FabSwingers.com forum: No interest

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is there any reason I'm not getting any interest on here?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

You've only been here 3 weeks.

Do you think your profile sells you better than the many other people who will be contacting the same people that you are?

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I just overhear some ladies saying they will make you some offers very soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a straight guys pov, your profile isn't the best. You have basically described what every guy on here is after rather than something personal and something that is more appealing to read. Also, rather than just naked pictures, why not add some of you when your out and about? No point in putting everything on view is there? Maybe put the naked one's as a friends only or private so that when you get to know someone through chatting, you have the option of showing rather than straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you cannot accommodate, people will wonder why.

You also have 18-99, comes across as desperate, I mean would you really shag a 99 yr old?

I also seem to remember you being linked to a woman on here who was 'using' another woman's profile, if you have met someone surely she would have verified you?

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

ok, your profile basically says you are brilliant at sex and you are looking for a lady of any age for sex of any kind at all........

Tempting ........ not.

You really need to re-think your profile, be a sexy person not a sex god ( if you are a sex god your verifications will show that). Be yourself

Good luck

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"And you cannot accommodate, people will wonder why.

You also have 18-99, comes across as desperate, I mean would you really shag a 99 yr old?

I also seem to remember you being linked to a woman on here who was 'using' another woman's profile, if you have met someone surely she would have verified you?"

TBH - some people lie about their age...

To me - 18-99 says they have no hangups about age.

Personally, I draw the line at centenarians...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above. Your profile is crap. It's crass, egotistical and arrogant, it screams entitlement, it's more than a little desperate. Your pictures are truly awful, union jack boxers? Two taken while having a shave?

Oh and 36 year olds that can't accommodate are usually assumed to be chests. That presumption is re-inforced when your pictures appear to have children's cuddly toys in the background.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crystal Wheels............what a bloody vile answer that is.

Oh to be so perfect as you two clearly must be.

What a horrible answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Truly, honestly ? You did ask !

In MY opinion, and you and everyone else are entitled to have a different opinion of course.

What's wrong with your profile ?

every single thing about your profile, it's one of the worst I've ever read on here I'm sorry, but that's what I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So desperate that he's on a swingers site hey !!!!!!!

Pot kettle !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Truly, honestly ? You did ask !

In MY opinion, and you and everyone else are entitled to have a different opinion of course.

What's wrong with your profile ?

every single thing about your profile, it's one of the worst I've ever read on here

I'm sorry, but that's what I think"

Great advice Cardiff the cock !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never claimed he was desperate, and as I said, he asked the question soliciting people's opinions on a public forum.

I said my opinion with the caveat that others may, and are entitled to think differently

You in your last post " pot kettle " to my mind makes the assumption that both the OP and myself are desperate to be on a swinger's site.

I am unsure as to what grounds you draw that conclusion on. I would not assume YOU were desperate because you are on a swinger's site.

Tom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Truly, honestly ? You did ask !

In MY opinion, and you and everyone else are entitled to have a different opinion of course.

What's wrong with your profile ?

every single thing about your profile, it's one of the worst I've ever read on here

I'm sorry, but that's what I think

Great advice Cardiff the cock !!!!!"

May I please enquire as to why you are using , what appears to be clearly confrontational language to myself please ?

Tom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used the term desperate so assume that those comments were aimed at me. And yes the phrase "I will meet anyone" just after specifying your only preference is to me pretty desperate.

If the pot kettle comment was aimed at me, then are you saying that all swingers are desperate? Because we moist certainly aren't and I think most people have preferences and standards.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

Its not the best profile.. but the fact you are married will put alot off..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it makes you feel better I've had no luck either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've read your profile Crystal, you do come accross as desperate now you ask, and totally up yourelves too.

To give an answer like you did to that guys question was frankly embarrassing sorry, you should be proud of yourselves trying to humiliate the bloke like that.

So yes pot kettle black and desperate as I said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've read your profile Crystal, you fo cone accross as desperate now you ask, and totally up yourelves too.

To give an answer like you did to that guys question was frankly embarrassing sorry, you should be proud of yourselves trying to humiliate the bloke like that.

So yes pot kettle black and desperate as I said. "

I don;t recall asking your opinion of our profile?

I think you will find that it is against forum rules to critique profiles that have not requested it. Yet you have done that twice here and on at least one thread yesterday, though in effect all you have done is insult people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've read your profile Crystal, you fo cone accross as desperate now you ask, and totally up yourelves too.

To give an answer like you did to that guys question was frankly embarrassing sorry, you should be proud of yourselves trying to humiliate the bloke like that.

So yes pot kettle black and desperate as I said.

I don;t recall asking your opinion of our profile?

I agree, I don't care what anyone thinks of me, but neither have I ever solicited an opinion, I think I shall make a complaint to admin in this case

Tom

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Peace on earth and goodwill to all men ( and women).......

As my nan used to say, if you cant say anything nice, say nothing at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really do think you need to take a step back here and re-read this in the morning !

Tom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How was Tom's reply "vile"? He just said that there was nothing he liked about the profile. He was giving his honest opinion. That's not bullying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm at a loss to explain your reasoning and your vitriol to be honest, I am not going to respond further to someone who is clearly in a keyboard rampage.

Tom

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

"If it makes you feel better I've had no luck either

awww bless, dont worry too much about it, its not about luck, its about being yourself and enjoying yourself. Try clubs or parties, dont just use the site, get out there and enjoy yourselves.

And remember, its a busy time of year, people have other commitments etc so dont take it personally if its 'quiet' at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To add a valid contribution to this thread:

@OP - Your profile is generic, in my opinion. Perhaps expand on what you like, why you're here and what you can offer to potential partners. I'd also rethink your photos. They aren't the most flattering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look threw forum lots of threads on how to make your profile gain some interest. Patience is the key toox

Good luck x

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By *lex 1971Man
over a year ago

telford

not long in, u be yourself, we cant all be perfect, you can only ofer wot you got and dont change, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've read your profile Crystal, you fo cone accross as desperate now you ask, and totally up yourelves too.

To give an answer like you did to that guys question was frankly embarrassing sorry, you should be proud of yourselves trying to humiliate the bloke like that.

So yes pot kettle black and desperate as I said.

I don;t recall asking your opinion of our profile?

And funnily enough I also suggested he was desperate but only got one comment

gonna stomp my liddle biddy feet now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And you cannot accommodate, people will wonder why.

You also have 18-99, comes across as desperate, I mean would you really shag a 99 yr old?

I also seem to remember you being linked to a woman on here who was 'using' another woman's profile, if you have met someone surely she would have verified you?

TBH - some people lie about their age...

To me - 18-99 says they have no hangups about age.

Personally, I draw the line at centenarians..."

I am only echoing what people say when asked to comment on a profile, even those who have no hang ups about age surely have a minimum and maximum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it makes you feel better I've had no luck either

Yet you asked the question yourself on your own thread and have the answers too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it makes you feel better I've had no luck either

Yet you asked the question yourself on your own thread and have the answers too"
I wish . What answers go to clubs ? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it makes you feel better I've had no luck either

Yet you asked the question yourself on your own thread and have the answers too I wish . What answers go to clubs ? X"

Yes they are great places to go, not just to have fun but you can get verified by people who have profiles on here plus its a getting your face around exercise and showing people what you are really like;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it makes you feel better I've had no luck either

Yet you asked the question yourself on your own thread and have the answers too I wish . What answers go to clubs ? X

Yes they are great places to go, not just to have fun but you can get verified by

people who have profiles on here plus

its a getting your face around exercise and showing people what you are really like;-)"

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"And you cannot accommodate, people will wonder why.

You also have 18-99, comes across as desperate, I mean would you really shag a 99 yr old?

I also seem to remember you being linked to a woman on here who was 'using' another woman's profile, if you have met someone surely she would have verified you?

TBH - some people lie about their age...

To me - 18-99 says they have no hangups about age.

Personally, I draw the line at centenarians...

I am only echoing what people say when asked to comment on a profile, even those who have no hang ups about age surely have a minimum and maximum?"

As far as age is concerned - they must be of legal age. By that, I mean 18 rather than the age of consent. And everyone on here has affirmed that they are 18 or over.

One caveat - they must be able to make their own, informed decisions of what they want no matter what their age.

There are some sexy 60 and 70 year olds here and elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that was another educator, the OP and the ranter have departed FAB

XX and happy Xmas

To all

Tom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well that was another educator, the OP and the ranter have departed FAB

XX and happy Xmas

To all

Tom"

Good

Merry Christmas to you Tom

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