FabSwingers.com forum: Sometimes all people need is a little point in the right direction

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

After reading countless threads saying can't get a meet I thought I'd take it upon myself to write a guide!

First thing you need is patience.....on this site it's the women in charge seeing they are in the minority and then its the couples. If you're a single guy unless you are Brad Pitt you will not meet anyone first night.

Second thing is an interesting profile that sells you. Up to you how much info you say about yourself on it as being honest can lose you potential meets but being a barefaced liar will lose you more. Let your personality shine through and try not to be too self absorbed about how good you are.

Third thing is a willingness to get stuck in. You will get out what you put in. Try not to copy and paste messages, make sure you read the profile and center your messages around what you have read. You will get knocked back a few times or have people who won't answer back just move on to the next. Take part in the discussions on the forum, attend a few clubs or socials and go into the chatrooms.

People like positive people so dont be negative or whiney either in your posts, profile or status. Unless you're quasimodo or have a personality of a dead fish you're more then likely to get a meet eventually.

By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"After reading countless threads saying can't get a meet I thought I'd take it upon myself to write a guide!

Do you not take your own good advice then lol