I've had up until now, can totally see what you mean about 'lists' & I actually like it that way "I dont see anything at all wrong with it but then Im not looking for faults Im reading it in spirit it was written, its informative and personally gives me a reasonable idea of you and what your about .... good luck  | |||
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"Ok, so tell us the part of the profile that shows your personality? Lol maybe it's best if we just agree to disagree. I only asked for feedback I don't feel I have to prove anything to anyone...particularly a couple I have no intention of getting to know. "You say you like to chat-what do you like to chat about? Am I going to be bored senseless by someone who's a TOWIE wannabe bleating on about the latest celeb goss or am I going to get someone who likes a good debate putting the world to rights, exciting me with tales of previous travelling adventures or have me in stitches reciting joke after joke. I see a lot of requests for social meets before any play can happen-this to me means the lady/couple/whoever takes your fancy has to think you're the kind of person they would want to chat to over a coffee or pint. I have my preferred personality traits-everyone else has theirs. By giving potential meets a good idea of who you are before they message means you'll be more likely to receive messages from people you'll actually want to spend quality time with. crystal | |||
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" But I have to say ( and I know you wont agree), there is still no personality at all in the profile. But maybe that is you???? I dont know. All i know is that I can see all the paragraphs begin with 'i dont, or, i wont, or, i havent, or i cant' etc. ..... it reads like a recipe list, not a profile I just thought I'd use it to answer the questions I've had up until now, can totally see what you mean about 'lists' & I actually like it that way
I dont see anything at all wrong with it but then Im not looking for faults Im reading it in spirit it was written, its informative and personally gives me a reasonable idea of you and what your about .... good luck "I wasnt looking for faults, I just gave my opinion. And i gave it in a supportive way. It just shows that we all read 'differently' and read into things differently. I did and still do wish the OP good luck. | |||
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" But I have to say ( and I know you wont agree), there is still no personality at all in the profile. But maybe that is you???? I dont know. All i know is that I can see all the paragraphs begin with 'i dont, or, i wont, or, i havent, or i cant' etc. ..... it reads like a recipe list, not a profile I just thought I'd use it to answer the questions I've had up until now, can totally see what you mean about 'lists' & I actually like it that way
I dont see anything at all wrong with it but then Im not looking for faults Im reading it in spirit it was written, its informative and personally gives me a reasonable idea of you and what your about .... good luck
I wasnt looking for faults, I just gave my opinion. And i gave it in a supportive way.
It just shows that we all read 'differently' and read into things differently.
I did and still do wish the OP good luck.
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"Ok, so tell us the part of the profile that shows your personality? Lol maybe it's best if we just agree to disagree. I only asked for feedback I don't feel I have to prove anything to anyone...particularly a couple I have no intention of getting to know.
You say you like to chat-what do you like to chat about? Am I going to be bored senseless by someone who's a TOWIE wannabe bleating on about the latest celeb goss or am I going to get someone who likes a good debate putting the world to rights, exciting me with tales of previous travelling adventures or have me in stitches reciting joke after joke.
I see a lot of requests for social meets before any play can happen-this to me means the lady/couple/whoever takes your fancy has to think you're the kind of person they would want to chat to over a coffee or pint.
I have my preferred personality traits-everyone else has theirs. By giving potential meets a good idea of who you are before they message means you'll be more likely to receive messages from people you'll actually want to spend quality time with.
crystal "I think you misconstrued my comment about liking to chat...it was part of a paragraph basically stating I'm up for chatting about 'meeting' but not up for chatting with people who have no intention of meeting which I'm sure we can all agree there is plenty of on here. If people want to get to know 'me' a little better then speaking to me would prob be the best option & I hoped my profile would make 'my kinda people' recognise. Have to say, at least _ady4lady & Orra had something nice to say, as you can see I've taken certain comments on board but now I just think your being a little pedantic...My experiences so far tell me people are more likely to ask how big my cock is before asking me what I think of things like 'TOWIE' im not even sure what that is??? Lol | |||
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" I dont see anything at all wrong with it but then Im not looking for faults Im reading it in spirit it was written, its informative and personally gives me a reasonable idea of you and what your about .... good luck
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" Have to say, at least _ady4lady & Orra had something nice to say, " Which part of our posts was not nice? I assume you are ignoring the positive comments I made about it? Just because you don't agree with feedback doesn't mean it's not valid or nice... You've been here for a week, I;ve been here 5 years as a single and a couple so I may have a little knowledge. Your profile is your advert is your shop window, if you think that it reflects you then fine. Good luck. But you are missing the somewhat vital point that for people to get to know your personality they first need a reason to message you. Oh and messages asking about cock size, people sending those I somehow suspect fit in to the the timewaster category. | |||
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"You state that you are bi-curious but then state that you are bi later on. It's all about what you like and what you want and not what you can offer. You state that a week in you understand the site but then write as if you expect to be receiving lots of unsolicited messages which simply isn't the case for the vast majority of single men. There is an underlying tone of negativity. You can't accomodate without explanation and talk about discretion, a combination for which people tend to jump to the same conclusion" Struggling to find anything positive in your initial post, only when someone said something positive did you agree. Although I do admit it was helpful as I've changed certain parts of my profile due to your comments I still see a pretty negative outlook from you & I'm not the only one it seems | |||
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"So, how big is your cock....... sorry couldnt resist.
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"You state that you are bi-curious but then state that you are bi later on. It's all about what you like and what you want and not what you can offer. You state that a week in you understand the site but then write as if you expect to be receiving lots of unsolicited messages which simply isn't the case for the vast majority of single men. There is an underlying tone of negativity. You can't accomodate without explanation and talk about discretion, a combination for which people tend to jump to the same conclusion Struggling to find anything positive in your initial post, only when someone said something positive did you agree. Although I do admit it was helpful as I've changed certain parts of my profile due to your comments I still see a pretty negative outlook from you & I'm not the only one it seems "Whether my outlook is negative or not I'm not the one asking for advice on getting meets so I'm clearly doing something right.
But whatever, you're right, I'm wrong. Good luck and happy Swinging. | |||
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"Ok, so tell us the part of the profile that shows your personality? Lol maybe it's best if we just agree to disagree. I only asked for feedback I don't feel I have to prove anything to anyone...particularly a couple I have no intention of getting to know. "The comment is being made because women (and couples) like to know that there is a personality at the end of a cock so are you a chilled out kind of person? Sense of humour? In your spare time, what do you like to do? Incidentally I haven't read your profile, so I am going by what has been said on your post | |||
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"So, how big is your cock....... sorry couldnt resist.
Lol...big enough to ensure my confidence between the sheets.
LOL. Best advice i can give (for what its worth) is to join in the forum chats, read others views, interact and enjoy, you never know when you will bump into someone who may just be right for you
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" Whether my outlook is negative or not I'm not the one asking for advice on getting meets so I'm clearly doing something right.
But whatever, you're right, I'm wrong. Good luck and happy Swinging."Wow...I don't remember asking for advice on how to ensure a meet, I do remember asking if I could improve on my profile at all... You don't have to be a member for 5yrs to know its obvious couples & females get a lot more attention on this site than single guys...pointing it out is pretty...pointless considering your 'experience' | |||
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" Whether my outlook is negative or not I'm not the one asking for advice on getting meets so I'm clearly doing something right.
But whatever, you're right, I'm wrong. Good luck and happy Swinging.
Wow...I don't remember asking for advice on how to ensure a meet, I do remember asking if I could improve on my profile at all...
You don't have to be a member for 5yrs to know its obvious couples & females get a lot more attention on this site than single guys...pointing it out is pretty...pointless considering your 'experience'
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"Ok, so tell us the part of the profile that shows your personality? Lol maybe it's best if we just agree to disagree. I only asked for feedback I don't feel I have to prove anything to anyone...particularly a couple I have no intention of getting to know.
The comment is being made because women (and couples) like to know that there is a personality at the end of a cock so are you a chilled out kind of person? Sense of humour? In your spare time, what do you like to do? Incidentally I haven't read your profile, so I am going by what has been said on your post"Have a read & see if you come to the same conclusion... | |||
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" Whether my outlook is negative or not I'm not the one asking for advice on getting meets so I'm clearly doing something right.
But whatever, you're right, I'm wrong. Good luck and happy Swinging.
Wow...I don't remember asking for advice on how to ensure a meet, I do remember asking if I could improve on my profile at all...
You don't have to be a member for 5yrs to know its obvious couples & females get a lot more attention on this site than single guys...pointing it out is pretty...pointless considering your 'experience'
I refer you to my previous comment that I've been here 5 years as a both a single and a couple.
"Oh, you mean as a single 'woman' & as the female part of a couple don't you? You signed your comment of as Crystal so I'm assuming your not the male of the couple which bring me back to my point...success rates are obviously much better for women on here than men no? Either way, this is getting off subject...I'm truly appreciative of you taking the time to respond to my post although I didn't entirely agree its clear I've taken some of your more worthwhile comments on board | |||
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" I refer you to my previous comment that I've been here 5 years as a both a single and a couple. Oh, you mean as a single 'woman' & as the female part of a couple don't you? You signed your comment of as Crystal so I'm assuming your not the male of the couple which bring me back to my point...success rates are obviously much better for women on here than men no? " No as a single man. The clue is that one post is signed off as crystal the others (mine) aren't being signed off at all. But would a female's views not be valid? Whether is is easier for a male of female to get meeets is a mute point, both can tell you what it takes to be a successful male on here. | |||
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" I dont see anything at all wrong with it but then Im not looking for faults Im reading it in spirit it was written, its informative and personally gives me a reasonable idea of you and what your about .... good luck
Much appreciated Orra "Your welcome | |||
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"I think your profile is an excellent start for a one week old profile, it's a working progress and you will add to it and remove things from it as you go. Welcome, good luck and well done for standing your ground, it can get a little scary in here at times, but stick with it because it can be great fun too "Why thank you Miss Julie, you'd think the more 'experienced' people on the site would be a little more welcoming considering we all had to start somewhere. Was a little taken back by the initial comments made but each to their own I guess | |||
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"I think your profile is an excellent start for a one week old profile, it's a working progress and you will add to it and remove things from it as you go. Welcome, good luck and well done for standing your ground, it can get a little scary in here at times, but stick with it because it can be great fun too " | |||
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" I refer you to my previous comment that I've been here 5 years as a both a single and a couple. Oh, you mean as a single 'woman' & as the female part of a couple don't you? You signed your comment of as Crystal so I'm assuming your not the male of the couple which bring me back to my point...success rates are obviously much better for women on here than men no? No as a single man. The clue is that one post is signed off as crystal the others (mine) aren't being signed off at all. But would a female's views not be valid? Whether is is easier for a male of female to get meeets is a mute point, both can tell you what it takes to be a successful male on here." Fair enough Mr Wheels...no need to try & twist my words because I don't agree with you. | |||
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"I feel that yes, profile content is important but regardless of what is said in them the real person behind the profile shines through in how they comment in the forums....I dont contribute a lot but I do read regularly and have seen some who had a brill profile but come over as a bit of an arse in the forums. Just my view and not aimed at anyone specifically I hasten to add lol "How could you say that about me! Lol I'm learning thanks to you good people so drinks are on me tonight | |||
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"I feel that yes, profile content is important but regardless of what is said in them the real person behind the profile shines through in how they comment in the forums....I dont contribute a lot but I do read regularly and have seen some who had a brill profile but come over as a bit of an arse in the forums. Just my view and not aimed at anyone specifically I hasten to add lol
How could you say that about me! Lol
I'm learning thanks to you good people so drinks are on me tonight "Lol behave ....I was 'generalising'.... mine is a red wine thanks lol | |||
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"I feel that yes, profile content is important but regardless of what is said in them the real person behind the profile shines through in how they comment in the forums....I dont contribute a lot but I do read regularly and have seen some who had a brill profile but come over as a bit of an arse in the forums. Just my view and not aimed at anyone specifically I hasten to add lol
How could you say that about me! Lol
I'm learning thanks to you good people so drinks are on me tonight
Lol behave ....I was 'generalising'.... mine is a red wine thanks lol"Oh...did I mention the bar is in London? Hehehe | |||
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"Ok, so tell us the part of the profile that shows your personality? Lol maybe it's best if we just agree to disagree. I only asked for feedback I don't feel I have to prove anything to anyone...particularly a couple I have no intention of getting to know.
You say you like to chat-what do you like to chat about? Am I going to be bored senseless by someone who's a TOWIE wannabe bleating on about the latest celeb goss or am I going to get someone who likes a good debate putting the world to rights, exciting me with tales of previous travelling adventures or have me in stitches reciting joke after joke.
I see a lot of requests for social meets before any play can happen-this to me means the lady/couple/whoever takes your fancy has to think you're the kind of person they would want to chat to over a coffee or pint.
I have my preferred personality traits-everyone else has theirs. By giving potential meets a good idea of who you are before they message means you'll be more likely to receive messages from people you'll actually want to spend quality time with.
crystal
I think you misconstrued my comment about liking to chat...it was part of a paragraph basically stating I'm up for chatting about 'meeting' but not up for chatting with people who have no intention of meeting which I'm sure we can all agree there is plenty of on here.
If people want to get to know 'me' a little better then speaking to me would prob be the best option & I hoped my profile would make 'my kinda people' recognise.
Have to say, at least _ady4lady & Orra had something nice to say, as you can see I've taken certain comments on board but now I just think your being a little pedantic...My experiences so far tell me people are more likely to ask how big my cock is before asking me what I think of things like 'TOWIE' im not even sure what that is??? Lol"crystal here again, I agree there are a lot of people on here who have no intention of meeting but we have been fortunate that we have met everyone we've been chatting to that we've wanted to meet when we've had the time and those we haven't gotten round to yet are certainly kept in the hotlist. Again, I agree the best way of getting to know someone is speaking to them however, many couples and singles on here claim to be short of time to respond to messages so I assume they may not wish to spend time talking to someone they aren't sure whether or not they'll have chemistry with. My suggestion of explaining what interests you was only to help you attract people with similar interests which would give them a reason to message you and start chatting. I find it harsh you call me pedantic when all I believed I was doing was giving you the female half of a couple's perspective. In my experience, people asking me what size my tits are are more likely to be sitting behind a keyboard wanking rather than looking to be a potential meet. Don't know if this is the same with people asking for cock sizes. TOWIE is The Only Way Is Essex (hence the 'would you bore me' comment was included in my original post). I hope my above post has helped to clear anything up that I didn't make clear in my original post and I wish you the best in finding what you want and enjoying the site. crystal | |||
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"Ok, so tell us the part of the profile that shows your personality? Lol maybe it's best if we just agree to disagree. I only asked for feedback I don't feel I have to prove anything to anyone...particularly a couple I have no intention of getting to know.
might also be an idea for you not to start on people that have offered you their honest opinion as you have asked for to get your profile just right.
You also have to remenber people read forums and when you ask for advise you will get it.. some you agree with sone you wont best just to say thanks you use the bits you like leave the bits you dont and leave it there..
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"Ok, so tell us the part of the profile that shows your personality? Lol maybe it's best if we just agree to disagree. I only asked for feedback I don't feel I have to prove anything to anyone...particularly a couple I have no intention of getting to know.
You say you like to chat-what do you like to chat about? Am I going to be bored senseless by someone who's a TOWIE wannabe bleating on about the latest celeb goss or am I going to get someone who likes a good debate putting the world to rights, exciting me with tales of previous travelling adventures or have me in stitches reciting joke after joke.
I see a lot of requests for social meets before any play can happen-this to me means the lady/couple/whoever takes your fancy has to think you're the kind of person they would want to chat to over a coffee or pint.
I have my preferred personality traits-everyone else has theirs. By giving potential meets a good idea of who you are before they message means you'll be more likely to receive messages from people you'll actually want to spend quality time with.
crystal
I think you misconstrued my comment about liking to chat...it was part of a paragraph basically stating I'm up for chatting about 'meeting' but not up for chatting with people who have no intention of meeting which I'm sure we can all agree there is plenty of on here.
If people want to get to know 'me' a little better then speaking to me would prob be the best option & I hoped my profile would make 'my kinda people' recognise.
Have to say, at least _ady4lady & Orra had something nice to say, as you can see I've taken certain comments on board but now I just think your being a little pedantic...My experiences so far tell me people are more likely to ask how big my cock is before asking me what I think of things like 'TOWIE' im not even sure what that is??? Lol
crystal here again,
I agree there are a lot of people on here who have no intention of meeting but we have been fortunate that we have met everyone we've been chatting to that we've wanted to meet when we've had the time and those we haven't gotten round to yet are certainly kept in the hotlist.
Again, I agree the best way of getting to know someone is speaking to them however, many couples and singles on here claim to be short of time to respond to messages so I assume they may not wish to spend time talking to someone they aren't sure whether or not they'll have chemistry with. My suggestion of explaining what interests you was only to help you attract people with similar interests which would give them a reason to message you and start chatting.
I find it harsh you call me pedantic when all I believed I was doing was giving you the female half of a couple's perspective.
In my experience, people asking me what size my tits are are more likely to be sitting behind a keyboard wanking rather than looking to be a potential meet. Don't know if this is the same with people asking for cock sizes.
TOWIE is The Only Way Is Essex (hence the 'would you bore me' comment was included in my original post).
I hope my above post has helped to clear anything up that I didn't make clear in my original post and I wish you the best in finding what you want and enjoying the site.
crystal"I guess we feel the same about certain comments made but as I stated you & your partners comments were totally taken on board & the changes in my profile reflect that...looking at the question at the top of this message from your partner could have been taken as an insult by most. I meant no offence by saying your being pedantic but I do feel mentioning what Tv programmes I like isn't going to get me anywhere if you know what I mean...this, in my opinion isn't a dating site so my physical attributes are more likely to get me further than my personality traits no? No hard feelings at all Crystal, like I said I appreciate the feedback | |||
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"Ok, so tell us the part of the profile that shows your personality? Lol maybe it's best if we just agree to disagree. I only asked for feedback I don't feel I have to prove anything to anyone...particularly a couple I have no intention of getting to know.
You say you like to chat-what do you like to chat about? Am I going to be bored senseless by someone who's a TOWIE wannabe bleating on about the latest celeb goss or am I going to get someone who likes a good debate putting the world to rights, exciting me with tales of previous travelling adventures or have me in stitches reciting joke after joke.
I see a lot of requests for social meets before any play can happen-this to me means the lady/couple/whoever takes your fancy has to think you're the kind of person they would want to chat to over a coffee or pint.
I have my preferred personality traits-everyone else has theirs. By giving potential meets a good idea of who you are before they message means you'll be more likely to receive messages from people you'll actually want to spend quality time with.
crystal
I think you misconstrued my comment about liking to chat...it was part of a paragraph basically stating I'm up for chatting about 'meeting' but not up for chatting with people who have no intention of meeting which I'm sure we can all agree there is plenty of on here.
If people want to get to know 'me' a little better then speaking to me would prob be the best option & I hoped my profile would make 'my kinda people' recognise.
Have to say, at least _ady4lady & Orra had something nice to say, as you can see I've taken certain comments on board but now I just think your being a little pedantic...My experiences so far tell me people are more likely to ask how big my cock is before asking me what I think of things like 'TOWIE' im not even sure what that is??? Lol
crystal here again,
I agree there are a lot of people on here who have no intention of meeting but we have been fortunate that we have met everyone we've been chatting to that we've wanted to meet when we've had the time and those we haven't gotten round to yet are certainly kept in the hotlist.
Again, I agree the best way of getting to know someone is speaking to them however, many couples and singles on here claim to be short of time to respond to messages so I assume they may not wish to spend time talking to someone they aren't sure whether or not they'll have chemistry with. My suggestion of explaining what interests you was only to help you attract people with similar interests which would give them a reason to message you and start chatting.
I find it harsh you call me pedantic when all I believed I was doing was giving you the female half of a couple's perspective.
In my experience, people asking me what size my tits are are more likely to be sitting behind a keyboard wanking rather than looking to be a potential meet. Don't know if this is the same with people asking for cock sizes.
TOWIE is The Only Way Is Essex (hence the 'would you bore me' comment was included in my original post).
I hope my above post has helped to clear anything up that I didn't make clear in my original post and I wish you the best in finding what you want and enjoying the site.
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"Ok, so tell us the part of the profile that shows your personality? Lol maybe it's best if we just agree to disagree. I only asked for feedback I don't feel I have to prove anything to anyone...particularly a couple I have no intention of getting to know.
might also be an idea for you not to start on people that have offered you their honest opinion as you have asked for to get your profile just right.
You also have to remenber people read forums and when you ask for advise you will get it.. some you agree with sone you wont best just to say thanks you use the bits you like leave the bits you dont and leave it there..
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"Your profile is full of contradictions.Are you bi or bi curious?You are on as a single male yet you talk about your partner?odd.You say you are eiher bi or bi curious but you wont meet couples.odd." I dont meet couple either, does that make me 'odd'.... While I don't find everyone's preferences attractive I wouldn't think them 'odd' just different from me. | |||
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"Might be a good idea if you read ALL the posts...I never 'start" I never said you did And I personally do not agree that physical attributes are going to get you further over personality traits but that's my point of view and not the point of view of all members of fab. I'm sure your profile will attract like minded people who you will hopefully get to meet and enjoy their company. Thank you for the appreciation of our feedback - we say what we say because we're trying to be helpful. crystal | |||
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"Might be a good idea if you read ALL the posts...I never 'start I never said you did And I personally do not agree that physical attributes are going to get you further over personality traits but that's my point of view and not the point of view of all members of fab. I'm sure your profile will attract like minded people who you will hopefully get to meet and enjoy their company. Thank you for the appreciation of our feedback - we say what we say because we're trying to be helpful. crystal" That post was posted incorrectly...my bad. The post beore was in reply to you. It was aimed at the couple who'd said I'd 'started' on you both for giving your opinion but I don't feel that's a true reflection of this thread & welcome anyone to read it before posting. As for speaking for all members of Fab...that's pretty brave & I won't dare hold you to that lol All the best | |||
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"Might be a good idea if you read ALL the posts...I never 'start I never said you did And I personally do not agree that physical attributes are going to get you further over personality traits but that's my point of view and not the point of view of all members of fab. I'm sure your profile will attract like minded people who you will hopefully get to meet and enjoy their company. Thank you for the appreciation of our feedback - we say what we say because we're trying to be helpful. crystal That post was posted incorrectly...my bad. The post beore was in reply to you. It was aimed at the couple who'd said I'd 'started' on you both for giving your opinion but I don't feel that's a true reflection of this thread & welcome anyone to read it before posting. As for speaking for all members of Fab...that's pretty brave & I won't dare hold you to that lol All the best " .....my eyes are bleeding. | |||
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"And I personally do not agree that physical attributes are going to get you further over personality traits but that's my point of view and not the point of view of all members of fab. I don't see anyone speaking for all members of fab In the above quote. Quite the opposite in fact. I agree with what has been said about the fact that personality goes a long way on here. A large section of fab users want a social meet before play and you will need something to talk about that's non sexual so common ground is a good start. Having a hot body and a big cock aren't the be all and end all. I often see miss crystal and mr wheels comments in the forum on what makes a good profile and offering advice, you may see it as harsh but instead of jumping on the defensive I'd take note and take action because they talk sense. Lol. Good luck on here x" Thanks for your advice...I did say that I found their advice helpful to the point where I'd amended some details on my profile even thanking them on more than one occasion but, adding that I didn't entirely agree about a certain point seems to have preceded any of that so I won't be feeling ungrateful at all
It's all good being helpful & offering advice but i certainly wouldn't make someone who is obviously new feel like they have 'Absolutely no personality' when they've tried to be as genuine as possible with their profile but i guess that's just my opinion.
Look's like I'm gonna need all the luck i can get lol
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"Wait till you been here 5 months and only had 1 meet . You're moaning after a week "LOL...far from complaining just wanted to see what reaction my profile would provoke, didn't even think I'd get any feedback let alone 50 posts worth. Its good to talk eh | |||
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