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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do people make their way around the quandary of not being able to meet due to being unverified but need to meet to become verified??

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

You can still meet if you're not verified. Our first verification was from a club owner that we attended. If you go to any club they will verify you.

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

I'm sure this has been asked 1000s of times. The usual stock answer for most things is go to a club.

Maybe there should be a FAQ section on here.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Club or organised social

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can still meet if you're not verified. Our first verification was from a club owner that we attended. If you go to any club they will verify you."

That's a bit daunting, is cam verification not possible?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone insists on you being verified before they'll meet you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not everyone insists on you being verified before they'll meet you.

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True but I have hit that block a couple of times with some really nice people

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

You could try getting cam verifications

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could try getting cam verifications"

You're right, it looks like I can.

"Once you have met or cammed with other verified users, they will be able to verify your profile for you."

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By *uv2kissMan
over a year ago

fenland

I attended a few socials when I joined in 2010

Got known as a good non pushy guy.

That in turn led to meeting couples then in turn single women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I attended a few socials when I joined in 2010

Got known as a good non pushy guy.

That in turn led to meeting couples then in turn single women.

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Sounds like you've done well.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"That's a bit daunting, is cam verification not possible?"

Our biggest problem as a couple isn't guys not being who they say they are, or not looking like their photos (which is all cam verifications prove) but guys not turning up to meets. At least a few meet verifications prove that the person will actually turn up.

So - cam verifications are possible, but we (and lots of others) ignore them.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's a bit daunting, is cam verification not possible?

Our biggest problem as a couple isn't guys not being who they say they are, or not looking like their photos (which is all cam verifications prove) but guys not turning up to meets. At least a few meet verifications prove that the person will actually turn up.

So - cam verifications are possible, but we (and lots of others) ignore them.

(Bry)"

I totally understand that, if a cam verification can get me a meet with a verified person then that's ideal for me

Btw, had a peep at your profile (as you do, very nice) I noticed Langtoft Post Office, my family are from there - irrelevant but made me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can still meet people if you haven't been meet in person verified. I've met a few it really is not that big a deal.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Don't over-stress on the need for a veri. It's not a magic bullet. Single men here of all types struggle and most people are not compatible with most other people, thus good starting chats will largely fizzle out, once people grasp who's not a match

Look also for friendly locals, who could meet and verify you, after a coffee, etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the help everyone, much appreciated

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By *uiteniceguyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Doesn't it make you wonder though. If the very first member on fabswingers was not verified and a second member joins who is not verified and they want to play it safe by only meeting someone who is verified. Then how does anyone become verified. . .

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By *uv2kissMan
over a year ago

fenland

This has been asked before, if I remember rightly the suggestion was that the person who started Fab met someone else and verified them and then it snowballed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yay, I was able to get verified. I didn't even have to get my cock out

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Yay, I was able to get verified. I didn't even have to get my cock out "

Lol prob still won’t help

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"How do people make their way around the quandary of not being able to meet due to being unverified but need to meet to become verified??"

If you met one of the (I presume) many bi guys offering to give you a blowjob, you'd get some verifications!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do people make their way around the quandary of not being able to meet due to being unverified but need to meet to become verified??

If you met one of the (I presume) many bi guys offering to give you a blowjob, you'd get some verifications! "

I've only had one offer from someone relatively local

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people make their way around the quandary of not being able to meet due to being unverified but need to meet to become verified??

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Easiest way is to get yourself to a club or social and talk to people, your only down the road from Jaydees, it's bi night there tonight put yourself out there and give it a go.

But don't think that just because you have verifications that it will be any easier then it is without, they aren't the magic ticket to getting meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do people make their way around the quandary of not being able to meet due to being unverified but need to meet to become verified??

Easiest way is to get yourself to a club or social and talk to people, your only down the road from Jaydees, it's bi night there tonight put yourself out there and give it a go.

But don't think that just because you have verifications that it will be any easier then it is without, they aren't the magic ticket to getting meets."

I do plan to visit Jaydees or Vanilla, I'm very lucky to have them on my doorstep. Don't worry, I know that the verification won't be a magic bullet, I'm just trying to remove barriers to entry... pardon the pun

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By *SAwanted321Man
over a year ago

haywards heath

Remember you don’t have to have sex to be meet verified .

Suggest a social meet on neutral ground, lot of people more willing to do that and also give you a verification after which in turn can help with future meets.

You never know the social May lead some where or you both may realise not for you ( had a both in the past, but if your nice people still happy to verify meet in person)

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Remember you don’t have to have sex to be meet verified .

Suggest a social meet on neutral ground, lot of people more willing to do that and also give you a verification after which in turn can help with future meets.

You never know the social May lead some where or you both may realise not for you ( had a both in the past, but if your nice people still happy to verify meet in person)

Good luck"

Thank you, I hadn't even thought of that. I think I assumed it was shit or bust on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people make their way around the quandary of not being able to meet due to being unverified but need to meet to become verified??

Easiest way is to get yourself to a club or social and talk to people, your only down the road from Jaydees, it's bi night there tonight put yourself out there and give it a go.

But don't think that just because you have verifications that it will be any easier then it is without, they aren't the magic ticket to getting meets.

I do plan to visit Jaydees or Vanilla, I'm very lucky to have them on my doorstep. Don't worry, I know that the verification won't be a magic bullet, I'm just trying to remove barriers to entry... pardon the pun "

I can't comment on VA but Jaydees is awesome and the fact single guys are always welcome is a big plus for me, you just have to email the club and secure your name on the list.

Yea I get that some will only meet people that are verified so your right you will be removing a small barrier

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"I do plan to visit Jaydees or Vanilla, I'm very lucky to have them on my doorstep."

We should be at MILF Club at Vanilla Alternative on Wednesday afternoon. If you can get there, say hello and we'll verify.

You need to be a member of VA (free online application) and also get added to the single guy list by text message.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do plan to visit Jaydees or Vanilla, I'm very lucky to have them on my doorstep.

We should be at MILF Club at Vanilla Alternative on Wednesday afternoon. If you can get there, say hello and we'll verify.

You need to be a member of VA (free online application) and also get added to the single guy list by text message.

(Bry)"

Thanks Bry, that would be great of you. Milf club sounds like a lot of fun and I like the idea of heading out on a Wednesday afternoon to meet a bunch of likeminded folk. I look forward to hopefully seeing you there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a Catch 22... most won't meet you without a verification... can't get a verification without a meet!

I was on here couple years ago and had a few verifications... then left. It's hard to get verified again. Even harder as there seem to be an abundance of fake profiles too.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Not being verified doesn't stop you meeting, connect with those whom you would most likely have something in common with. Remember your approach is very important. Everyone started off without being verified by another including myself and didn't take me long after I joined the site and meeting others. So try putting meets via the meet section for social without any expectations, remember you still need to find common ground while chatting on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people make their way around the quandary of not being able to meet due to being unverified but need to meet to become verified??

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Go to a swingers club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club or organised social.

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By *ocktoplaywithMan
over a year ago

Derby

Often thought this, seems to be major hurdle, never thought about the club idea though so maybe will have to try.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

We arranged to meet a fella who wasn't verified at Gems! I promise it's not too much of a barrier, your profile is good (not that you asked) so maybe get a cam veri as others have said

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