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"I've only arranged parties myself and that was difficult but every account I've heard suggests gangbangs are worse. The usual rule of thumb quoted is to invite twice as many men as you want / need although your experience seems to have been even worse. I don't really know why so many don't turn up but my guess has always been bottling it when confronted with the reality. Anyway, my suggestion are: * there are a few groups of men on fab who specialise in arranging gangbangs. Maybe look to see if there are any in your area. * go to a club that has a greedy girls event. The men there are already, well, *there*. It has worked well the few times I have taken someone for that purpose. * try again and overbook?" Last time we invite 14 guys 1 showed up | |||
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"Last time we invite 14 guys 1 showed up " That's a sad reflection on potential gang bang goers . The only one of those suggestions I have actually tried is going to a club on a greedy girls day and that worked really well. I don't know if that fits in with what you want? | |||
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"I would recommend having a group of regulars you see then move on to a group meet with those same guys. " Tried that before and that didn't work Plan was join here Gets some reliable guys Then leave Yeah right | |||
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"Rather than an open invite, perhaps it would be better for you folks to put together a select group specifically for this " So how do ya find a select group ?? Even when we pick people from the search and even with verifications Then end up backing out or no shows | |||
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"I have a kik group set up for a gb I have arranged for a female on here. At present 21 guys. Will see how many turn up. From previous experience if half show up you have done well " Shame ya so far away or you could arrange for us | |||
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"I would recommend having a group of regulars you see then move on to a group meet with those same guys. Tried that before and that didn't work Plan was join here Gets some reliable guys Then leave Yeah right " My head says how can it not work if they are regular but I am not on that side of the fence to know. But you are right it’s a sad fact of people living in fantasy land. As the cock gets bigger the brain gets smaller until they shoot their load then it’s back to reality for them. | |||
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"Not 100% the same but we've run a few social events on here in our time and learnt that if 15 si gle.guys put their name down for a 100 person event, youre lucky if 3 attend. I (Mr) was also invited to a gangbang (my first bit ill come back to this) last year and yes, only one other guy turned up with 5 no shows. Not that I was complaining but fact is a lot of guys on here talk the talk but don't walk the walk. And that's the problem. It's fab. For all the people who follow through on their areanged meets and promises there's just as many who don't. So, here's my 2 bits of advice for havimg better success. 1) Use clubs. A greedy girls night or even singles night may get you enough guys if a gangbang is what ypu are after. 2) Vet the guys veris seriously. Are they verified from.other gangbangs. Do they go to clubs or social events? Those are signs they won't waste your time. Not fool proof but still better than nothing. You'll have more success with someone with numerous veris from such events than a guy with 2 meets or a webcam veri. Dosent mean the latter is not legit but statistically speaking (and from experiance), if.you do.the clubs and socials you ain't going to bail on an arranged event. But back to what I said earlier. Gangbangs happen organically on the right nights at clubs. Seen a few happen in my time. If it's your thing that's the best place to make it happen. The guys are there and ready to go usually. Hope this helps and good luck. " We did try the club thing Twice And both time Not sound rude or arrogant the standard of guys to pick from was well.... not gr8 | |||
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"Not 100% the same but we've run a few social events on here in our time and learnt that if 15 si gle.guys put their name down for a 100 person event, youre lucky if 3 attend. I (Mr) was also invited to a gangbang (my first bit ill come back to this) last year and yes, only one other guy turned up with 5 no shows. Not that I was complaining but fact is a lot of guys on here talk the talk but don't walk the walk. And that's the problem. It's fab. For all the people who follow through on their areanged meets and promises there's just as many who don't. So, here's my 2 bits of advice for havimg better success. 1) Use clubs. A greedy girls night or even singles night may get you enough guys if a gangbang is what ypu are after. 2) Vet the guys veris seriously. Are they verified from.other gangbangs. Do they go to clubs or social events? Those are signs they won't waste your time. Not fool proof but still better than nothing. You'll have more success with someone with numerous veris from such events than a guy with 2 meets or a webcam veri. Dosent mean the latter is not legit but statistically speaking (and from experiance), if.you do.the clubs and socials you ain't going to bail on an arranged event. But back to what I said earlier. Gangbangs happen organically on the right nights at clubs. Seen a few happen in my time. If it's your thing that's the best place to make it happen. The guys are there and ready to go usually. Hope this helps and good luck. We did try the club thing Twice And both time Not sound rude or arrogant the standard of guys to pick from was well.... not gr8" Exactly this! People say “go to a club” but if you aren’t attracted to many/any of the guys there.. it’s not going to happen either. | |||
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"Not 100% the same but we've run a few social events on here in our time and learnt that if 15 si gle.guys put their name down for a 100 person event, youre lucky if 3 attend. I (Mr) was also invited to a gangbang (my first bit ill come back to this) last year and yes, only one other guy turned up with 5 no shows. Not that I was complaining but fact is a lot of guys on here talk the talk but don't walk the walk. And that's the problem. It's fab. For all the people who follow through on their areanged meets and promises there's just as many who don't. So, here's my 2 bits of advice for havimg better success. 1) Use clubs. A greedy girls night or even singles night may get you enough guys if a gangbang is what ypu are after. 2) Vet the guys veris seriously. Are they verified from.other gangbangs. Do they go to clubs or social events? Those are signs they won't waste your time. Not fool proof but still better than nothing. You'll have more success with someone with numerous veris from such events than a guy with 2 meets or a webcam veri. Dosent mean the latter is not legit but statistically speaking (and from experiance), if.you do.the clubs and socials you ain't going to bail on an arranged event. But back to what I said earlier. Gangbangs happen organically on the right nights at clubs. Seen a few happen in my time. If it's your thing that's the best place to make it happen. The guys are there and ready to go usually. Hope this helps and good luck. We did try the club thing Twice And both time Not sound rude or arrogant the standard of guys to pick from was well.... not gr8 Exactly this! People say “go to a club” but if you aren’t attracted to many/any of the guys there.. it’s not going to happen either. " Then go again, or go to a different club. The clientele aren't permanent parts of the fittings. | |||
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"Not 100% the same but we've run a few social events on here in our time and learnt that if 15 si gle.guys put their name down for a 100 person event, youre lucky if 3 attend. I (Mr) was also invited to a gangbang (my first bit ill come back to this) last year and yes, only one other guy turned up with 5 no shows. Not that I was complaining but fact is a lot of guys on here talk the talk but don't walk the walk. And that's the problem. It's fab. For all the people who follow through on their areanged meets and promises there's just as many who don't. So, here's my 2 bits of advice for havimg better success. 1) Use clubs. A greedy girls night or even singles night may get you enough guys if a gangbang is what ypu are after. 2) Vet the guys veris seriously. Are they verified from.other gangbangs. Do they go to clubs or social events? Those are signs they won't waste your time. Not fool proof but still better than nothing. You'll have more success with someone with numerous veris from such events than a guy with 2 meets or a webcam veri. Dosent mean the latter is not legit but statistically speaking (and from experiance), if.you do.the clubs and socials you ain't going to bail on an arranged event. But back to what I said earlier. Gangbangs happen organically on the right nights at clubs. Seen a few happen in my time. If it's your thing that's the best place to make it happen. The guys are there and ready to go usually. Hope this helps and good luck. We did try the club thing Twice And both time Not sound rude or arrogant the standard of guys to pick from was well.... not gr8 Exactly this! People say “go to a club” but if you aren’t attracted to many/any of the guys there.. it’s not going to happen either. " Completely agree with this. It’s hard enough finding one decent guy in a club let alone a group of them! | |||
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" Then go again, or go to a different club. The clientele aren't permanent parts of the fittings. " I have and I have! I am just too fussy for my own good… I really need to be attracted, as in jaw droppping excited and attracted and that doesn’t happen often! It does happen with many ladies though. One day I will have time to tour some clubs outside of the South East … | |||
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"Not 100% the same but we've run a few social events on here in our time and learnt that if 15 si gle.guys put their name down for a 100 person event, youre lucky if 3 attend. I (Mr) was also invited to a gangbang (my first bit ill come back to this) last year and yes, only one other guy turned up with 5 no shows. Not that I was complaining but fact is a lot of guys on here talk the talk but don't walk the walk. And that's the problem. It's fab. For all the people who follow through on their areanged meets and promises there's just as many who don't. So, here's my 2 bits of advice for havimg better success. 1) Use clubs. A greedy girls night or even singles night may get you enough guys if a gangbang is what ypu are after. 2) Vet the guys veris seriously. Are they verified from.other gangbangs. Do they go to clubs or social events? Those are signs they won't waste your time. Not fool proof but still better than nothing. You'll have more success with someone with numerous veris from such events than a guy with 2 meets or a webcam veri. Dosent mean the latter is not legit but statistically speaking (and from experiance), if.you do.the clubs and socials you ain't going to bail on an arranged event. But back to what I said earlier. Gangbangs happen organically on the right nights at clubs. Seen a few happen in my time. If it's your thing that's the best place to make it happen. The guys are there and ready to go usually. Hope this helps and good luck. We did try the club thing Twice And both time Not sound rude or arrogant the standard of guys to pick from was well.... not gr8 Exactly this! People say “go to a club” but if you aren’t attracted to many/any of the guys there.. it’s not going to happen either. Completely agree with this. It’s hard enough finding one decent guy in a club let alone a group of them!" Thank you Second and last time we went we were followed about by a 'tipsy' fella aged about 70 Was a bit creepy to be fair | |||
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"Has anyone else found it Ridiculously difficult to find genuine people We have tried three times to set up a five on one gangbang for my wife and so far Twice , no one showed and once only one guy turned up I don't understand why it's sooo difficult " Crazy , id be there in a flash but you are So far away. Gutted | |||
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"I've only arranged parties myself and that was difficult but every account I've heard suggests gangbangs are worse. The usual rule of thumb quoted is to invite twice as many men as you want / need although your experience seems to have been even worse. I don't really know why so many don't turn up but my guess has always been bottling it when confronted with the reality. Anyway, my suggestion are: * there are a few groups of men on fab who specialise in arranging gangbangs. Maybe look to see if there are any in your area. * go to a club that has a greedy girls event. The men there are already, well, *there*. It has worked well the few times I have taken someone for that purpose. * try again and overbook? Last time we invite 14 guys 1 showed up " A couple I knew used to arrange bukkakes, and got really good at it. There were always 2 women and they aimed to get around 20 men at each event, I found it incredible that they used to aim for 140 , yes 140, confirmed attendees to get the 20 that they actually wanted. | |||
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"I can. On the party we hosted we must have invited every couple on fab within a 50m radius and we only had about 5 or 6 couples actually come." Oi we are 42 miles away but didn't get an invite 6 couples is great mind you if good people. Sounds fun. Better to have 6 decent couples who will play than 20 who just want to socialise or not play with others much. | |||
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"I've only arranged parties myself and that was difficult but every account I've heard suggests gangbangs are worse. The usual rule of thumb quoted is to invite twice as many men as you want / need although your experience seems to have been even worse. I don't really know why so many don't turn up but my guess has always been bottling it when confronted with the reality. Anyway, my suggestion are: * there are a few groups of men on fab who specialise in arranging gangbangs. Maybe look to see if there are any in your area. * go to a club that has a greedy girls event. The men there are already, well, *there*. It has worked well the few times I have taken someone for that purpose. * try again and overbook? Last time we invite 14 guys 1 showed up A couple I knew used to arrange bukkakes, and got really good at it. There were always 2 women and they aimed to get around 20 men at each event, I found it incredible that they used to aim for 140 , yes 140, confirmed attendees to get the 20 that they actually wanted." Doesn't surprise me in the least 140 for 20 | |||
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"Go to a greedy girls night in a club..you can't fail" I think some of us prefer the more selective approach. Hells has done before with 10 men at a club but selectivity of men aside it's a pain as fair drive to all and mostly start and end at silly o'clock or daytimes when working. Need some starting at 7 and ending at 10 for us old fogies | |||
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"Has anyone else found it Ridiculously difficult to find genuine people We have tried three times to set up a five on one gangbang for my wife and so far Twice , no one showed and once only one guy turned up I don't understand why it's sooo difficult " More pics of the missus are needed, gaping cum hole and some squirting should do! | |||
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"2nd September, get along to OP4F she will enjoy herself for sure" OP4F ? what's that car registration number or ya WiFi code | |||
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"I went to one a few years ago. The couple invited twice the number of men needed as usual. Only trouble was, they ALL turned up. " There is always that fear too Sods law qe invite 100 and they all bloody show up lol | |||
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"Has anyone else found it Ridiculously difficult to find genuine people We have tried three times to set up a five on one gangbang for my wife and so far Twice , no one showed and once only one guy turned up I don't understand why it's sooo difficult More pics of the missus are needed, gaping cum hole and some squirting should do! " 'Gaping Cum Hole ' .... classy, you would definitely get an invite Whoooooo yeah , front of the Line baby , ya smooth talking bitch FFS | |||
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"They use to say if you want 5 guys for a gang bang then invite triple and hopefully 5 will show up.Having read this thread it now seems if you want 5 guys multiple by 7.I have attend OP4F and Rios spa in the past and some ladies are specific in the type of guys they are looking for others less so. I think one of the reasons guys don’t show up for gang bangs of 5 plus guys is at times 2-3 guys could be standing around waiting a turn where as in a 3sum you are playing pretty much all the time" We have following r gangbangs before and if ya know what ya doing with 4 or 5 then no one should bec' waiting ' around As for 'our type' surley if we message someone on fab and invite them Then they must be our type as apposed to turning up blind a club | |||
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"They use to say if you want 5 guys for a gang bang then invite triple and hopefully 5 will show up.Having read this thread it now seems if you want 5 guys multiple by 7.I have attend OP4F and Rios spa in the past and some ladies are specific in the type of guys they are looking for others less so. I think one of the reasons guys don’t show up for gang bangs of 5 plus guys is at times 2-3 guys could be standing around waiting a turn where as in a 3sum you are playing pretty much all the time We have following r gangbangs before and if ya know what ya doing with 4 or 5 then no one should bec' waiting ' around As for 'our type' surley if we message someone on fab and invite them Then they must be our type as apposed to turning up blind a club " Bloody predicted text.... *we have had gangbangs before ( that's how the reply should start ) | |||
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"I have a kik group set up for a gb I have arranged for a female on here. At present 21 guys. Will see how many turn up. From previous experience if half show up you have done well " Interested to see how this goes. We had two kik groups at one point with most people pretty local. Organised one big social which turned into a play party. I think across the two groups invited maybe 60 men. Once date and location fixed maybe 30 said yes. As time got closer and had to firm up details dropped to many 15. In the end I think 6-7 turned up for the social. Had more ladies than men. Three ended up playing one of whom left the room after 30 mins as was all too much for him and another left to play alone with a lady. Maybe if explicity a play event more would have turned up but I doubt it. There are many exceptions but after a few years running kik groups feel they tend to attract people who aren't really that serious about meeting but like the chat/fantasy or really only want one on one fun. | |||
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"I have a kik group set up for a gb I have arranged for a female on here. At present 21 guys. Will see how many turn up. From previous experience if half show up you have done well Interested to see how this goes. We had two kik groups at one point with most people pretty local. Organised one big social which turned into a play party. I think across the two groups invited maybe 60 men. Once date and location fixed maybe 30 said yes. As time got closer and had to firm up details dropped to many 15. In the end I think 6-7 turned up for the social. Had more ladies than men. Three ended up playing one of whom left the room after 30 mins as was all too much for him and another left to play alone with a lady. Maybe if explicity a play event more would have turned up but I doubt it. There are many exceptions but after a few years running kik groups feel they tend to attract people who aren't really that serious about meeting but like the chat/fantasy or really only want one on one fun. " . I have joined kik groups in the past where the person who had started a thread wants to move it onto kik. When I have joined I have made it clear I can’t accommodate and normally need a bit of notice and preferably the location is easy to get to and from via underground if there is no parking.Unfortunately it seems that some guys on the kik group start privately messaging the couples or single ladies who end up leaving the group.Now a days when I hear someone wanting to start a kik group I fear it is never going to get off the ground but I live in hope | |||
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"Has anyone else found it Ridiculously difficult to find genuine people We have tried three times to set up a five on one gangbang for my wife and so far Twice , no one showed and once only one guy turned up I don't understand why it's sooo difficult " It's very difficult but persevere, we've had a few. Just remember about 80% of people on here have no real intention of meeting. They're not timewasters as such, just dreamers and fantasists. We just kept going and it came good in the end. Look at verifications of guys actually meeting in real life. Good luck, well worth the trawl. | |||
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"Has anyone else found it Ridiculously difficult to find genuine people We have tried three times to set up a five on one gangbang for my wife and so far Twice , no one showed and once only one guy turned up I don't understand why it's sooo difficult " I'd love an invite. If I say I can come I'll be there! | |||
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"As much as I would like to be in a gangbang I don't think I'd respond to a group event invite from anyone I hadn't already met. With the ratio of single men on here, it must be reasonably easy for women and couples to meet guys... one at a time, see if they're genuine and invite those guys you like and who show up? " lol we don't have time to meet 10 men one at a time Even if we did it is unlikely that many of them would be available on the same day/time/location to meet together. Also there is a bit of a thrill sometimes in just meeting a stranger once and that's it. | |||
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" lol we don't have time to meet 10 men one at a time Even if we did it is unlikely that many of them would be available on the same day/time/location to meet together. Also there is a bit of a thrill sometimes in just meeting a stranger once and that's it. " Fair enough, just a thought. Have read a lot of people here saying it's difficult to get reliable men to show up for a gangbang. How about asking people to pay a deposit that they get back when they arrive ? Dunno. Wish I lived a bit closer to you, I'd happily take part | |||
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