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By *r_Curious_1 OP Man
over a year ago

Southend

So, how does this all work as a newbie?

A lot of profiles suggest only meeting meet verified peeps, yet of course if nobody will meet a newbie, how to get verified? Catch 22 I guess.

I cannot publish pics due to the 2 jobs I do, and of course there is a misbalance between Males and females it seems.

So, any advice for a newbie? Of course, any feedback on profile is welcome (other than unable to change pic status - although I do send a pic with emails to be polite).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, how does this all work as a newbie?

A lot of profiles suggest only meeting meet verified peeps, yet of course if nobody will meet a newbie, how to get verified? Catch 22 I guess.

I cannot publish pics due to the 2 jobs I do, and of course there is a misbalance between Males and females it seems.

So, any advice for a newbie? Of course, any feedback on profile is welcome (other than unable to change pic status - although I do send a pic with emails to be polite)."

You can make photos public. You can post chest, back, bum and cock pictures. Blur out any tattoos if you have any.

I wouldn't bother answering a message from you however well put together if you had absolutely no public photos.

Get to an organsied social or go on Cam and get verifications. It's easy to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve all got jobs buddy and no one wants to be on the company notice board but you really can’t post one public picture that doesn’t identify you to your boss?

Take a chance.

Maybe the Mrs on here too?

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By *r_Curious_1 OP Man
over a year ago

Southend

Thanks Crystal, appreciate your comments, much appreciated!

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

good luck with getting anywhere on a blank profile (don't rate your chances much)

we never bother with anyone who can't fill their page in with something for whatever excuse they give

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By *r_Curious_1 OP Man
over a year ago

Southend

It's more a client base thing than a boss, and no, something that did identify me in that sense would be pretty difficult.

Nope, no Mrs at all, but appreciate from your response that must be how it looks as you've pointed it out.

I'll look to get something non-identifying in terms of pics together.

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By *r_Curious_1 OP Man
over a year ago

Southend

Assume you mean in terms of the pics side of things?

From other comments, getting that is a big issue, regardless of sending pics on a message and obv giving off a bad vibe.

Thanks for reply!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We all have jobs we don't want to be recognised with, that's no reason for no pics, body shots, blur out any tattoos etc.

Getting verified is easy pop on cam, go to a local social or a club, so many moan they can't get verified but it's easy if you put some effort in.

Right now with no pics and no profile pic I'd not reply at all.

Mrs

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

The total lack of any public pics will hinder your success here .

You can post pics that will be non identifiable like bum,or dressed in a suit with your head not shown etc.

None of us would want to be recognised by anyone we know etc.

I always think when people don't have any public pics they're hiding something.

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