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Interested in Peoples thoughts on first email

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been a member of this site for a while and have enjoyed some encounters.

The question I have is what are peoples thoughts on the first email? What sort of contect do they like to read? Do you prefer something about the person or do you think that should be catered for in their profile?

Has anyone got any thoughts?

As a single man I try to email initially and when I get blocked or the email just gets deleted it can be frustrating so any genuine feedback welcomed

Please, let me know your thoughts

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I got offered £100 to go to a mans hotel room fuck him and leave..he got blocked

I do like emails that are not too gushy,telling me what that want and a bit of wit always helps and gets a reply

Anyone who mistakes my sense of humour for being sarcastic don't lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer something witty and topical to our profile. Read the profile carefully before messaging and dont ask for a meet on your first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to send a message that is clearly unique to the recipient (and not cut and pasted) and gives them reason to want to reply.

There is no magic formula but bland "how are you" type messages will probably get you nowhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can get over 100 emails a week from single men 99.5% are wasting the time .if you are going to ask are you ok but it at the end .do not start and end with it . say a lot about yourself and the things you are into and make it more then one line .also make your profile stant out .lots of your men under 30 on this site with great profile .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow 100 emails we have blocked single males never realy know what to right either but we dont get many emails i dont know what we doing wrong x

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

Get loads of emails from men saying "hi how are you" "hows you today" "fancy meeting"

Now whilst that might work on some people,I do not know who but it certainly does not work on us.

Even a short email asking us to read his profile and he has sent a pick gets us started.

Or even just a nicely worded email saying why he would like to meet us.

Get alot from guys and even the odd couple stating in a nice why they would like to meet us and when we ask are they ever likely to be in the south or coming to Guernsey they say no, so whats the point in asking us to meet???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello everyone...I can assure you that reading the profile carefully for preferences, responding to particular points, being polite and attaching a face pic....still ends in your message being deleted without acknowlement!

It's completely hit and miss, I'm not Brad Pitt but I'm not a bad looking fella (!) and I'm always relevant and polite.

Now I know that couples and particularly women get tons of messages and I think it's fair to ignore those that are "wanna fuck" or "you ok", but if the person has clearly put some effort in a simple "thanks but no thanks" shouldn't be too much to ask should it?

Doesn't matter what I think it won't make any difference, there's no secret formula....just be yourself and good luck!!!

Cam x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today we have recieved numerous one liners, from "my name is... " "hi how are you" to "Hi".

I dont know why they bother. I'd say 90% of all mails recieved are this,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just use the proven scattergun approach and send the same email to hundreds of women, then if they don't reply or delete the message, send a torrent of abuse to the ungrateful bitches. This always seems to change their minds and they'll be sat on your cock before you've had time to blink. Trust me, it never fails!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just use the proven scattergun approach and send the same email to hundreds of women, then if they don't reply or delete the message, send a torrent of abuse to the ungrateful bitches. This always seems to change their minds and they'll be sat on your cock before you've had time to blink. Trust me, it never fails!

thanks for the advice Bob. Seems so obvious, i dont know why i didnt try this before

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By *insfordcoupleCouple
over a year ago

winsford cheshire


"wow 100 emails we have blocked single males never realy know what to right either but we dont get many emails i dont know what we doing wrong x"

cause your shouting and come across aggresive in your written profile...

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