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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know there are lots of forum entries for this subject, but I don't want to sending time scrolling through what feels like an endless list.

I need some personal profile advice. I've been on the site for a few months now, but haven't had much success/interest.

What am I missing? Is my profile too long? If it's photos, what would be the ideal kind?

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"I know there are lots of forum entries for this subject, but I don't want to sending time scrolling through what feels like an endless list.

I need some personal profile advice. I've been on the site for a few months now, but haven't had much success/interest.

What am I missing? Is my profile too long? If it's photos, what would be the ideal kind?"

This site takes effort. Have you put effort into using the forums? using the chatrooms? attending socials or attending clubs? Or have you relied solely on messaging, which has a very low success rate for many reasons, not least because writing an interesting message takes effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is quite difficult on here as a single guy to get meets but not impossible, you do have to put the effort in, social events and clubs are a lot better for me anyway, as no matter how much effort I put into my profile it will never really portray who I really am, your not fair from Nottingham try googling "The unseen lounge" I think they have a big social event coming up this month sometime, see if there are any single guy tickets left, it should at least get you some verifications and a good night out possibly even set you up for some future meets.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi op

Each and every other user will have a different opinion, so what makes you feel comfortable with is very important as you've mentioned that yes their is loads of entries by others this is something to venture for ideas as most of the forum users have added additional tips and advice too assist so the user is able to create something that fits around them personally which is also important only you know yourself better than anyone remember that the advice you may receive may be from users you'll never meet so would it be valuable information to assist you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know there are lots of forum entries for this subject, but I don't want to sending time scrolling through what feels like an endless list.

I need some personal profile advice. I've been on the site for a few months now, but haven't had much success/interest.

What am I missing? Is my profile too long? If it's photos, what would be the ideal kind?"

Clearer pics, camera phones are amazing yet yours look like a disposable camera from 2001

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It's quite ironic that one of your interests is taking photos yet your profile only has two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find your profile quite sterile OP, almost like reading a CV.

Your sexual interests are limited, anal and oral and all I can see is one profile pic.

It all needs revamping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're profile sounds about as interesting as Matt Hancock going into I'm a celebrity get me out of here...

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By *aurus1987Man
over a year ago

York


"You're profile sounds about as interesting as Matt Hancock going into I'm a celebrity get me out of here... "

Lol

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"but I don't want to sending time scrolling through"

That sort of shows the amount of effort you're willing to put in, which is going to reflect on the amount of effort you'll put into meeting. If we're going to write your profile for you, do we get to go to your meets for you?

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but I don't want to sending time scrolling through

That sort of shows the amount of effort you're willing to put in, which is going to reflect on the amount of effort you'll put into meeting. If we're going to write your profile for you, do we get to go to your meets for you?

(Bry)"

I’d missed that bit on the OP’s post.

Says it all really

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By *mazing Kisser xxxMan
over a year ago

TW

Ok

In a similar boat

Had a few chats but no meets

Fire away how do I give my profile a bit of vova voom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but I don't want to sending time scrolling through

That sort of shows the amount of effort you're willing to put in, which is going to reflect on the amount of effort you'll put into meeting. If we're going to write your profile for you, do we get to go to your meets for you?

(Bry)"

My thoughts exaclty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know there are lots of forum entries for this subject, but I don't want to sending time scrolling through what feels like an endless list.

I need some personal profile advice. I've been on the site for a few months now, but haven't had much success/interest.

What am I missing? Is my profile too long? If it's photos, what would be the ideal kind?

Clearer pics, camera phones are amazing yet yours look like a disposable camera from 2001 "

Clearer pics? There aren't any!

OP put some photos on and get a profile picture.

Also you might want to change your last sentence to I am vaccinated.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"but I don't want to sending time scrolling through

That sort of shows the amount of effort you're willing to put in, which is going to reflect on the amount of effort you'll put into meeting. If we're going to write your profile for you, do we get to go to your meets for you?

(Bry)"

I was just about going to say that re: effort, you beat me to it! Lol.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"Ok

In a similar boat

Had a few chats but no meets

Fire away how do I give my profile a bit of vova voom"

Start your own thread....bad form to jump on someone else's and gets confusing when people offer advice and don't use the quote feature.

(Bry)

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"but I don't want to sending time scrolling through

That sort of shows the amount of effort you're willing to put in, which is going to reflect on the amount of effort you'll put into meeting. If we're going to write your profile for you, do we get to go to your meets for you?

(Bry)"

My thoughts as well...

Can't be bothered to help themselves but wants all the rewards

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By *mazing Kisser xxxMan
over a year ago

TW

I did sorry

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I know there are lots of forum entries for this subject, but I don't want to sending time scrolling through what feels like an endless list.

I need some personal profile advice. I've been on the site for a few months now, but haven't had much success/interest.

What am I missing? Is my profile too long? If it's photos, what would be the ideal kind?"
nice profile but no pics.... Why? Hey its the luck of the draw here you either appeal or you don't, personality in what you do counts I guess, not much we can do or say to help but pics not of your face or cock definitely help, other than that good luck

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

The biggest chunk of your text is about you being a decent human - people really shouldn't need convincing of that, and I find it a tad unnerving when people devote so much text to it

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

You shouldn't need anyone to tell you what's wrong with your profile when it's so bloody obvious.

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