FabSwingers.com forum: Fairly new

By *roppppper OP Man
over a year ago

Swindon

Help needed im fairly new too this site

I've recently signed up and payed a subscription however very Ltd chat or ignored

Wot is it I'm doing wrong? Advice is very much appreciated...thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Help needed im fairly new too this site

I've recently signed up and payed a subscription however very Ltd chat or ignored

Wot is it I'm doing wrong? Advice is very much appreciated...thanks "

Being a site supporter gets you extra bells and Whistles, it doesn't get you more attention.

Estimates are around 100 women to every man, competition is skewed against you.

Why would anyone choose your profile over the other 99?

Answer that and you've worked it out for yourself.

Winston

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

If you think money in equals action, you're on the wrong site

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By *BW_Hotwife_And_HimCouple
over a year ago

South Shields

The subscription will allow you access to their public videos if they have them.

If a profile takes your fancy, take the time to see what makes them tick through their bio and videos.

Message them based on their profile - and make it at least a few sentences.

Avoid messages such as,

"How are you today"

"Fancy a fuck"

"Can I cum over the missus tits?"

Others can see the message as a preview in their inbox and delete or ignore.

Good luck!

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Help needed im fairly new too this site

I've recently signed up and payed a subscription however very Ltd chat or ignored

Wot is it I'm doing wrong? Advice is very much appreciated...thanks "

Paying makes you look a little more serious about meeting, but doesn't get your messages read and replied to. That's all about your intro message and your profile. And based on your profile, we'd not reply.

(Bry)

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By *appyfazer600Man
over a year ago

Chippenham

Folks are right. Have realistic expectations about getting a response. Women can be overwhelmed by the number of messages they get. Don't send repeat messages either. I've been on here a couple of years and probably had erstwhile chats with maybe a dozen women and only two meets during that time. Get used to rejection my friend!

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By *ycallMan
over a year ago

Dorking

Try putting a lot more effort into your profile, it says almost nothing about your personality and your photos are basically bland and uninspiring.

Honestly I am not trying to be rude, you could be a great guy but from the profile no one would ever know.

Also join in on the forums and try and have a bit of fun with the site. I have had a fair few messages in response to posts where I am just joining in and joking around rather than specifically attempting to hook up.

The women on this site are perpetually bombarded with uninspiring messages so you really need to stand out in some way or another.

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By *roppppper OP Man
over a year ago

Swindon

Morning

Many thanks for some of your advice much appreciated

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Help needed im fairly new too this site

I've recently signed up and payed a subscription however very Ltd chat or ignored

Wot is it I'm doing wrong? Advice is very much appreciated...thanks "

There are this D’s of men in fab all wanting the same thing so ladies have the pick of the best ones so you really have to stand out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is not the golden ticket to sex simple as that.

Too many deluded men on here who see swinger couples and think oh a couple of one line message and I'll get a slice of that.

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