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By *ibi_curious OP   Couple
over a year ago

Shepperton

Why does a man send a message saying all the things he thinks you want to hear. But when you look at there profile there's no indication that he's what he say he is. You then replay say no thanks he blocks you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Because he wants to make sure he doesn't contact you again. I'm not seeing a problem here

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By *aidForSharingWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

If you've said no thanks, why shouldn't he block you? Seems like he understands the word No. Why did you want him to keep the communication channels open when you have already said no thanks?

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By *ps4funCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"If you've said no thanks, why shouldn't he block you? Seems like he understands the word No. Why did you want him to keep the communication channels open when you have already said no thanks?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because he wants to make sure he doesn't contact you again. I'm not seeing a problem here"

Simple. Keep it moveing, like most do on hwre!

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted


"Because he wants to make sure he doesn't contact you again. I'm not seeing a problem here"

Yep not a good feeling seeing pics and status updates from people you have an interest in who have said no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because he wants to make sure he doesn't contact you again. I'm not seeing a problem here

Yep not a good feeling seeing pics and status updates from people you have an interest in who have said no. "

Give time,and abit more time,to those whom value you and your time. As you do their's.

One cannot make anybody like you, or admire your worth than what is possible!

For many they simpley are not capable of depth or giveing..

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted


"Because he wants to make sure he doesn't contact you again. I'm not seeing a problem here

Yep not a good feeling seeing pics and status updates from people you have an interest in who have said no.

Give time,and abit more time,to those whom value you and your time. As you do their's.

One cannot make anybody like you, or admire your worth than what is possible!

For many they simpley are not capable of depth or giveing.. "

Hence just block and forget ??

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Why does a man send a message saying all the things he thinks you want to hear. But when you look at there profile there's no indication that he's what he say he is. You then replay say no thanks he blocks you "

I don't use the block features I used the notes feature where I can write personal note that appears when I click on their profile so I know if not to contact them.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London


"Why does a man send a message saying all the things he thinks you want to hear. But when you look at there profile there's no indication that he's what he say he is. You then replay say no thanks he blocks you "

Why would you be bothered thst someone you don't want to meet has blocked you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because he wants to make sure he doesn't contact you again. I'm not seeing a problem here

Yep not a good feeling seeing pics and status updates from people you have an interest in who have said no.

Give time,and abit more time,to those whom value you and your time. As you do their's.

One cannot make anybody like you, or admire your worth than what is possible!

For many they simpley are not capable of depth or giveing..

Hence just block and forget ??"

Your choice how you may sew fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does a man send a message saying all the things he thinks you want to hear. But when you look at there profile there's no indication that he's what he say he is. You then replay say no thanks he blocks you "

He has done the right thing.

You have said no.....

He has said no back to any future interest from you.

It also saves him from accidentally messaging you again and getting a virtual earful.

Sounds like he has had a lucky escape, since you have now started a thread slating him.

Looks like sour grapes to say no to someone, then throw your toys out of the pram because they block you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op move on ffs. It’s not that deep.

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock


"Why does a man send a message saying all the things he thinks you want to hear. But when you look at there profile there's no indication that he's what he say he is. You then replay say no thanks he blocks you "

So that he doesn’t ‘forget’ he’s previously contacted you.

We would rather rejected profiles do this, then pester again later on. Saves both yours and his time.

J

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

I don't see the problem. Why shouldn't he block you if you said no?

Too often on here men get slated for continuing to message when they've been told no. Seems to me whoever it was has dome the decent thing so as not to bother you again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see the issue with blocking after being rejected?

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Probably so he doesn't forget your profile and message you again

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