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By *unnyc80 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bexley

I am part of a married couple in a very happy marriage we swing together but i also love to play alone with females.

Ive been looking for a long time to find a regular playmate but just seem to find time wasters or people that dont believe im genuine.

Me and hubby were on another site and all our validations are on there.

Frustrating for me ;0(

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Oh no you are too far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Itll come keep trukin!

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

HI, I too have been looking for my 'type' for so very long, age and distance seems to be a problem for me. But if I stop looking then the only guarantee I have is failure.

Stay positive, dont stop searching because what you want it out there, it just takes a while to find it.

Oh and I forgot, for every genuine lady there are a dozen men pretending to be her lol

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried gay bars?loads of gay/bi ladies in there

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for the same but never find bi girls who fit my criteria near to me either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^^^^^ "

Why the rollie eyes? Lol it's true! You don't have to find them exclusively on fab, plus gay bars are fun

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By *aucy MikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Having the exact same problem. One couple nearby had swapped pics, were all set up to meet socially and take it from there and they disappeared! No longer on site which makes us suspect it was really a guy Hope you have luck soon, it'll give the rest of us hope. Sx

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By *slandsgirlWoman
over a year ago

los angeles

we just started on the site... and as a couple ... looking for a 3rd preferably a female.. i am bi-curious.. I also signed up as a single but mentioned that i was in a relationship and what i was looking for"a female" or "couple" swap in same room..But what i am receiving are all men requests.. not one woman has answered or tried to contact me... kinda discouraging .. i did state that men would and could be considered but that was all i wrote.. will no one answer my request?? _slandsgirl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We r finding exactly the same tbh x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried gay bars?loads of gay/bi ladies in there "

Most definitely agree with that Go to your local gay bar or travel to one which is relatively close to you.

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

It's not easy on here at all, everyone thinks that's us females get everything we want on here xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am part of a married couple in a very happy marriage we swing together but i also love to play alone with females.

Ive been looking for a long time to find a regular playmate but just seem to find time wasters or people that dont believe im genuine.

Me and hubby were on another site and all our validations are on there.

Frustrating for me ;0("

Have you not thought of creating a single female account? Bi fem searching for bi fems probably aren't browsing couples accounts...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm haveing the same problem seems the bi fems chat then disappear x

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples


"I am part of a married couple in a very happy marriage we swing together but i also love to play alone with females.

Ive been looking for a long time to find a regular playmate but just seem to find time wasters or people that dont believe im genuine.

Me and hubby were on another site and all our validations are on there.

Frustrating for me ;0(

Have you not thought of creating a single female account? Bi fem searching for bi fems probably aren't browsing couples accounts..."

This is true. I either play as a couple OR I play on my own with hubby no part of play.

I know a lot of bi fems that will not play with couples because often it,s more hassle than its worth and won't want play to be about male fantasy, which it can be

I've found if you want true girl only action, clubs are the best place to meet , especially bi nights

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I have to say I completely agree. I have no interest in playing with a couple, even if the man is just watching. I find that is their fantasy not mine.

I just want a 1 on 1 with another women.

Mmmm I will have to hunt down those bi nights x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't ever give up - there is somebody out there and you'll make the link eventually.

But in all honesty the odds are against meeting a close friend on here - most people here are only looking for fairly brief connections...

I'm essentially gay, but with a bi side, so I'm just here to satisfy that need.

It's taken me 7 years to find the right women to be with, but I've found her and will be with her for life - but we both acknowledge that we each need occasional lovers on the side and we do it openly and separately.

The world is full of all sorts of people - so don't give up.....

Oh, and believe me - it's worth it!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The commment about gay bars is totally correct. The world of sex does not start and finish with this site.

Big world outside!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say I completely agree. I have no interest in playing with a couple, even if the man is just watching. I find that is their fantasy not mine.

I just want a 1 on 1 with another women.

Mmmm I will have to hunt down those bi nights x "

You live in a city with one of the very best gay areas. Get dressed up, have a few cocktails and see what you can see

There is a social on here in March if you want some moral support.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm haveing the same problem seems the bi fems chat then disappear x

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"Having the exact same problem. One couple nearby had swapped pics, were all set up to meet socially and take it from there and they disappeared! No longer on site which makes us suspect it was really a guy Hope you have luck soon, it'll give the rest of us hope. Sx"

We had similar, they wanted to meet but he wasn't interested & hadn't been for ages but she was desperate to meet so he would allow her to play by herself if he could meet us first-seemed fair.

Then a few days before he changed his tune & it was all off...

I am convinved they are out there but often suspect a single femme as they see to blow very hot n cold leaving you to suspect she is in fact... wait for it... a guy fantasising lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of bi women on here. I am gay and meet lovely women and im very choosey x

There will be someone nice on here for you just keep on looking x

Good luck.

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By *IANnG1Couple
over a year ago

local

Like the First Lady above i too would luv to meet up wiv a bi - lady for sum fun and husband is totally fine wiv it. Just can't find her. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say I completely agree. I have no interest in playing with a couple, even if the man is just watching. I find that is their fantasy not mine.

I just want a 1 on 1 with another women.

Mmmm I will have to hunt down those bi nights x "

Had same issues chatted to bi females and then they "vanished" after asking for f to f phone call... So started going to couples only nights and bi nights at Partners in Bury. Found that there I some times find what I am looking for but then again I am an innocent angel Angel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't waste much time unless they will take a phone call fem to fem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am part of a married couple in a very happy marriage we swing together but i also love to play alone with females.

Ive been looking for a long time to find a regular playmate but just seem to find time wasters or people that dont believe im genuine.

Me and hubby were on another site and all our validations are on there.

Frustrating for me ;0("

Maybe you are asking for to much as in a regular playmate,the fems you are looking at might just want a lick play and go and the couple profile will not come up on searches if a single fem is only looking for a single fem.

Good luck in your search tho

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By *unnyc80 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bexley

XXX

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Have you had any single meets with women during the past year?

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By *unnyc80 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bexley

No, we had a small break from the site with moving house, our young family and renovations to it so really just been back on this month X getting back in the horse now x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I hope you are actually getting back in the saddle and not back in the horse!

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By *unnyc80 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bexley


"I hope you are actually getting back in the saddle and not back in the horse!"

Ha ha well maybe back ON the horse? Lol

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