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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, I've tried to take some advice on board that I've seen from similar posts referring to profiles. I'm not sure where exactly I'm going wrong with my profile.

Or maybe its the opening messages I'm sending?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I've tried to take some advice on board that I've seen from similar posts referring to profiles. I'm not sure where exactly I'm going wrong with my profile.

Or maybe its the opening messages I'm sending?"
Hey what do you generally say in a open message? as that can be a deal breaker.

Also personally I’m not fussed for the dic pics.

If it’s just a profile with dic pics I won’t respond.

Maybe try some wearing a nice open shirt or something like that? Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I mostly open generally complimenting the photos or profile (nothing lewd, just you look great or something to that effect) and then explain what it is I'm looking for (a fwb situation with someone who's genuine or something similar to that effect)

I see a lot of profiles saying for people to be polite and respectful when messaging so I really try to keep to that.

I will take your notes on the photos into consideration and sort some new ones, thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mostly open generally complimenting the photos or profile (nothing lewd, just you look great or something to that effect) and then explain what it is I'm looking for (a fwb situation with someone who's genuine or something similar to that effect)

I see a lot of profiles saying for people to be polite and respectful when messaging so I really try to keep to that.

I will take your notes on the photos into consideration and sort some new ones, thank you!"
Thats a good way to start a message. Just be yourself and have fun with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I see a lot of profiles saying for people to be polite and respectful when messaging so I really try to keep to that.

I will take your notes on the photos into consideration and sort some new ones, thank you! Thats a good way to start a message. Just be yourself and have fun with it

Thanks, I've changed some photos about too so I'm hoping that makes a bit of a difference.

Best of luck to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see a lot of profiles saying for people to be polite and respectful when messaging so I really try to keep to that.

I will take your notes on the photos into consideration and sort some new ones, thank you! Thats a good way to start a message. Just be yourself and have fun with it

Thanks, I've changed some photos about too so I'm hoping that makes a bit of a difference.

Best of luck to you!"
You too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies if this comes across harsh but those pictures would not inspire us to consider your profile as right for us.

It’s surely not so hard to take some decent pictures, nicely lit and framed.

Have a look at some other successful guys ones if you want some ideas.

A tripod and a remote clicker will cost you very little on the internet probably less than a tenner.

Some effort may equate to some reward.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'll take that into consideration thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly? Your 2nd pic is really not appealing. No other way of putting it

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