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"Hello all. We are looking for a bull, but struggling to get into the online search. Just wondering if any hotwives out there meet their bulls in real life? Any tips for success? Starting to think we want it to happen more organically. Cheers!" Hi, I could not reply to you privately because I seen your profile but could not reply because you have a age limit on your profile. You have already met a guy and you both enjoyed it with your hubby enjoying watching you with that guy. If you want a regular bull you need to put that on your profile and look at the bulls or guys verifications and that will give you a idea what other ladies and couples have experienced with that bull or guy. Over the years I have some great experiences but I chatted to the couples and ladies first to find out what they both want from the meet because when it comes to cuckolding their are different levels of cuckolding and by chatting you get to feel if that bull or guy are for you . Hope you find the bull or guy that you can both have fun with and enjoy the cuckolding lifestyle. John | |||
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"Hello all. We are looking for a bull, but struggling to get into the online search. Just wondering if any hotwives out there meet their bulls in real life? Any tips for success? Starting to think we want it to happen more organically. Cheers!" How are you struggling. Profile good pictures great I would have thought it would be easy to find what you want. I would happily meet you. | |||
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"Hello all. We are looking for a bull, but struggling to get into the online search. Just wondering if any hotwives out there meet their bulls in real life? Any tips for success? Starting to think we want it to happen more organically. Cheers!" We’d advise you be careful using the term ‘bull’. To a lot of guys that consider themselves to be ‘bulls’ assume you want cuckold play. Just asking for a guy doesn’t induce expectations that you aren’t comfortable with. Happy Fabbing  | |||
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"Thanks for all the input. Think you are right about the term bull, but it's like a short-cut. We want someone to come and fuck the Mrs in front of the Mr. Just without the humiliation. And perhaps I could have been clearer. I was referring to meeting a man in our lives rather than online. There are of course lots of men up for the challenge on here.... Tha ms for the input again all. " That can be awkward, but if you think that you have a friend that’s interested in the wife, just brush around the subject and sound them out. Our best bulls have been friends who we wouldn’t have thought they could be until a brief conversation started over a whisky. | |||
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"We’ve been a cuckold couple for a fair number of years now and the amount of ‘serious’ bulls that we talked to or even met have been minimal. Loads of guys advertising themselves on here as bulls are nothing of the sort, know absolutely nothing about how a cuckold relationship works, they think that the just turn up, fuck the wife and that makes them a bull ! There’s no real answers to finding a ‘real’ bull just keep chatting to guys knowing that you might have to kiss a lot of frogs before finding a prince !" When you say that you should add what works for you as everyone is very different in what they are looking for. | |||
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"Hello all. We are looking for a bull, but struggling to get into the online search. Just wondering if any hotwives out there meet their bulls in real life? Any tips for success? Starting to think we want it to happen more organically. Cheers!" Am sure you will get some fun. It gets a lot easier once you have a few contacts as can then get to know new people. Just one thing make sure it’s what u both want. I love it and it’s very addictive and done since young. Spent a lot of my time on it though by love the people met and especially the wives xxx | |||
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"We’ve been a cuckold couple for a fair number of years now and the amount of ‘serious’ bulls that we talked to or even met have been minimal. Loads of guys advertising themselves on here as bulls are nothing of the sort, know absolutely nothing about how a cuckold relationship works, they think that the just turn up, fuck the wife and that makes them a bull ! There’s no real answers to finding a ‘real’ bull just keep chatting to guys knowing that you might have to kiss a lot of frogs before finding a prince !" this
been a hotwife couple for 25 years and and last 5 years now cuckold i can say hand on heart the best way to find a bull is not to look for a bull sounds crazy but so true 90% of bulls on here are not bulls as said they just think about fucking the wife and thats it or they are in total fantasy land wanking behind the keyboard .....
the best way to find a bull and or regular is to look for assertive guys who are happy to take the lead and want regular and then enjoy and progress to the bull stage naturally ... theother problen is the reall bulls on here were bulls to others who are totally different to you and others theres no such thing as one bull fits all they dont they only fit the last couple they were with ..
there are however some very rare guys who do get it and adjust quickly these are rare very rare ..
best of luck dont give in as its a fantatsic lifestyle when that 3rd person/persons are found | |||
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"We’ve been a cuckold couple for a fair number of years now and the amount of ‘serious’ bulls that we talked to or even met have been minimal. Loads of guys advertising themselves on here as bulls are nothing of the sort, know absolutely nothing about how a cuckold relationship works, they think that the just turn up, fuck the wife and that makes them a bull ! There’s no real answers to finding a ‘real’ bull just keep chatting to guys knowing that you might have to kiss a lot of frogs before finding a prince ! this
been a hotwife couple for 25 years and and last 5 years now cuckold i can say hand on heart the best way to find a bull is not to look for a bull sounds crazy but so true 90% of bulls on here are not bulls as said they just think about fucking the wife and thats it or they are in total fantasy land wanking behind the keyboard .....
the best way to find a bull and or regular is to look for assertive guys who are happy to take the lead and want regular and then enjoy and progress to the bull stage naturally ... theother problen is the reall bulls on here were bulls to others who are totally different to you and others theres no such thing as one bull fits all they dont they only fit the last couple they were with ..
there are however some very rare guys who do get it and adjust quickly these are rare very rare ..
best of luck dont give in as its a fantatsic lifestyle when that 3rd person/persons are found"We love the messages from guys who tell us they are bulls but then go onto to tell us that they’d love to try cuckolding as they’ve never done it before ! We put the ‘bullshitters’ in the same category as the picture collectors wankers and fantasists ! | |||
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"We’ve been a cuckold couple for a fair number of years now and the amount of ‘serious’ bulls that we talked to or even met have been minimal. Loads of guys advertising themselves on here as bulls are nothing of the sort, know absolutely nothing about how a cuckold relationship works, they think that the just turn up, fuck the wife and that makes them a bull ! There’s no real answers to finding a ‘real’ bull just keep chatting to guys knowing that you might have to kiss a lot of frogs before finding a prince ! this
been a hotwife couple for 25 years and and last 5 years now cuckold i can say hand on heart the best way to find a bull is not to look for a bull sounds crazy but so true 90% of bulls on here are not bulls as said they just think about fucking the wife and thats it or they are in total fantasy land wanking behind the keyboard .....
the best way to find a bull and or regular is to look for assertive guys who are happy to take the lead and want regular and then enjoy and progress to the bull stage naturally ... theother problen is the reall bulls on here were bulls to others who are totally different to you and others theres no such thing as one bull fits all they dont they only fit the last couple they were with ..
there are however some very rare guys who do get it and adjust quickly these are rare very rare ..
best of luck dont give in as its a fantatsic lifestyle when that 3rd person/persons are found
We love the messages from guys who tell us they are bulls but then go onto to tell us that they’d love to try cuckolding as they’ve never done it before !
We put the ‘bullshitters’ in the same category as the picture collectors wankers and fantasists !"Excellent advice | |||
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"Thanks for all the input. Think you are right about the term bull, but it's like a short-cut. We want someone to come and fuck the Mrs in front of the Mr. Just without the humiliation. And perhaps I could have been clearer. I was referring to meeting a man in our lives rather than online. There are of course lots of men up for the challenge on here.... Tha ms for the input again all. " | |||
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"Hello all. We are looking for a bull, but struggling to get into the online search. Just wondering if any hotwives out there meet their bulls in real life? Any tips for success? Starting to think we want it to happen more organically. Cheers!" we went down the massage scenario and if the masseur “ measured” up Sue would enjoy the moment which has seemed to fit the bill for a number of meets… looks so hot also | |||
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"Hello all. We are looking for a bull, but struggling to get into the online search. Just wondering if any hotwives out there meet their bulls in real life? Any tips for success? Starting to think we want it to happen more organically. Cheers!" I think the key thing here is that the human dynamic is the most important factor. It’s very very difficult to determine it in any other way than meeting in person; much like establishing attraction and chemistry. As others have said, I’m sure that there are lots of men who will identify as Bulls etc, but I think you need a confident, assertive man with a high degree of emotional intelligence who can quickly assess and understand your relationship dynamics, and your needs, then work out how he can best contribute to it in such a way that everybody’s needs are met. The right guy for you will be out there somewhere - either on Fab or not - but I think your search is most likely to come to a successful conclusion by meeting in person, establishing rapport and attraction, and then of course developing mutual trust and respect. Have fun looking! | |||
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"Thanks for all the input. Think you are right about the term bull, but it's like a short-cut. We want someone to come and fuck the Mrs in front of the Mr. Just without the humiliation. And perhaps I could have been clearer. I was referring to meeting a man in our lives rather than online. There are of course lots of men up for the challenge on here.... Tha ms for the input again all. " Gladly do that .. as would hundreds and hundreds of guys on here, 80pc of which are like me, decent respectful and attractive to many tastes. You have to arrange meets, go and meet us guys socially.. arrange some coffee dates.. actually do it. So many couples and single women on here playing with their ideas then complain they can't find what they are looking for.. online is a minefield it's just a nod to meeting up to get a real feel for someone .. in 100pc of cases people don't quite match what their online profile will make you think. It's just what online is and people are .. the mismatch is not deliberate it's just much better to meet in person ... | |||
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"We were the same but start using an app that helps connect people looking for a third and specifically things like bulls which really helped " What is the app? | |||
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