FabSwingers.com forum: not everyone’s cuppa tea how to get reply

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been signed up for a minute now on this site pretty new to it all could someone please help me wat I’m doing wrong cus it’s not like I lied on my chat I show what I look like etc so I dunno maybe I’m not every if not any womens cuppa tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have only been on here two months OP, it takes time. Also if you want profile advice, you need to ask for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

True suppose your right thank your for the advice kind of you to reply

so what do I need to no that could help me please as I am new to this and was recommended from a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys outnumber women and couples on here by a huge amount so they need to stand out more to get noticed. Make sure your profile stands out. I can't give advice on your profile without you asking specifically for it as it's against forum rules. There's lots of threads asking the same sort of questions that you can search, full of lots of helpful advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I understand and thank your very much I really appreciate the information anything helps really

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Always baffles me when guys tell their friends to come on here... It's not easy if you are looking for hookups and even if you are very good looking it doesn't necessarily make you attractive to many so be patient... Lower your expectations, not your standards!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'll be honest op your profile reads as all about what you're after.

You're looking for the same as many men and most couples ,ffm so there's alot of competition.

I'd suggest making one of your pics a profile pic as most would delete a shadow.

What can you offer meets ,why should they pick you and not one of the thousands of other men here.

Your user name and status would also put me off I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Appreciate all the fees back thank you and I didn’t choose my name my dumb ass friend did n now I can’t change it for some reason but yea I fully understand basically I stick out just like the other men so basically make a few changes n my expectations ain’t all high I have a kind heart who just likes a great conversation not just to meet and fuck I thought it was best to be straight forward n let women no what I’m about being a straight forward guy n not with the messing about seems as everyone is here for the same thing n I’m not expecting a model neither a nice chat goes a long way thank you all tho

Kind regards

Sean

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And what does op mean an not to sound like a numpty but I only put ffm cus I ain’t ever experienced one before n just thought if u dint be straight forward wats the point in lying to the women that’s just more sleazy

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"I'll be honest op your profile reads as all about what you're after.

You're looking for the same as many men and most couples ,ffm so there's alot of competition.

I'd suggest making one of your pics a profile pic as most would delete a shadow.

What can you offer meets ,why should they pick you and not one of the thousands of other men here.

Your user name and status would also put me off I'm afraid.

What she said.

OP is Original Poster.

Personally i would suggest that (as a single guy) you drop the MFF fantasy completely. Gives me the ick as most single guys have no idea about the amount of work involved in satisfying 2 women and cannot see past them drooling over their junk. It reinforces the "I'm a selfish lover and only here for my pleasure" vibe. Are you really up to the job?! If you are and the opportunity ever arises then fill your boots.

I don't mean to be rude as it is tough if English is not your first language or you don't have a job that involves writing, but run your text through Word (or whatever) if possible. It is very hard to read without punctuation. Most women will give up and delete.

Good luck.

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By *aurus1987Man
over a year ago

York

Ive been on here 5 years and had 3 meets. I always speak the truth

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