FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Introductions

Older gentleman

Jump to newest
 

By *corpio 50 OP   Man
over a year ago

waterlooville

Hi do any other older men find it difficult getting meets or messages from couples or females .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lhr1061Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Difficult, but not impossible.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 58 and find it difficult to get any attention

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lueeyedboy1965Man
over a year ago

southport/Birkdale

Definitely

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ogglesMan
over a year ago

essex and norfolk

Oh yes,over the hill now

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Yes it was never easy now near impossible.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *imbob2021Man
over a year ago

Sleaford

No

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

More difficult. however.. after the conversation starts it's easy... Better patter.. more manners

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Virtually impossible in my experience.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

It's not the age but, attitude that puts me off.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is difficult but all the more exciting when you do get a response

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not the age but, attitude that puts me off."

Care to elaborate

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *LIVEANDKICKING100Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN

No. Regular communication with a good age range. Several meets too in the last year or so. If you think you are over the hill then you are. It's all about your attitude. I'm mid 50s and very much alive and kicking.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andy199Man
over a year ago

bedford

Being 77 yes very difficult

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ssexmickMan
over a year ago

Rawreth

Most dont even reply havent got the decency to say no thanks

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very hard

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Whilst age might be or not it's a number, but ones appearance can be a positive impact as well as how they connect with others

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Im 66 and still do OK

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

Hasn’t changed as far as I can tell. Never been easy but if you make a connection then things often look up.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most dont even reply havent got the decency to say no thanks "

Do you think that they should, some people use that as a way to start a non conversation, it also gets past filters.

Yes it's nice to be polite but in my experience a reply leads to more messages.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *owestoft ManMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Only been single for about 4 years now. The Ex had a few older gents including one that was in the Vietnam war. But she was looking for Fit and WE men so had various ages. Im fresh back into the game and only been on here for about a month. Chatted to a few Females and Couples but not much more than that so far. I think the other problem, lol only me maybe, is that the older you get the more fussy about size etc. I do and always have proffered slim to little more lol but also no pubic hair. But then I have the spare time to wait as well lol so not desperate but certainly looking.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uwoMan
over a year ago

Ilkeston

I’m finding it difficult

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Messages aren't too bad, meets however, are a different story

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got this profile and a couples one with the wife

Get plenty of attention on the couples one absolutely nothing on this one.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is a bit difficult but I have met up with two different couples where the female (one 24 the other 31) absolutely love being fucked by older guys

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even I find it difficult I think it’s just this site haha

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs


"Yes it is a bit difficult but I have met up with two different couples where the female (one 24 the other 31) absolutely love being fucked by older guys "

You aren't old! I think the Op was meaning sixty five plus.. !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 45 and have been on here a few weeks. Winked and messaged people and have so far been ignored.

Wondering why I paid to be on here.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uzy1969Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I'm not meeting atm,but when i do meet i prefer older men.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

No I do alright

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

No I do alright

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero and counting.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm well in to my 60s got a couple of

Ladies flirting with me were I work one is in

Her 40s other nearer my age

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oastal1968Man
over a year ago

London


"No I do alright "

I'm not surprised! I reckon it's the shirt unbuttoned to the navel picture that works for you.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I'm 45 and have been on here a few weeks. Winked and messaged people and have so far been ignored.

Wondering why I paid to be on here."

You didn't pay to join. You can be on Fab for free.

OP and all the other men on here. Men on Fab far outweigh women, so you need to stand out, in a good way.

Women do look at profiles, most don't care about the size of your cock but do care about your personality.

Instead of moaning... maybe join in on the forums and get out to clubs and socials.

I also recommend reading the FAQs on here.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 45 and have been on here a few weeks. Winked and messaged people and have so far been ignored.

Wondering why I paid to be on here.

You didn't pay to join. You can be on Fab for free.

OP and all the other men on here. Men on Fab far outweigh women, so you need to stand out, in a good way.

Women do look at profiles, most don't care about the size of your cock but do care about your personality.

Instead of moaning... maybe join in on the forums and get out to clubs and socials.

I also recommend reading the FAQs on here. "

Good advice

May I ask what tune you were playing

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I'm 45 and have been on here a few weeks. Winked and messaged people and have so far been ignored.

Wondering why I paid to be on here.

You didn't pay to join. You can be on Fab for free.

OP and all the other men on here. Men on Fab far outweigh women, so you need to stand out, in a good way.

Women do look at profiles, most don't care about the size of your cock but do care about your personality.

Instead of moaning... maybe join in on the forums and get out to clubs and socials.

I also recommend reading the FAQs on here.

Good advice

May I ask what tune you were playing "

I assume you mean the photo. I can't play, it's my husband's guitar

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 45 and have been on here a few weeks. Winked and messaged people and have so far been ignored.

Wondering why I paid to be on here.

You didn't pay to join. You can be on Fab for free.

OP and all the other men on here. Men on Fab far outweigh women, so you need to stand out, in a good way.

Women do look at profiles, most don't care about the size of your cock but do care about your personality.

Instead of moaning... maybe join in on the forums and get out to clubs and socials.

I also recommend reading the FAQs on here.

Good advice

May I ask what tune you were playing

I assume you mean the photo. I can't play, it's my husband's guitar "

It looks very good on you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Yes it is a bit difficult but I have met up with two different couples where the female (one 24 the other 31) absolutely love being fucked by older guys

You aren't old! I think the Op was meaning sixty five plus.. ! "

Oiii!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I'm 45 and have been on here a few weeks. Winked and messaged people and have so far been ignored.

Wondering why I paid to be on here.

You didn't pay to join. You can be on Fab for free.

OP and all the other men on here. Men on Fab far outweigh women, so you need to stand out, in a good way.

Women do look at profiles, most don't care about the size of your cock but do care about your personality.

Instead of moaning... maybe join in on the forums and get out to clubs and socials.

I also recommend reading the FAQs on here.

Good advice

May I ask what tune you were playing

I assume you mean the photo. I can't play, it's my husband's guitar

It looks very good on you "

Thank you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 45 and have been on here a few weeks. Winked and messaged people and have so far been ignored.

Wondering why I paid to be on here.

You didn't pay to join. You can be on Fab for free.

OP and all the other men on here. Men on Fab far outweigh women, so you need to stand out, in a good way.

Women do look at profiles, most don't care about the size of your cock but do care about your personality.

Instead of moaning... maybe join in on the forums and get out to clubs and socials.

I also recommend reading the FAQs on here.

Good advice

May I ask what tune you were playing

I assume you mean the photo. I can't play, it's my husband's guitar

It looks very good on you

Thank you "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)


"Most dont even reply havent got the decency to say no thanks

Do you think that they should, some people use that as a way to start a non conversation, it also gets past filters.

Yes it's nice to be polite but in my experience a reply leads to more messages."

Also Fab rules are that no reply equals no. Understandable for the reason given above, plus why should it become an admin chore for the message recipient (who possibly receives numerous messages every day)?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"No I do alright

I'm not surprised! I reckon it's the shirt unbuttoned to the navel picture that works for you. "

Look at some of the really good guys profiles. There are some great pictures and write ups on some people's ...It made me realize I needed to up my picture Game...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

After my 40 meets well replys stopped.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooooh Mick, you can't go around saying things like that! It's human rights issue! Jesus man you'll get slaughtered on here for challenging the woman's choice to have any manners. The women on here are double busy! Tbh, I have more fun on another couple of site's, this platform is a long time piss poor social experiment, it's my go to platform for hilarious updates, verifications and Bio's.. That's all its generally worth in my opinion.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"It's not the age but, attitude that puts me off.

Care to elaborate "

If you want me to, attitudes about women, female sexuality and entitled behaviour. I have met several older men who seem to think that these attitudes are OK, they also seem surprised when called out. I've had a guy take his shirt off uninvited to display his grey haired chest, on a second date. Another male friend with erectile problems pester me, attempting to grope without consent and then being "hurt" when I told him I was not interested. I have had the misfortune to have older men bore me with sexism.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes seems once over 60 it's assumed nothing of your tackle works lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eagleMan
over a year ago

Holywood

A mixed bag here of old and elderly men. I would be in the latter group...

I find that I start with pleasant conversations, but then the ladies seem to lose interest...is it me?

Johnoxo

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women like older men. What I don’t like is men lying about their age. Embrace who you are and don’t take ten years off! Plus role play is a bonus.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not the age but, attitude that puts me off.

Care to elaborate

If you want me to, attitudes about women, female sexuality and entitled behaviour. I have met several older men who seem to think that these attitudes are OK, they also seem surprised when called out. I've had a guy take his shirt off uninvited to display his grey haired chest, on a second date. Another male friend with erectile problems pester me, attempting to grope without consent and then being "hurt" when I told him I was not interested. I have had the misfortune to have older men bore me with sexism."

Thanks for the reply, I'm truly shocked if this wasn't in a club environment because I hear that sort of thing goes on there, it's such a shame that some guys just can't be normal human beings.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"It's not the age but, attitude that puts me off.

Care to elaborate

If you want me to, attitudes about women, female sexuality and entitled behaviour. I have met several older men who seem to think that these attitudes are OK, they also seem surprised when called out. I've had a guy take his shirt off uninvited to display his grey haired chest, on a second date. Another male friend with erectile problems pester me, attempting to grope without consent and then being "hurt" when I told him I was not interested. I have had the misfortune to have older men bore me with sexism.

Thanks for the reply, I'm truly shocked if this wasn't in a club environment because I hear that sort of thing goes on there, it's such a shame that some guys just can't be normal human beings.

"

99 percent of guys in clubs are good decent guys , much better social skills than most couples ...it's only online where you find so many mad guys ...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

99 percent of guys in clubs are good decent guys , much better social skills than most couples ...it's only online where you find so many mad guys ..."

99% ehh, what about the wanking dead

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"

99 percent of guys in clubs are good decent guys , much better social skills than most couples ...it's only online where you find so many mad guys ...

99% ehh, what about the wanking dead "

I tend to go to chams , never seen any wanking dead

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *littleextraWoman
over a year ago

Lisburn

I love older……older the better x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes Very much so been put out to pasture

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *igdave58Man
over a year ago

irvine

I'm 64 and find it very difficult. Even when they state age up to 99 they say to old

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *obra 327Man
over a year ago

Bromley

I live in hope had a few meets but there sure is lots who tease you then drop you like a ton of bricks, there loss !!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep but keep trying ??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *elen69Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I like older but has to be handsome x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

Mmmm

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside


"I love older……older the better x"
helllloooooooo xxxxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilverGent1Man
over a year ago

Livingston

Not too difficult, but the trick, is in not trying too hard.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aldyballsMan
over a year ago

South Cheshire

I have in the past met several couples but now I'm over 55 alot of people set their upper age limit at 55 so I can't message them which limits my options. I'm no fatter or uglier than I was a year ago or maybe things change at 55 and I haven't noticed.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm similar issue in going over 40

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nly1meMan
over a year ago

here there n everywhere

Love a older gentlemen to play with

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *elen69Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Not too difficult, but the trick, is in not trying too hard. "

You are hot

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *obra 327Man
over a year ago

Bromley

So are you Helen 69

X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had couple chats that didn't come to anything

Also had a couple offers I wouldn't take up

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *un beforeMan
over a year ago

london colney

Yes but that’s normal , judged on looks

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, definitely, however I have always managed to meet ladies away from Fab, spontaneous meets in the streets that has led to many a pleasant evening. Still do despite being 67.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much so

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, definitely, however I have always managed to meet ladies away from Fab, spontaneous meets in the streets that has led to many a pleasant evening. Still do despite being 67."

Same as you fella, I meet people in real life and get on very well indeed, in real life people see us as we are not a dob first, which is fine it's the way it is online

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oding1Man
over a year ago

marlow

I'm rapidly approaching 72

And in the final phase of my sex life. I still enjoy all the aspects just as much as before.

The chase, the anticipation , the first kiss and all the fun and games .

Life's good enjoy.

Rod x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *littleextraWoman
over a year ago

Lisburn

Oldest guy I had was 72 mmmmmm

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss Boot LoverTV/TS
over a year ago

Tetbury

I and a few of my TV friends like an older gentleman.

Appreciate that's not what you were asking though.you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately agree with that.

Nothing in a couple of years!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andycd20000TV/TS
over a year ago

limerick side of ennis.

Yes it's very difficult

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nly1meMan
over a year ago

here there n everywhere

Looking sexy sandie u should av plenty of offers x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ave0070Man
over a year ago

Sleaford

Yes I find it really hard to get messages or replys from either

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *acage28Man
over a year ago

EDINBURGH

It's not easy..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *asil 300Man
over a year ago

huntingdon

In my sixties, in the last year met 3 couples,always getting offers from men,even straight guys lol,still a bit of life in me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to hazard a guess it's not my age preventing me from getting meets.

But I like to tell myself it is.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fear not people, I've got a new couple I'm chatting to, probably won't meet as they are looking for couples but chat and see where it goes, a couple that left fab have just reconnected with me, looking to hook up soon and my occasional FB has an opening for a morning meet up as she's back in the area for the weekend soon.

Keep the faith guys and gals

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'm finding it very problematic, especially as I push on through my sixties. Only to be expected I suppose...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Head to a club...no one asks your age.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

My partner is 61 and he has no problems getting attention. He doesn't say it and I avoid any man that says "females" instead of "women" it's a serious ick for me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *yresMan
over a year ago

Midland town

Well I'm just about to reach my sixties, and gives probley got no chance.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *outhman15Man
over a year ago

southampton

I'm 56 and it is difficult but not imposible as the majority of ladies on here do prefer a younger man which is fair enough its there choice, just have to keep trying

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uga40Man
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

Yes its hard

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *otfuckSELONDONMan
over a year ago

London

Almost impossible

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Most dont even reply havent got the decency to say no thanks "

Have you read the site rules?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lim Jim 69Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Never give up hope I say

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I feel old

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top