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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all,

We are looking to meet unverified guys (26-40) for no pressure socials (drinks only). We will be looking to meet this Friday 30th at a pub in Leicester.

We will verify those that we meet.

So, if interested in getting that veri tick, drop us a message with a face pic (we like to see who we are chatting to) and we will take things from there xx

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

why??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys always complain no one will meet them and give them a chance, this is a chance for them, if they want to take it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a great idea, although I'm not sure why it's an offer only to single guys?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Simply because, fun could potentially lead from these meets at a future date, and secondly it's only guys that complain they can't get meets. Never seen a woman or couple post in the threads that they can't get meets lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Simply because, fun could potentially lead from these meets at a future date, and secondly it's only guys that complain they can't get meets. Never seen a woman or couple post in the threads that they can't get meets lol"

Blimey, I do all the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simply because, fun could potentially lead from these meets at a future date, and secondly it's only guys that complain they can't get meets. Never seen a woman or couple post in the threads that they can't get meets lol"

Plenty of couples on here complain about meets.

And in the vast majority of cases a lack of a verification is far from the main stumbling block as to why singlemen struggle to get meets on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's a great idea, although I'm not sure why it's an offer only to single guys?"

It is indeed a great idea, love to here how it went. Have you had many unverified guys contact you now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will you be getting them to do a pitch like in Dragons Den?

It is a good idea though and I am sure you will get a good turn out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think its a great idea and i can see how it could be a turn on to you both, helping a guy in need, the unmeetables :P (just reminded me of that prog the undateables, mean no harm by saying it, as ive lacked in meets lately too)

Im sure you will meet some fantastic guys from this, have fun :D

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I think it's a great idea!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm verified.....does that mean I can't come along?

I'm all confuddled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm verified.....does that mean I can't come along?

I'm all confuddled.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Hi all,

We are looking to meet unverified guys (26-40) for no pressure socials (drinks only). We will be looking to meet this Friday 30th at a pub in Leicester.

We will verify those that we meet.

So, if interested in getting that veri tick, drop us a message with a face pic (we like to see who we are chatting to) and we will take things from there xx"

I think it is a fantastic idea. I do struggle to get meets especially due to location so would be great if some cpls from Irl or London took a leaf out of your book. Keep up the good work!! J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

We are looking to meet unverified guys (26-40) for no pressure socials (drinks only). We will be looking to meet this Friday 30th at a pub in Leicester.

We will verify those that we meet.

So, if interested in getting that veri tick, drop us a message with a face pic (we like to see who we are chatting to) and we will take things from there xx"

Shame you are only looking to meet white males

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Hi all,

We are looking to meet unverified guys (26-40) for no pressure socials (drinks only). We will be looking to meet this Friday 30th at a pub in Leicester.

We will verify those that we meet.

So, if interested in getting that veri tick, drop us a message with a face pic (we like to see who we are chatting to) and we will take things from there xx

Shame you are only looking to meet white males "

I hadn't noticed that! Strange seeing as its just a social to allow guys to get verified xxx

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Social is social. White, black, blue, yellow...the skin colour doesn't matter. This is just an idea by the OP...if anyonefancy going that's good. What they put on their profile as preference shouldn't stop any black guy to turn up and get ticked as long as he put in his mind that he won't get any shag from them..

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By *ickaLiciouseMan
over a year ago

Macclesfield

To bad no1 does this good gesture in south (

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

That's not how it comes accross in the 'meet me' it states white males only.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

The OP has clearly stated on the meets and on profile that they have a preference for White males only.

If that's what they want it's up to them, hope you get what your looking for OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's not how it comes accross in the 'meet me' it states white males only. "

We meet white guys as its a preference for future meets. We do not mind others turning up but we won't be playing at a future meet. We try to meet guys that would be our ideal company in a social meet.

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By *andcCouple
over a year ago

London and Cheshire

Don't like the idea!

what does it prove, that your are a single male? but if your going to pretend to be something your not then you'll pick single female or couple!

The fact they will turn up, doesn't wash either, we have found social meets are no indication of the person showing up for a play meet! In fact we used to meet people for a social drink always before playing (with some not being verified) only to get very disappointed when the didn't show. Now we always meet people with plenty of verifications we also checkout the people who are verifying them to, for an indication of the chances they will show, has worked well for us over the past few years, but better still is plenty of friends who we have met and played, if they message to say the cannot make it , knowning them well, we came assume that the problem is genuine!

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By *andcCouple
over a year ago

London and Cheshire


"Don't like the idea!

what does it prove, that your are a single male? but if your going to pretend to be something your not then you'll pick single female or couple!

The fact they will turn up, doesn't wash either, we have found social meets are no indication of the person showing up for a play meet! In fact we used to meet people for a social drink always before playing (with some not being verified) only to get very disappointed when the didn't show. Now we always meet people with plenty of verifications we also checkout the people who are verifying them to, for an indication of the chances they will show, has worked well for us over the past few years, but better still is plenty of friends who we have met and played, if they message to say the cannot make it , knowning them well, we came assume that the problem is genuine!"
PS we have never verified a person we have met socially, only after we have played...it is a swingers site after all!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a fantastic idea. The OP gets to peruse future partners and the guys have a few drinks and get verified. Meet some other fabbers and have a bitch and moan about stuff probably too. And its not a club so they aren't paying £40 for the privilege.

I know a verification isn't the be all and end all, but it's a start. As long as the OP remembers names of all they talk to!

Good idea, hope its a winner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

We are looking to meet unverified guys (26-40) for no pressure socials (drinks only). We will be looking to meet this Friday 30th at a pub in Leicester.

We will verify those that we meet.

So, if interested in getting that veri tick, drop us a message with a face pic (we like to see who we are chatting to) and we will take things from there xx"

loonatics

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By *ickaLiciouseMan
over a year ago

Macclesfield


"That's not how it comes accross in the 'meet me' it states white males only.

We meet white guys as its a preference for future meets. We do not mind others turning up but we won't be playing at a future meet. We try to meet guys that would be our ideal company in a social meet. "

What u mean by white ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's not how it comes accross in the 'meet me' it states white males only.

We meet white guys as its a preference for future meets. We do not mind others turning up but we won't be playing at a future meet. We try to meet guys that would be our ideal company in a social meet.

What u mean by white ???"

Would think that was obvious, guys that are white

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't like the idea!

what does it prove, that your are a single male? but if your going to pretend to be something your not then you'll pick single female or couple!

The fact they will turn up, doesn't wash either, we have found social meets are no indication of the person showing up for a play meet! In fact we used to meet people for a social drink always before playing (with some not being verified) only to get very disappointed when the didn't show. Now we always meet people with plenty of verifications we also checkout the people who are verifying them to, for an indication of the chances they will show, has worked well for us over the past few years, but better still is plenty of friends who we have met and played, if they message to say the cannot make it , knowning them well, we came assume that the problem is genuine! PS we have never verified a person we have met socially, only after we have played...it is a swingers site after all!!!!"

And is socialising not part of swinging?

We do meet and swing too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't like the idea!

what does it prove, that your are a single male? but if your going to pretend to be something your not then you'll pick single female or couple!

The fact they will turn up, doesn't wash either, we have found social meets are no indication of the person showing up for a play meet! In fact we used to meet people for a social drink always before playing (with some not being verified) only to get very disappointed when the didn't show. Now we always meet people with plenty of verifications we also checkout the people who are verifying them to, for an indication of the chances they will show, has worked well for us over the past few years, but better still is plenty of friends who we have met and played, if they message to say the cannot make it , knowning them well, we came assume that the problem is genuine!"

Yes that might work for you, we find socials work for us, and had repeat meets from guys we have met on a social.

Everyone does things different, just because our way isn't for you, doesn't make it wrong!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi all,

We are looking to meet unverified guys (26-40) for no pressure socials (drinks only). We will be looking to meet this Friday 30th at a pub in Leicester.

We will verify those that we meet.

So, if interested in getting that veri tick, drop us a message with a face pic (we like to see who we are chatting to) and we will take things from there xx

Shame you are only looking to meet white males

I hadn't noticed that! Strange seeing as its just a social to allow guys to get verified xxx "

And are we not allowed to choose who we meet socially??

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By *ickaLiciouseMan
over a year ago

Macclesfield


"That's not how it comes accross in the 'meet me' it states white males only.

We meet white guys as its a preference for future meets. We do not mind others turning up but we won't be playing at a future meet. We try to meet guys that would be our ideal company in a social meet.

What u mean by white ???

Would think that was obvious, guys that are white "

So do i meet the criteria ??

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"That's not how it comes accross in the 'meet me' it states white males only.

We meet white guys as its a preference for future meets. We do not mind others turning up but we won't be playing at a future meet. We try to meet guys that would be our ideal company in a social meet.

What u mean by white ???

Would think that was obvious, guys that are white

So do i meet the criteria ?? "

Ask them.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Hi all,

We are looking to meet unverified guys (26-40) for no pressure socials (drinks only). We will be looking to meet this Friday 30th at a pub in Leicester.

We will verify those that we meet.

So, if interested in getting that veri tick, drop us a message with a face pic (we like to see who we are chatting to) and we will take things from there xx

Shame you are only looking to meet white males

I hadn't noticed that! Strange seeing as its just a social to allow guys to get verified xxx

And are we not allowed to choose who we meet socially??"

Of course you are. Just from reading the original post it seemed like it was a good deed thing to help out unverified guys. Now it's clear it's to get potential play partners and you have a preference for white guys (as do I) then it makes more sense. Good luck!! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's a good deed to help out unverified guys that we would potentially play with, and feel like some people on forums can be just plain nasty or rude, your message came across that way, whether it was meant intentionally or not.

At times, it feels like you have to defend yourself on forums, when you should be able to post something without a load negative feedback, after all our original post wasn't rude, wasn't a rant or moan, can't win on these forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's not how it comes accross in the 'meet me' it states white males only.

We meet white guys as its a preference for future meets. We do not mind others turning up but we won't be playing at a future meet. We try to meet guys that would be our ideal company in a social meet.

What u mean by white ???

Would think that was obvious, guys that are white

So do i meet the criteria ?? "

If you aren't black or Asian then we would class you as white

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"It's a good deed to help out unverified guys that we would potentially play with, and feel like some people on forums can be just plain nasty or rude, your message came across that way, whether it was meant intentionally or not.

At times, it feels like you have to defend yourself on forums, when you should be able to post something without a load negative feedback, after all our original post wasn't rude, wasn't a rant or moan, can't win on these forums "
I did comment previously saying it was a good idea. Had no intention to sound rude if that's how it came across I apologise. I for one don't pay much attention for non verified profiles but everyone has to start somewhere I suppose. Hope it works out better for you next week x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everything worked out fine this week, the only down points were the negative comments on this thread.

But lesson learnt, won't bother posting on forums again

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